Every Opinion Counts (Page 10)

 

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Posted: at 10-05-2011 06:00 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Wel dis wil mak her 2 knw him more...bt in som cases its wrng,it only dpend 2 dere choices.

Posted: at 10-05-2011 06:30 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

panel of judges....i am learning from u guys...

Posted: at 10-05-2011 06:50 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

I agree that living with ure fiance or gf or bf doesn't guarantee that you wiill find all there is to know about someone. If a person wants to hide something from u, he/she will surely do so. You will only fall into more sin and problems by going to live with him. He will not appreciate you as much as he should. Most importantly after the fact that it;s just not right, marriage has lost it's flavor. What;s the point of marriage after you have seen and experienced all? Even if I say it's not right, what can we do to stop it? NOTHING really. Man shall do as he pleases or are u going to tell a grown ass man or woman not to do something in this time or age where people no dey hear word?

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Posted: at 10-05-2011 06:59 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

living with or moving in with your boyfriend will probably give you the opportunity
to study each other, check for compatability, and determine if you can live
together as husband and wife.

Posted: at 10-05-2011 08:40 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@kennee - i hope u r not planing to keep a girl under your roof forever without paying her pride price..huh?

Posted: at 10-05-2011 09:09 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

if he loves u so much why wont he marry you please dont let love hear this

Posted: at 10-05-2011 09:33 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

U need a law made by ppl for that?
It's God's command! It's ADULTERY!When we stand b4 d Judge of d Universe,u can't  say u didn’t know!If u truly love & care for one another,u'll want a marriage that can be blessed.If not,u'll always be living under d curse of breaking God’s commandments.One of d strongest scriptures in d bible concerning "living together without marriage" is:
Hebrews 13: 4-Marriage is honorable in all,and the bed undefiled:but wh*remongers and adulterers God will judge.
The reasons ppls choose to live together b4 marriage is bcz one,or both parties,want d benefits of marriage,without d commitment.They want d pleasure,but without responsibility.One(or maybe both),r unwilling to make more than a partial commitment to each other.The argument that marriage is only a piece of paper doesn’t hold up!IF IT IS ONLY A PIECE OF PAPER, WHY NOT SIGN IT?
It’s not d piece of paper that is bothersome,it's d "commitment" that d paper represents,that's d problem.This is what 1,or both of them want to avoid.The lack of commitment will almost always insure a failure of d relationship from d very beginning,it's only a matter of time!
What kind of moral parameters have those ppls set for themselves?The thing that is going to make ur marriage succeed,is not whether u’ve tried each other out!Anybody can be on their best behavior when on trial.But d success (or failure)is going to be determined by d stuff out of which d 2 of u r made, by d moral & spiritual values u hold!

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Posted: at 10-05-2011 09:37 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

God bless you BS,you have said it all.

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Posted: at 10-05-2011 10:55 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

WOW!FANTASTIC AND VERY,VERY CORRECT PASTOR bitterSWEET

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Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:34 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming