Is it proper for a boy or girl to tell the fiance/fiancee all his/er past sucess and failures in relationships or will he/she use it against (judge) him/her? Pls i need ur opinions. tnx
Posted: at 29-04-2011 10:30 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
dirtykid at 29-04-2011 10:43 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Everything depends on personal understanding !! But i will advice to keep the past to the past, and face the new rhythms, Don't mis-issues, some Men and Women really don't like to hear about the past.
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Posted: at 29-04-2011 10:43 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 29-04-2011 10:47 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Basue on 29-04-2011 10:30 AM
Is it proper for a boy or girl to tell the fiance/fiancee all his/er past sucess and failures in relationships or will he/she use it against (judge) him/her? Pls i need ur opinions. tnx
Depends! If he asks u,if he really wants to know,or if u consider that there's something which he should know, u can tell him,but not in detail! Let the past to be past!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 29-04-2011 10:47 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
soljurn16 at 29-04-2011 10:56 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Its beta to tell him or her what they ought to know so that if they found out or are confronted with it in the future they wont feel hurt., if he or she is undastandin enuf he/she wld even stand by you
Posted: at 29-04-2011 10:56 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
MissyBarbie at 29-04-2011 10:57 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Basue on 29-04-2011 10:30 AM
Is it proper for a boy or girl to tell the fiance/fiancee all his/er past sucess and failures in relationships or will he/she use it against (judge) him/her? Pls i need ur opinions. tnx
Dont even think of telling him your past....he's definitely gonna use it against you in future. Your Past stays with you and you alone.
Posted: at 29-04-2011 10:57 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
Is it proper for a boy or girl to tell the fiance/fiancee all his/er past sucess and failures in relationships or will he/she use it against (judge) him/her? Pls i need ur opinions. tnx
it all depends on the situation at hand.but in normal circumstances it's not advisable at all to let him/her know your past cuz it could backfired.
Posted: at 29-04-2011 12:03 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Is it proper for a boy or girl to tell the fiance/fiancee all his/er past sucess and failures in relationships or will he/she use it against (judge) him/her? Pls i need ur opinions. tnx
Depends! If he asks u,if he really wants to know,or if u consider that there's something which he should know, u can tell him,but not in detail! Let the past to be past!
Owu mkpa owu nwanne
Posted: at 29-04-2011 12:08 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac