Talking About Past Relationships; Is It Harmful?

Date: 29-04-2011 10:30 am (12 years ago) | Author: Bassey susan
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- at 29-04-2011 10:30 AM (12 years ago)
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Is it proper for a boy or girl to tell the fiance/fiancee all his/er past sucess and failures in relationships or will he/she use it against (judge) him/her? Pls i need ur opinions. tnx

Posted: at 29-04-2011 10:30 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
- dirtykid at 29-04-2011 10:43 AM (12 years ago)
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Everything depends on personal understanding !! But i will advice to keep the past to the past, and face the new rhythms, Don't mis-issues, some Men and Women really don't like to hear about the past.
 

Posted: at 29-04-2011 10:43 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 29-04-2011 10:45 AM (12 years ago)
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DK said it all
Posted: at 29-04-2011 10:45 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 29-04-2011 10:47 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Basue on 29-04-2011 10:30 AM
Is it proper for a boy or girl to tell the fiance/fiancee all his/er past sucess and failures in relationships or will he/she use it against (judge) him/her? Pls i need ur opinions. tnx

Depends! If he asks u,if he really wants to know,or if u consider that there's something
which he should know, u can tell him,but not in detail!
Let the past to be past!

Posted: at 29-04-2011 10:47 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- soljurn16 at 29-04-2011 10:56 AM (12 years ago)
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Its beta to tell him or her what they ought to know so that if they found out or are confronted with it in the future they wont feel hurt., if he or she is undastandin enuf he/she wld even stand by you
Posted: at 29-04-2011 10:56 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- MissyBarbie at 29-04-2011 10:57 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Basue on 29-04-2011 10:30 AM
Is it proper for a boy or girl to tell the fiance/fiancee all his/er past sucess and failures in relationships or will he/she use it against (judge) him/her? Pls i need ur opinions. tnx

Dont even think of telling him your past....he's definitely gonna use it against you in future.
Your Past stays with you and you alone.
Posted: at 29-04-2011 10:57 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- umide at 29-04-2011 11:02 AM (12 years ago)
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That is why been into a relationship should be from 24 upward
Posted: at 29-04-2011 11:02 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- blessedme at 29-04-2011 11:12 AM (12 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 29-04-2011 11:12 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 29-04-2011 11:15 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: umide on 29-04-2011 11:02 AM
That is why been into a relationship should be from 24 upward

AGE IS NT maturity
Posted: at 29-04-2011 11:15 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 29-04-2011 11:23 AM (12 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 29-04-2011 11:23 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 29-04-2011 11:51 AM (12 years ago)
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 Grin
Posted: at 29-04-2011 11:51 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 29-04-2011 12:00 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 29-04-2011 11:15 AM
Quote from: umide on 29-04-2011 11:02 AM
That is why been into a relationship should be from 24 upward

AGE IS NT maturity

Abi ooooo
Posted: at 29-04-2011 12:00 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 29-04-2011 12:01 PM (12 years ago)
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What is Maturity ? Nwam tell me

Posted: at 29-04-2011 12:01 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sobeit at 29-04-2011 12:03 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Basue on 29-04-2011 10:30 AM
Is it proper for a boy or girl to tell the fiance/fiancee all his/er past sucess and failures in relationships or will he/she use it against (judge) him/her? Pls i need ur opinions. tnx

it all depends on the situation at hand.but in normal circumstances it's not advisable at all to let him/her know your past cuz it could backfired.
Posted: at 29-04-2011 12:03 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 29-04-2011 12:06 PM (12 years ago)
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THEN SO BE IT SHIKINI

Posted: at 29-04-2011 12:06 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 29-04-2011 12:08 PM (12 years ago)
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Gbam !! Full stop with coma open and close  Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 29-04-2011 12:08 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sobeit at 29-04-2011 12:08 PM (12 years ago)
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yap! SO BE IT!!! 50SCENT
Posted: at 29-04-2011 12:08 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pepesy at 29-04-2011 12:08 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 29-04-2011 10:47 AM
Quote from: Basue on 29-04-2011 10:30 AM
Is it proper for a boy or girl to tell the fiance/fiancee all his/er past sucess and failures in relationships or will he/she use it against (judge) him/her? Pls i need ur opinions. tnx

Depends! If he asks u,if he really wants to know,or if u consider that there's something
which he should know, u can tell him,but not in detail!
Let the past to be past!


Owu mkpa owu nwanne
Posted: at 29-04-2011 12:08 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 29-04-2011 12:10 PM (12 years ago)
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and wat's your past?.good or bad?.well,i dont know.
Posted: at 29-04-2011 12:10 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sobeit at 29-04-2011 12:10 PM (12 years ago)
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lol..@pepsy so u think bs will understand ur igbo  Cheesy
Posted: at 29-04-2011 12:10 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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