How much should a married couple share?

Date: 03-06-2011 3:03 pm (10 years ago) | Author: INDEPENDENT WOMAN
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- at 3-06-2011 03:03 PM (10 years ago)
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[i'm not married yet sha just asking]Ladies let say for example you make more money than your husband so he says you have to pay all the bills, including his car insurence, he just keeps all of his in the bank. another example he doesn't have his own phone he uses your's (he didn't pay his cell phone bill so it got disconnected), you complain about borrowing your stuffs he says you're acting like y'all are not married. Any guidelines married people should follow?

Same question goes to the men...contributions...

 


Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:03 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- HOPEA23 at 3-06-2011 03:04 PM (10 years ago)
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not y'all i meant to say you both..

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:04 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 3-06-2011 03:08 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:03 PM
[i'm not married yet sha just asking]Ladies let say for example you make more money than your husband so he says you have to pay all the bills, including his car insurence, he just keeps all of his in the bank. another example he doesn't have his own phone he uses your's (he didn't pay his cell phone bill so it got disconnected), you complain about borrowing your stuffs he says you're acting like y'all are not married. Any guidelines married people should follow?

Same question goes to the men...contributions...

 


What Nonesense!!!
Are my mad?
Why wud i do that? God forbid..
so me i no no road to bank naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
or i no sabi use fone again..
thunder go fire that Kind man
and God no go gree me see such men..
the love never reach like that.. Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
tufiakwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:08 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 3-06-2011 03:11 PM (10 years ago)
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The marry wey en marry me na to dey chop my money food and den Fcuk me?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?
HOPEA no just make me vex dis evng oooooooooooooooooooo  Angry Angry

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:11 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sexweezy at 3-06-2011 03:13 PM (10 years ago)
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@Sophie remember for better for worse
Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:13 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 3-06-2011 03:13 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-06-2011 03:08 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:03 PM
[i'm not married yet sha just asking]Ladies let say for example you make more money than your husband so he says you have to pay all the bills, including his car insurence, he just keeps all of his in the bank. another example he doesn't have his own phone he uses your's (he didn't pay his cell phone bill so it got disconnected), you complain about borrowing your stuffs he says you're acting like y'all are not married. Any guidelines married people should follow?

Same question goes to the men...contributions...

 

you dey vex ohhh..tell me who u con dey vex for na?yes rebuke such men in jesus name..

What Nonesense!!!
Are my mad?
Why wud i do that? God forbid..
so me i no no road to bank naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
or i no sabi use fone again..
thunder go fire that Kind man
and God no go gree me see such men..
the love never reach like that.. Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
tufiakwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:13 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 3-06-2011 03:16 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-06-2011 03:11 PM
The marry wey en marry me na to dey chop my money food and den Fcuk me?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?
HOPEA no just make me vex dis evng oooooooooooooooooooo  Angry Angry
Grin Grin ;Dweting i do na....i nor be man ohh i jus ask question sha..

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:16 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 3-06-2011 03:19 PM (10 years ago)
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he had better look for more benefiting work to lean money or else he automathically be my housemaid n' take orders from me just for feeding  Cool if he cant pay his bills (house/phone/car insurance) thats his prob not mind bcos he wil use public buses, public phone.

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:19 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 3-06-2011 03:20 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:03 PM
[i'm not married yet sha just asking]Ladies let say for example you make more money than your husband so he says you have to pay all the bills, including his car insurence, he just keeps all of his in the bank. another example he doesn't have his own phone he uses your's (he didn't pay his cell phone bill so it got disconnected), you complain about borrowing your stuffs he says you're acting like y'all are not married. Any guidelines married people should follow?

Same question goes to the men...contributions...

 


What Rubbish Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
E dey Craze?

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:20 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 3-06-2011 03:20 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: sexweezy on  3-06-2011 03:13 PM
@Sophie remember for better for worse

for beta for what nonesence..  Huh?
what will his money be doing in the bank? Dancing i guess....... Huh?
Hisssssssssssssssssssssssss
if he cant pay the bills,recharge his fone, e.t.c
he shud phyuk off.. i dont gv a damn to lazy bones..
how much be fone wey en no fit buy  Huh? Huh?
or na only him sabi do savings?
Hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
no just make me vex log out ooooooooooooooooo

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:20 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 3-06-2011 03:21 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  3-06-2011 03:19 PM
he had better look for more benefiting work to lean money or else he automathically be my housemaid n' take orders from me just for feeding  Cool if he cant pay his bills (house/phone/car insurance) thats his prob not mind bcos he wil use public buses, public phone.
ironlady...i trust you now..when i grow up i will be like you.

