How much should a married couple share? (Page 2)

Date: 03-06-2011 3:03 pm (10 years ago) | Author: INDEPENDENT WOMAN
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- HOPEA23 at 3-06-2011 03:33 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:30 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-06-2011 03:25 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:16 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-06-2011 03:11 PM
The marry wey en marry me na to dey chop my money food and den Fcuk me?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?
HOPEA no just make me vex dis evng oooooooooooooooooooo  Angry Angry
Grin Grin ;Dweting i do na....i nor be man ohh i jus ask question sha..

the question dey provoking abeg........ Haba..
Any woman wey do that no get orientation..
if she like make she do am come talk say na love..
she go dey do love to waste her money for man head.. while the man go dey save or larvish en own for nyashes outside..

Hopea.. No just make say I GO SLAP U for this kind post..bcos.. i don vexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Tarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.. tufiakwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
e yeah...nor slap abeg..
anyway...it just a question to view y'all ideas and i think sum ladies are doing it to their men ...meanwhile.for me i can't be spending my money of him ..while he is saving his..relationship..they says it give and take..if i spend on him,i'm also expecting he to spend on me..he shouldn't play smart guy on me..nah..he work for his money and i work for mine..

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:33 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 3-06-2011 03:33 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on  3-06-2011 03:28 PM
what is mine is yours, what is yours is mine simple
expand your explanation..sir

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:33 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- thowbee at 3-06-2011 03:37 PM (10 years ago)
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mehn...........I believe in ""Whats 'mine' is 'yours'....wats 'yours' is 'mine' and wats 'yours' is 'ours'.""......we both need to have that arrangement............
Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:37 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 3-06-2011 03:39 PM (10 years ago)
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i believe too but if what is his become not your's but only his..what will you do?

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:39 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 3-06-2011 03:44 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: sexweezy on  3-06-2011 03:29 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-06-2011 03:20 PM
Quote from: sexweezy on  3-06-2011 03:13 PM
@Sophie remember for better for worse
for beta for what nonesence..  Huh?
what will his money be doing in the bank? Dancing i guess....... Huh?
Hisssssssssssssssssssssssss
if he cant pay the bills,recharge his fone, e.t.c
he shud fcuk off.. i dont gv a damn to lazy bones..
how much be fone wey en no fit buy  Huh? Huh?
or na only him sabi do savings?
Hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
no just make me vex log out ooooooooooooooooo


This situation needs understanding, why cant u ask him if u really knew he kept his money in da bank

Do you know if he want to put u up for a test may be u can endure if things gone sour, or may be u even loves him dearly

Love is not about Money, either he has or u have it

May be sophie

which kain dirty unnderstanding..
so me i no no road to bank to go save my money so that i fit use am buy land or motor ba?
I am not saying love is about money...We are talking abt responsibilty hia weezyyy.........
i should love him, and mumuisly kill my self? to the extent wey en go save money and en no  fit buy common fone?  Huh?
na my own and my everytin go sweet am to use?

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:44 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- trolling at 3-06-2011 03:47 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:33 PM
Quote from: trolling on  3-06-2011 03:28 PM
what is mine is yours, what is yours is mine simple
expand your explanation..sir
Which kind of expansion you need, you no go school?
Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:47 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 3-06-2011 03:51 PM (10 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:51 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 3-06-2011 03:54 PM (10 years ago)
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chai..I almost crack ma ribs while laughing real hard on some comments here...especially that of Sophie
 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
I no fit shout again cos sophie don talk everything wey dey ma mind

So na me no sabi save money abi....even cripple sef sabi road to bank and sabi management Angry Angry Angry Angry
Hopea this ur question dey provoke women no bi small ooo Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:54 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 3-06-2011 03:57 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on  3-06-2011 03:47 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:33 PM
Quote from: trolling on  3-06-2011 03:28 PM
what is mine is yours, what is yours is mine simple
expand your explanation..sir
Which kind of expansion you need, you no go school?
i nor go school if that is what u want to know or hear...i'm just a primary school drop out..i nor even finish primary 6..i nor get money to  see myself through school or my parents nor get money..ok...if u won laugh me go ahead..if to sa i go school ..come na check am....for where i go talk u nor go talk ..u go shut up,...make i nor use my intelligent ta break you down...

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:57 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bella100 at 3-06-2011 03:59 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  3-06-2011 03:29 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:03 PM
[i'm not married yet sha just asking]Ladies let say for example you make more money than your husband so he says you have to pay all the bills, including his car insurence, he just keeps all of his in the bank. another example he doesn't have his own phone he uses your's (he didn't pay his cell phone bill so it got disconnected), you complain about borrowing your stuffs he says you're acting like y'all are not married. Any guidelines married people should follow?

Same question goes to the men...contributions...

 


It is not my fault that I earn higher, but I WILL NOT take up all his responsibilities......am a HELPER, it is his duty to provide for the family no matter who earns more.  As i would always say, be ready to loose your headship if you are willing to let go your responsibilities becos along with HEADSHIP/LEADERSHIP comes RESPONSIBILITIES.......there is no leader without responsibilities for it is those responsibilities that give you the so called power to lead.........
my dear, you have said it all, thumbs up Cheesy Grin Grin
Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:59 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- HOPEA23 at 3-06-2011 03:59 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  3-06-2011 03:54 PM
chai..I almost crack ma ribs while laughing real hard on some comments here...especially that of Sophie
 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
I no fit shout again cos sophie don talk everything wey dey ma mind

So na me no sabi save money abi....even cripple sef sabi road to bank and sabi management Angry Angry Angry Angry
Hopea this ur question dey provoke women no bi small ooo Grin Grin Grin Grin
lol..make una nor vex..besides na woman ask una the question na

Posted: at 3-06-2011 03:59 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 3-06-2011 04:00 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  3-06-2011 03:54 PM
chai..I almost crack ma ribs while laughing real hard on some comments here...especially that of Sophie
 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
I no fit shout again cos sophie don talk everything wey dey ma mind

So na me no sabi save money abi....even cripple sef sabi road to bank and sabi management Angry Angry Angry Angry
Hopea this ur question dey provoke women no bi small ooo Grin Grin Grin Grin
Grin Grin Grin Grin very annoying ................

Posted: at 3-06-2011 04:00 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 3-06-2011 04:01 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: bella100 on  3-06-2011 03:59 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  3-06-2011 03:29 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:03 PM
[i'm not married yet sha just asking]Ladies let say for example you make more money than your husband so he says you have to pay all the bills, including his car insurence, he just keeps all of his in the bank. another example he doesn't have his own phone he uses your's (he didn't pay his cell phone bill so it got disconnected), you complain about borrowing your stuffs he says you're acting like y'all are not married. Any guidelines married people should follow?

Same question goes to the men...contributions...

 


It is not my fault that I earn higher, but I WILL NOT take up all his responsibilities......am a HELPER, it is his duty to provide for the family no matter who earns more.  As i would always say, be ready to loose your headship if you are willing to let go your responsibilities becos along with HEADSHIP/LEADERSHIP comes RESPONSIBILITIES.......there is no leader without responsibilities for it is those responsibilities that give you the so called power to lead.........
my dear, you have said it all, thumbs up Cheesy Grin Grin
thanks

Posted: at 3-06-2011 04:01 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 3-06-2011 04:04 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:59 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  3-06-2011 03:54 PM
chai..I almost crack ma ribs while laughing real hard on some comments here...especially that of Sophie
 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
I no fit shout again cos sophie don talk everything wey dey ma mind

So na me no sabi save money abi....even cripple sef sabi road to bank and sabi management Angry Angry Angry Angry
Hopea this ur question dey provoke women no bi small ooo Grin Grin Grin Grin
lol..make una nor vex..besides na woman ask una the question na
I not fit vex again after I don read sophie and DP comments
Posted: at 3-06-2011 04:04 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 3-06-2011 04:05 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  3-06-2011 04:00 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  3-06-2011 03:54 PM
chai..I almost crack ma ribs while laughing real hard on some comments here...especially that of Sophie
 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
I no fit shout again cos sophie don talk everything wey dey ma mind

So na me no sabi save money abi....even cripple sef sabi road to bank and sabi management Angry Angry Angry Angry
Hopea this ur question dey provoke women no bi small ooo Grin Grin Grin Grin
Grin Grin Grin Grin very annoying ................

annoying no bi small thing
Posted: at 3-06-2011 04:05 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 3-06-2011 04:06 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  3-06-2011 04:04 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:59 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  3-06-2011 03:54 PM
chai..I almost crack ma ribs while laughing real hard on some comments here...especially that of Sophie
 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
I no fit shout again cos sophie don talk everything wey dey ma mind

So na me no sabi save money abi....even cripple sef sabi road to bank and sabi management Angry Angry Angry Angry
Hopea this ur question dey provoke women no bi small ooo Grin Grin Grin Grin
lol..make una nor vex..besides na woman ask una the question na
I not fit vex again after I don read sophie and DP comment.



gud

Posted: at 3-06-2011 04:06 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 3-06-2011 04:07 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  3-06-2011 04:05 PM
Quote from: kebella on  3-06-2011 04:00 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  3-06-2011 03:54 PM
chai..I almost crack ma ribs while laughing real hard on some comments here...especially that of Sophie
 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
I no fit shout again cos sophie don talk everything wey dey ma mind

So na me no sabi save money abi....even cripple sef sabi road to bank and sabi management Angry Angry Angry Angry
Hopea this ur question dey provoke women no bi small ooo Grin Grin Grin Grin
Grin Grin Grin Grin very annoying ................

annoying no bi small thing
Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 3-06-2011 04:07 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 3-06-2011 04:13 PM (10 years ago)
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 Grin
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- chiglamour4u at 3-06-2011 04:17 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  3-06-2011 03:29 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-06-2011 03:03 PM
[i'm not married yet sha just asking]Ladies let say for example you make more money than your husband so he says you have to pay all the bills, including his car insurence, he just keeps all of his in the bank. another example he doesn't have his own phone he uses your's (he didn't pay his cell phone bill so it got disconnected), you complain about borrowing your stuffs he says you're acting like y'all are not married. Any guidelines married people should follow?

Same question goes to the men...contributions...

 


It is not my fault that I earn higher, but I WILL NOT take up all his responsibilities......am a HELPER, it is his duty to provide for the family no matter who earns more.  As i would always say, be ready to loose your headship if you are willing to let go your responsibilities becos along with HEADSHIP/LEADERSHIP comes RESPONSIBILITIES.......there is no leader without responsibilities for it is those responsibilities that give you the so called power to lead.........

dats why u are a divine wisdom
Posted: at 3-06-2011 04:17 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 3-06-2011 04:20 PM (10 years ago)
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yea!
Posted: at 3-06-2011 04:20 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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