why ex girlfriend or boyfriend disturb when they find out they made mistake.

Date: 26-06-2011 9:39 am (10 years ago) | Author: collins
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- at 26-06-2011 09:39 AM (10 years ago)
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i break up with my girl friend after we break up some months letter i travel abroad since then i never find another girl,after three years i meet some one she is lovely,educated,and intelligent she respect me so much now this is my problem

1  my ex girl friend later called me on phone after three years say i should forgive her and accept her back,

2  i never tell the new one am into relationship before,

3  am in love with the new one.

4  my ex keep on disturbing me phone,she call me every day and keep on asking me to accept her apology,i told she late i have a new girl friend now,she ask me to give her the girl phone number,i refuse because i know what is going to happen if i give the number to her,

5  should i tell the new one what is going on?i love her so much i dont want to hurt her,am afraid if i tell her now that i am into relationship she may get angry feel am lying to her why i didnt tell her from the beginning,am confuse please pals i need advice

Posted: at 26-06-2011 09:39 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
- HOPEA23 at 26-06-2011 12:19 PM (10 years ago)
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Yes why not...tell her since you love her.

Posted: at 26-06-2011 12:19 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 26-06-2011 01:00 PM (10 years ago)
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If u love ur current gf enuf (as in wifey material) tell her abt ur ex.
Infact giv her d numba of ur ex!
Posted: at 26-06-2011 01:00 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- whome at 26-06-2011 01:17 PM (10 years ago)
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Please open up with your new girl and make sure you don't hide things from her
Posted: at 26-06-2011 01:17 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- whome at 26-06-2011 01:19 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: whome on 26-06-2011 01:17 PM
Please open up with to your new girl and make sure you don't hide things from her
Posted: at 26-06-2011 01:19 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- tmaxdon at 26-06-2011 01:20 PM (10 years ago)
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You have to face this issue like a man...tell her you've forgiven her but make it clear to her that you are in love with someone else,she is not in love with you she is only deceiving you, maybe there's something she needs from you...tell her you remain friends,if she doesn't want to understand,change your number and don't give your number to people that can give her your number.........don't give your new GF's number to her (they don't have anything to discuss,because I am sure she has another kind of mentality) and you should also discuss this with your girlfriend but not with emotions,discuss it as something of no importance just to make her aware of what's going on....
Posted: at 26-06-2011 01:20 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 26-06-2011 01:36 PM (10 years ago)
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Find a good moment to talk with your new girlfriend about all that story,as for your ex,I don't understand
why you couldn't be clear to her even from her first call!

Posted: at 26-06-2011 01:36 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 26-06-2011 01:43 PM (10 years ago)
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U knw how it goes @ BS, they get attention frm a female, they are lost  Undecided
Posted: at 26-06-2011 01:43 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ajanni at 26-06-2011 01:56 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-06-2011 01:00 PM
If u love ur current gf enuf (as in wifey material) tell her abt ur ex.
Infact giv her d numba of ur ex!

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Posted: at 26-06-2011 01:56 PM (10 years ago) | Grande Master
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- FlyMamacita at 26-06-2011 01:59 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: ajanni on 26-06-2011 01:56 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-06-2011 01:00 PM
If u love ur current gf enuf (as in wifey material) tell her abt ur ex.
Infact giv her d numba of ur ex!

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haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah

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Posted: at 26-06-2011 01:59 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ajanni at 26-06-2011 02:20 PM (10 years ago)
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your good idea now
Posted: at 26-06-2011 02:20 PM (10 years ago) | Grande Master
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- xena15 at 26-06-2011 02:50 PM (10 years ago)
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Dis poster get wahala

Posted: at 26-06-2011 02:50 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tunde68600 at 26-06-2011 02:51 PM (10 years ago)
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No give her your new girl number or else, ANOTHER LIBYA-NATO war is in the making. Just discuss it with your new love as something less important....with that, you are passing a message.....
Posted: at 26-06-2011 02:51 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- Simon-Zeletus at 26-06-2011 02:53 PM (10 years ago)
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Guy tell her the real true and noting but the truth, and also tell her that ex girl fr is disturbing you, give her phone to talk to her to leave you alone her time is over. 
Posted: at 26-06-2011 02:53 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Innoutt at 26-06-2011 03:29 PM (10 years ago)
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           Nothing is confusing enough in your case except that you don't know what is good for you. In all, this question can help you cos if you respect your word----do you prefer somebody you love and who love you back, or somebody who love you so much that he keep you in reserve as last battle field b4 the entrance of the city?  Huh?  Right-choice can accept that you are lucky to av seen somebody who reciprocate love while it is edible. Your ex  kept you in reserve should in case she fail in the hunt for better guys or real men.
           Problem of ex can be serious only when it is permitted against true love. Or have you married her??  It can be useful to measure love with rationality sometimes instead of always dwelling on indefinite emotion that never end. Decision is your problem. I cannot swallow that you are really confused enough to make sincere consultation.
           To let your new girl friend/fiancee know about the mess with ex may be more problematic than you may think, unless you are testing whether time is still moving, or your clock is wrong. How ever i wish you safety from the effect of emotion devastated mind.
I will answer my girl friend b4 she will imagine that am becoming like you.   Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 26-06-2011 03:29 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- poly23 at 26-06-2011 03:39 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 26-06-2011 12:19 PM
Yes why not...tell her since you love her.
i dont want to hurt her and am trying to know the kind person she is
Posted: at 26-06-2011 03:39 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- goingwithyou at 26-06-2011 03:43 PM (10 years ago)
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Dis is d best tym to safe ur R'ship if really u luv dat ur nu Gfri and u r nt ready to play on her ...
Posted: at 26-06-2011 03:43 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Innoutt at 26-06-2011 03:57 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: poly23 on 26-06-2011 03:39 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 26-06-2011 12:19 PM
Yes why not...tell her since you love her.
i dont want to hurt her and am trying to know the kind person she is

telling her should not be rushed especially if you are yet to know her but make sure your mind is off the ex. that is the stronger point than telling her
Posted: at 26-06-2011 03:57 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- poly23 at 26-06-2011 03:59 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: osibote on 26-06-2011 03:30 PM
If you dont want more problems and you really love the new gf.pls tell her everything as soon as possible.but be truthful and choose any word you say. next time when ur ex calls let new gf pick the call and tell her that there is nothing for her anymore.and she should stop.I've experience I know what I say.
thanks my sister the problem now is i dont live in nigeria. Smiley Smiley Smiley
Posted: at 26-06-2011 03:59 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- calvin2b1000 at 26-06-2011 05:17 PM (10 years ago)
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u have been from big Orange to big Apple perhaps u can tell the difference,sounds to me like u still got a love 4ur ex muff i don't mean u should sound nasty to her,make her to undastand that y'all clumsy relationship may not hold again,but as 4ur current meticulously explain ur past by asking 4her own true pass first,then u guyz can iron it out without any miffy

Posted: at 26-06-2011 05:17 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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