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:21 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 3-06-2011 03:21 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-06-2011 03:11 PM
The marry wey en marry me na to dey chop my money food and den Fcuk me?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?
HOPEA no just make me vex dis evng oooooooooooooooooooo  Angry Angry

 Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:21 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 3-06-2011 03:22 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-06-2011 03:20 PM
Quote from: sexweezy on  3-06-2011 03:13 PM
@Sophie remember for better for worse

for beta for what nonesence..  Huh?
what will his money be doing in the bank? Dancing i guess....... Huh?
Hisssssssssssssssssssssssss
if he cant pay the bills,recharge his fone, e.t.c
he shud fcuk off.. i dont gv a damn to lazy bones..
how much be fone wey en no fit buy  Huh? Huh?
or na only him sabi do savings?
Hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
no just make me vex log out ooooooooooooooooo
i get iceblocks ooo abeg cool down

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:22 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 3-06-2011 03:25 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:16 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-06-2011 03:11 PM
The marry wey en marry me na to dey chop my money food and den Fcuk me?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?
HOPEA no just make me vex dis evng oooooooooooooooooooo  Angry Angry
Grin Grin ;Dweting i do na....i nor be man ohh i jus ask question sha..

the question dey provoking abeg........ Haba..
Any woman wey do that no get orientation..
if she like make she do am come talk say na love..
she go dey do love to waste her money for man head.. while the man go dey save or larvish en own for nyashes outside..

Hopea.. No just make say I GO SLAP U for this kind post..bcos.. i don vexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Tarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.. tufiakwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:25 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 3-06-2011 03:28 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:22 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-06-2011 03:20 PM
Quote from: sexweezy on  3-06-2011 03:13 PM
@Sophie remember for better for worse

for beta for what nonesence..  Huh?
what will his money be doing in the bank? Dancing i guess....... Huh?
Hisssssssssssssssssssssssss
if he cant pay the bills,recharge his fone, e.t.c
he shud fcuk off.. i dont gv a damn to lazy bones..
how much be fone wey en no fit buy  Huh? Huh?
or na only him sabi do savings?
Hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
no just make me vex log out ooooooooooooooooo
i get iceblocks ooo abeg cool down

why i no go vexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
unless say i dey mad......

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:28 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- trolling at 3-06-2011 03:28 PM (10 years ago)
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what is mine is yours, what is yours is mine simple
Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:28 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 3-06-2011 03:29 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:03 PM
[i'm not married yet sha just asking]Ladies let say for example you make more money than your husband so he says you have to pay all the bills, including his car insurence, he just keeps all of his in the bank. another example he doesn't have his own phone he uses your's (he didn't pay his cell phone bill so it got disconnected), you complain about borrowing your stuffs he says you're acting like y'all are not married. Any guidelines married people should follow?

Same question goes to the men...contributions...

 


It is not my fault that I earn higher, but I WILL NOT take up all his responsibilities......am a HELPER, it is his duty to provide for the family no matter who earns more.  As i would always say, be ready to loose your headship if you are willing to let go your responsibilities becos along with HEADSHIP/LEADERSHIP comes RESPONSIBILITIES.......there is no leader without responsibilities for it is those responsibilities that give you the so called power to lead.........

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:29 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- sexweezy at 3-06-2011 03:29 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-06-2011 03:20 PM
Quote from: sexweezy on  3-06-2011 03:13 PM
@Sophie remember for better for worse
for beta for what nonesence..  Huh?
what will his money be doing in the bank? Dancing i guess....... Huh?
Hisssssssssssssssssssssssss
if he cant pay the bills,recharge his fone, e.t.c
he shud fcuk off.. i dont gv a damn to lazy bones..
how much be fone wey en no fit buy  Huh? Huh?
or na only him sabi do savings?
Hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
no just make me vex log out ooooooooooooooooo


This situation needs understanding, why cant u ask him if u really knew he kept his money in da bank

Do you know if he want to put u up for a test may be u can endure if things gone sour, or may be u even loves him dearly

Love is not about Money, either he has or u have it

May be sophie
Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:29 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 3-06-2011 03:30 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:21 PM
Quote from: kebella on  3-06-2011 03:19 PM
he had better look for more benefiting work to lean money or else he automathically be my housemaid n' take orders from me just for feeding  Cool if he cant pay his bills (house/phone/car insurance) thats his prob not mind bcos he wil use public buses, public phone.
ironlady...i trust you now..when i grow up i will be like you.

grow ke! re yu a tree  Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:30 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 3-06-2011 03:30 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-06-2011 03:25 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:16 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-06-2011 03:11 PM
The marry wey en marry me na to dey chop my money food and den Fcuk me?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?
HOPEA no just make me vex dis evng oooooooooooooooooooo  Angry Angry
Grin Grin ;Dweting i do na....i nor be man ohh i jus ask question sha..

the question dey provoking abeg........ Haba..
Any woman wey do that no get orientation..
if she like make she do am come talk say na love..
she go dey do love to waste her money for man head.. while the man go dey save or larvish en own for nyashes outside..

Hopea.. No just make say I GO SLAP U for this kind post..bcos.. i don vexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Tarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.. tufiakwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
e yeah...nor slap abeg..
anyway...it just a question to view y'all ideas and i think sum ladies are doing it to their men ...meanwhile.for me i can't be spending my money of him ..while he is saving his..relationship..they says it give and take..if u spend of him,i'm also expecting he to spend on me..he should play smart guy on me..nah..he work for his money and i work for mine..

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:30 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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