Maka Why? (Page 4)

Date: 05-05-2011 4:58 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Uju Obuekwe
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- FlyMamacita at 5-05-2011 08:48 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on  5-05-2011 08:11 PM
watin i wnt ask be say, y stay in a relationship for dat long no proposing na nw d girl realize say na one chance she enter ni, if a guy is ready to marry u one year is ok for him to propose and start d marriage plan nt 5 - 7 years make u turn liability for hin hand ni,

Guys if u Know u wnt marry a girl y keep her for dat long? expecting her to do ur wify duties na wa sha

1 yrs is kinda short...no?



1 year till he proposes?
Neeeeeh!Till then the guy will know if it's her d one he wants!


1 yr is too fast rite ?



No,sweetie, it's not fast at all!
I'm not saying to get married by that time,but the proposal usually comes till then,if he is really sure he wants her,
but if has doubts, he'll delay!



I disagree,, how can u know a person to the limit of proposin in 1 year  Huh? Huh?
If a guy wud ask me after 1 year my answer wud b NO




 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
1 year of intensive dating and he still didn't pop d question? (note:I'm referring at adult ppl here,not teenagers or something)
So,it shouldn't take him so long till he knows that the 'one' is in his life,that there was never anyone like her in his life b4 and he knows there won't be again.So normally he should stop dilly-dallying and get on with it. Grin




looool  Grin Grin no my dear i dont tink there is a time set to it....Not everybody is d same,
am not dat fast wen its abt feelings and tins like dat  Smiley

Posted: at 5-05-2011 08:48 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- eomo at 5-05-2011 09:14 PM (12 years ago)
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Five years! That is a very long time. How long does he need before he propose? Well, i don't blame the guy because the girl is doing everything a wife would do so why bother to propose?
Posted: at 5-05-2011 09:14 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ugochuks at 5-05-2011 09:55 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: eomo on  5-05-2011 09:14 PM
Five years! That is a very long time. How long does he need before he propose? Well, i don't blame the guy because the girl is doing everything a wife would do so why bother to propose?



 Shocked Shocked Shocked bros wait oh!! must he propose? is it must?

Posted: at 5-05-2011 09:55 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ugochuks at 5-05-2011 10:02 PM (12 years ago)
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aunties recently told me that “I must show the guy that I am a wife material otherwise other girls will show him and I will lose out



BB babe!!!  ur aunties don already tell u whats up!!

Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:02 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dirtykid at 5-05-2011 11:07 PM (12 years ago)
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Na waoo.. for this kind of situation. I got something to say to your friend kiru. I think you girls are allowing us ( Men) most times to take advantage of you people. Why i said so is because, 5yrs is not 5 days or weeks nor month, 5 fcuking good years she still don't know what she want or what ? how can she go to a guy she's not married to yet and spend all that long holiday with him? Maka Why ?? Tell me.

And again, is not every relationship must end in Marriage bikooo nu,, Girls take NOTE of this. is not a must that once you're into relationship with a guy, is gonna end at the alter, even if is going to end at the alter, it depends on how you handle the relationship, Men got something in their head, make us to always seek for u, don't be there always, demanding and fcuking around the flat.. atimes give some space, allow us to miss u people, thats why Men start taking ladies serious, They will want to do everything to finally have u around as a wife.

Poster... I blame yr girl ooo more than the guy according to this what you posted here, because this is her own part of the story, we didn't hear from the guy's side.

And for you, Don't come up here again with BB issue, thats one of the thing you girls focus on more, material things and forget to look into serious things about the kind of relationship and the person most of you girls hang around with. If i tell you the phone i'm using, probably u will hide yr BB  Undecided  Anyway na Nokia 3310  Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 5-05-2011 11:07 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- brainline at 6-05-2011 01:28 AM (12 years ago)
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Hmmmmmmm.... stil thinkin
Posted: at 6-05-2011 01:28 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- livingday at 6-05-2011 01:30 AM (12 years ago)
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Your girl friend is strong-headed and hot-tempered. Why couldn't she discuss her worries with him in a civilised manner all those years of sleeping with him? Why bottle-up her resentment over the years? What type of relationship is this that both parties don't know where they are heading after 5 years? Your story is stranger than fiction.
Posted: at 6-05-2011 01:30 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- shaoyang at 6-05-2011 02:01 AM (12 years ago)
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The guy is right, after 5good yrs of dating u hv not bn doing all these things? do u think that lazy ass would finally start doing them after marriage? pure NO, u would probably ask him to look for house help...infact U R NOT A WIFE MATERIAL! These r the things he might hv bn waiting to see u do b4 he proposes & as senseless as u r u comfirmed his fears...The guy na real smart guy, He have use little thing to discharge u just like that..LOSER! Grin
Posted: at 6-05-2011 02:01 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Maggie013 at 6-05-2011 02:34 AM (12 years ago)
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People plz....instead of bein jealous of her BB, whatever it means, stop talkin about it and address the issue!!!
Posted: at 6-05-2011 02:34 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- xter at 6-05-2011 03:26 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  5-05-2011 05:12 PM
No experience cos i no get Blackberry Grin Grin
jealousy jealousy na in go kill u

Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:26 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Chizze at 6-05-2011 03:48 AM (12 years ago)
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In for a penny, they say is in for a pound. Why are people afraid to commit? The man may be a joke, but both of you should have had love for one another before starting a relation. In my previous comments on this forum, I expressed some concern and bewilderment at the rate our people are adopting the western cultures. You allowed him to milk the cow for five years, now he seeks reasons to abscond from realities. Your problem now is you still love him, or do you? This is exactly what women in the west go through; consequently, it is the same reason for high divorce rate in the western world. Sometimes it is good to take a stock and move on with one‘s life. If you are a good woman, five years is enough to show that, then there would be no doubt he will miss you and regret leaving you; because “the devil one knows is better than the angel he/she has not met before“. If he has any feeling for you ,he will come back to you, especially after he jams a crazy woman out there.
Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:48 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- maryclaret at 6-05-2011 04:24 AM (12 years ago)
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Firstly, I got to commend the writer. I enjoyed reading this cause it was really well-written and you kept it interesting. Kudos on that. On the main issue, I had to lol @ the whole matter.. and say a hell no to dishing out wifely duties before you are married. You can do a few things here and there to show that you do care for him and do not want to lose him, but going too far with all the housewife chores is just over the top. It also takes away some of the excitement of marriage...And some of the so called men don't even appreciate it in the end just like your story implied.

Posted: at 6-05-2011 04:24 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 6-05-2011 04:58 AM (12 years ago)
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C'mon lady “whine” for me Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-05-2011 04:58 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- cremey at 6-05-2011 06:03 AM (12 years ago)
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u can cook for him once in while and do chores, just to show him u are responsible enough to be his wife, but dont ever turn it to a duty... do things in such a way that ur man will keep asking for more.. if u do everything for him he will get too relaxed, nt value u again and might delay in marrying u, cos u are already fufulling the duties of his wife so wats the essence of marriage again
Posted: at 6-05-2011 06:03 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- kings_antho at 6-05-2011 06:19 AM (12 years ago)
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Hey sophiebaby, u sound very nasty and jealous. If u don't have anything to contibute, just shut ur dirty mouth up than referring issues' s of BB here. I think poster want to narrate us how the main story started by mentioning BB at first.
Posted: at 6-05-2011 06:19 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- kings_antho at 6-05-2011 06:20 AM (12 years ago)
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Hey sophiebaby, u sound very nasty and jealous. If u don't have anything to contibute, just shut ur dirty mouth up than referring issues' s of BB here. I think poster want to narrate us how the main story started by mentioning BB at first.
Posted: at 6-05-2011 06:20 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- soljurn16 at 6-05-2011 07:15 AM (12 years ago)
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Barbaric act., she should have engaged the guy in a dialogue than storm out of the house ..., ewuu!
Posted: at 6-05-2011 07:15 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- GOLDENMEDAH at 6-05-2011 07:33 AM (12 years ago)
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omo dat guy dey vex ooooo
Posted: at 6-05-2011 07:33 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- estilizo at 6-05-2011 07:49 AM (12 years ago)
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why keep a relationship for that long?,most long term relationships dont end up in marriage,secondly,must you as a lady spend weekends with a guy you aren't married to?your constant presence in around him will make him forget he needs a wife and assume you as married,expecially when you do all the wifely duties each time you are around.She should have a chat with the guy and know where she is heading with that relationship.

Posted: at 6-05-2011 07:49 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wickedman at 6-05-2011 08:01 AM (12 years ago)
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my dear nowadays a girl must show wife-material qualities before her man will propose to her.gone r in the days of our parent where marriage is done in traditions of men, today men have seen lots of ladies and vice versa, we should endevour to study whom we r about to commit our self b4 we enter,most men r not willing to settle down 4 sure especially when they don chop tire--- u know what i mean.
Posted: at 6-05-2011 08:01 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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