Was I Wrong in my Decision (Page 10)

Just wondering ow i could be selfish when i dont even have female frnds not to talk of male frnds cos he actually stop ma females from coming around me all in d name dat they will spoil me.......and am still thinking bout d reasons i gave to him not to trust me....wen he is d on one cheating opposite my flat....under ma nose which i always forgive

i will be very grateful if u could highlight d reasons and ow selfish i could have been

My Fiance nags alot always seeing things that needeth to be overlook as serious issues
He wouldnt allow me greet any male frnd on d road without me answering questions even on those he knows
He has registered all d numbers in my phone in his memory and thereby if any new number call or i store any new number on ma phone, I will have to give account on what was our discussion before calling or exchanging of numbers were involve
He slaps me and seizes my phone on different occassions
He checked my phones and monitor my movement as if i have guards following me around
He has asked some of his frnds within my neighborhood to keep eye on me, to inform him if i ever talk/see any man

Recently, He forwarded my incoming and outgoing calls to his phone so he can always have access to my discussion with anyone......so my madam (boss) called me yesterday buh i wasnt close to my phone....so i had a miss call which also rang on his phone as a missed call...later on, he started flashing my madam often times and then later called and started toasting her on d phone.....later in d night about 20 mins to twelve midnight he sent a text to the woman asking her if she knew anything about me.....but d woman quickly called me up from sleep and ask me if i knew this man and also forward d text message and d number to ma phone.......

i couldnt deny......and then d woman was so furious on how i gave my fiance her number or wat if her hubby was at home wat could have become of her that night.....

After pleading with her not to be offended, this morning she almost terminate ma appointment with d company if not for d pleas of other staff....and then i called ma fiance and told him off cos all ma frnds, relatives and otherwise, doesnt like his behaviour and d way he treats me, buh cos of d love i have for him, i learnt to endure and tolerates so much rubbish from him

Just want to know especially from d ladies, if u were in ma shoes what would u have done

serious matters, this ur guy no trust u atall, hv u talk to him about it let him know dat nt the way to go about it, if no improvement then u shld let go for d fast dat u married him wnt mk u turn enemy to ur frnds, every one needs freedom.

well, his actions is simply called jealous
 this guy loves u truely n he is h¡need u to go far wif¡th him
 many guys re like that
though i must confess its getting too far even to get ur work rid off
  ma advice,watch if u ve in any way showed him the reasons to be jealous n furous over
 u?then try to be open to him but not mumu anyway,
 dont allow a guy to slap u n u take it easy wif him,just show him u care but dont allow mess ok
 matured game pls

WOMAN WHAT HAVE I DONE THIS TIME, NO LET KB GET ANGRY AGAIN, HMM WHAT?

she no need cuz media has already apply

You`ve really endured a lot, i fink you`ve  probably give him reason(s) in the past to be suspicious of you. Men are naturally Jealous compare to the opposite sex. Am a man and i cant encourage you to remain in such relationship pls be careful. Ble  Ble the guy loves you he need to be counsel and if he doesn't change you move on. Is he working? if he does and he is preoccupy im no go dey monitor yah calls. I commend you for the boldness to open up. Its well with you may God put smile on your face concerning all yah heart desire. Be strong abeg don't let it weigh you down.