Flymamacita, i understand you and where you are coming from Europe, Belgium precisely and now i am in Canada, it is a common practice overseas but not in Naija and that is why they said that she is a witch or whatever. it is unusual in Naija for a man to do cookings or house chores it is reserved maily for women. So don't be surprise. Posted: at 8-05-2011 09:20 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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topcee at 8-05-2011 09:32 PM (12 years ago) (m) she need to do tins to get fit wen gven birth, cus wen she sit n watch only tv, time to pay bak is coming, ur body need normal life, pregnant is not a sickness. as 4 her inlaw`s dis is wat she shld xpect wen tin`s gose dis way, dey ll com bak to love her again, but she shlds not xpect any apolog from any1 Posted: at 8-05-2011 09:32 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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mallorca at 8-05-2011 09:48 PM (12 years ago) (m) na undies i talk o no be pant. he is indeed loving. wish i go see dat kind man. no be d one wey go want me to do everything while heavy and already xpecting
wish no more...i am here to do everytin for you even to clean ur bum bum
HOPE IS MY ROAD,VICTORY IS MY DESTINY Posted: at 8-05-2011 09:48 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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mallorca at 8-05-2011 09:49 PM (12 years ago) (m) sophie wake up from that dream land of *wishers*..so bcoz u are pregnant,meaning u can't able to watch your undies.pregnancy no bey sickness.as u dey dream abeg include your *wish* man to clean your A*#S after you shit..ok?
Bros Dis one pain u nobi small
HOPE IS MY ROAD,VICTORY IS MY DESTINY Posted: at 8-05-2011 09:49 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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truenaija2 at 8-05-2011 09:56 PM (12 years ago) (f) na undies i talk o no be pant. he is indeed loving. wish i go see dat kind man. no be d one wey go want me to do everything while heavy and already xpecting
wish no more...i am here to do everytin for you even to clean ur bum bum LOL Posted: at 8-05-2011 09:56 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Pbajah at 9-05-2011 12:57 AM (12 years ago) (f) i met dis lady on my way 2 church for choir practice,sited outside looking so pale. i decided to stop by and ask her if she was ok,cos shes pregnant, thinking she was under labour. but she started by telling me that her inlaws mother inlaw,sister inlaws and other of her husbands relative are saying that she has poisoned her husbands hrt and made him her house boy, i asked how? she said her husband stoped her from doing all the house chores,and has refused to get her a maid. dat she should only take her bath,rest,watch tv, take a stroll,eat and sleep,so as to not over work herself as she would soon be due for delivery. he even washes her clothes and her undies,sweep the hose, wash the dishes etc. now they are all calling her a witch. i was shocked thou. but didnt knw what to say. all i told her was that she shouldnt mind them. that she,s very lucky to have such a man thats caring and umderstanding. she should be happy and forget abt what her inlaws says. She's indeed a lucky lady bt d problem lies with d man.Guys, nomatter ow ströng u want 2 prove ur luv 2 ur wife,do it wif care wen ur families are dere inother to safeguard d lady. pls pals what should she do, cos its giving her sleepness night.
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mickyjames at 9-05-2011 06:38 AM (12 years ago) (m) na she be de only person wee don carry bele b/4 ?. abi una no sure say she don use her sapelle water cock for her mugu. which kind of washing undies love be that one Posted: at 9-05-2011 06:38 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Dan_Fulani at 9-05-2011 07:10 AM (12 years ago) (m) They only way this marriage can survive is for the couple to get the in-laws out of their business. The husband need to ask his relatives to stop interferring in their marriage. Wish the married couple luck!
dan fulani Posted: at 9-05-2011 07:10 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ajanni at 9-05-2011 08:07 AM (12 years ago) (m) sophie , the special adviser , so thats where the church services ended that day? Posted: at 9-05-2011 08:07 AM (12 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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sophiebaby at 9-05-2011 08:12 AM (12 years ago) (f) nawa oo make dem mind their own business,, if he wan clean/wash/cook
leave am now my sis i wonder oooooo
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 9-05-2011 08:12 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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sophiebaby at 9-05-2011 08:14 AM (12 years ago) (f) i met dis lady on my way 2 church for choir practice,sited outside looking so pale. i decided to stop by and ask her if she was ok,cos shes pregnant, thinking she was under labour. but she started by telling me that her inlaws mother inlaw,sister inlaws and other of her husbands relative are saying that she has poisoned her husbands hrt and made him her house boy, i asked how? she said her husband stoped her from doing all the house chores,and has refused to get her a maid. dat she should only take her bath,rest,watch tv, take a stroll,eat and sleep,so as to not over work herself as she would soon be due for delivery. he even washes her clothes and her undies,sweep the hose, wash the dishes etc. now they are all calling her a witch. i was shocked thou. but didnt knw what to say. all i told her was that she shouldnt mind them. that she,s very lucky to have such a man thats caring and umderstanding. she should be happy and forget abt what her inlaws says.
pls pals what should she do, cos its giving her sleepness night.
The Advice yu should have Given her was to Ask her Husband to get the Maid and put an End to all the Drama so make i go advice the man ni? make en talk say i dey put mouth for their family probs
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 9-05-2011 08:14 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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sophiebaby at 9-05-2011 08:15 AM (12 years ago) (f) African families and marriage mentality..., shuuo! Why dem no leave dis woman make she flex her matrimony? If na western world woman she go don commit murder or send dem to jail... My advice is that she should call her hubby to handle his family n after that for her own good she should place them on her ignore list heheheheheheh. abi ooooooooo
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 9-05-2011 08:15 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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sophiebaby at 9-05-2011 08:16 AM (12 years ago) (f) Tell her to go on her kneels and talk to God in prayers so dat God will touch the hearts of the inlaws and make dem understand dat she did nofin to her hubby. It is only God can Intercede on dat kind of situation bcuz wit our African mentality it looks suspicious even some oyibo sef wil also see it dat way.
kk
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 9-05-2011 08:16 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Grait_love at 9-05-2011 09:19 AM (12 years ago) (m) na undies i talk o no be pant. he is indeed loving. wish i go see dat kind man. no be d one wey go want me to do everything while heavy and already xpecting
:after u don talk pant already_mchw Posted: at 9-05-2011 09:19 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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tando at 9-05-2011 09:36 AM (12 years ago) (f) she's a lucky lady indeed. an african man so carrying? Posted: at 9-05-2011 09:36 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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MEZIELOVE at 9-05-2011 10:25 AM (12 years ago) (m) That shows he is a loving caring husband,helping her wife when she is pregenant is not bad,he is to assist her when the need calls,but i hope the woman will resume her duties after the child birth cos she is to look after the well look of the house while the man goes out to get cash for food and others. Posted: at 9-05-2011 10:25 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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low mentality Posted: at 9-05-2011 10:51 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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tando at 9-05-2011 10:55 AM (12 years ago) (f) low mentality
make it high then Posted: at 9-05-2011 10:55 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Suftyguy at 9-05-2011 11:17 AM (12 years ago) (m) He is a gud man,caring man,bt at de same time foolish.Hw can he give his wife dat priviledge.Even wen she gives brth de man will continue in dat way Posted: at 9-05-2011 11:17 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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tando at 9-05-2011 11:27 AM (12 years ago) (f) i'm looking for someone like him toooooo. lucky lady Posted: at 9-05-2011 11:27 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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