STOPPING A GIRL FROM OUTING?

tell ram make e free them jare or expect more pregnancies

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Posted: at 27-05-2011 10:57 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

So parents no get control for ye piking again?

Posted: at 27-05-2011 11:07 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Thats why is good to educate the girls allot about what is going on in the world, is not about security, is about letting them know the advantage and disadvantage in life, at the same time, ask them what they think and feel, get to know them, give them freedom to do things not caging them, Caging them from such life will make them to start feeling there's so much sweet things about what Dad or Mum is preventing her to do, so once she discover the land of sweet honey, she will always sneak to get it, she will not know the consequences and disadvantages of it because there was no communication between the dad, Mum and her to know what she suppose to know early.

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Posted: at 27-05-2011 11:24 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

protecting one child(ren) is not all about caging them. tell them what is happening in the world, teach them about sex education, make them understand their body chemistry and above all tell them about God. secondly, chat with them to know how they about some certain issues in life and give them freedom to express their feelings with all this that child(ren) will know her left from her right.

Posted: at 27-05-2011 11:33 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

50, girls de giv headache my brother ooh!

Posted: at 27-05-2011 11:39 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Any parents that doesn't know how to discuss about this to the child, shouldn't be surprise when the unwanted preggy occur. I will blame it to the parents not the child.  First they should know, she's growing and she must know what this is all about, But if they should be the one to educate her about it and make her see reasons of not engaging herself in it, because kids believe parents and listen to them before any other, that kid will be safe, much safe than when she start hearing the news from outsider or friends.

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Posted: at 27-05-2011 11:44 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Disagree only if yu dont know how to handle em

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Posted: at 27-05-2011 11:53 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Actually there's a time every parents should drop their B.sc Degree of physical control and apply their Msc Degree of Theoretical control. How long will one use the stick on a child, everything has time and limit, any good parents should understand that. at early stage when a child is growing, somethings warrant stick caution, You must apply that to make that kid knows that, there's boundary that is not suppose to cross. If the kid keep growing with fear and respect to the parents, at a stage when he/she will start knowing allot, been grown with parents fear and cautions.. Thats when you have to apply allot of communication skill to build another kind of respect and upbringing fear in them but remember to show them so much Love and keep to your words when you promise a thing. There are some words kids don't forget till the rest of their life. Once any parents establish good communication contact between them and the kids, is hardly to see that kid let the parents down.

The only way you can punish a stubborn kid is by action of words, withdraw things that you know he/she likes and remind that kid is the result of disobedient from not keeping your words. You shouldn't apply the physical anymore.
 

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Posted: at 27-05-2011 12:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Na wa oooo....This is 21 Century for crying out loud....Nna ehen

Posted: at 27-05-2011 12:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Hmmmmmm

Posted: at 27-05-2011 12:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero