I'm in love with a girl for the past 2yrs know.I love her so much that i find it dificult to love other female girls that wanted me for a date.Sometimes i ask my self if i am charm to lover her much.What i notice in her is that she is nt trust worthy and straight forward.Any time i ask her if she dates other guys she denies it.But at time i do see love msges in her phöne and she do pick mst of their cals wen we ar together but wen i ask her,she say they ar toasting her.One day i sat her down that she shud nt hide secrete from me becos their was a time she left for good four month and i do nt bother about her again.Wen she came bk,she apologies and we started again.She then told me that she as ben praying at d hill and one day a pastor told her that d guy she ws dating is nt her hurband but jst a frnd in this world.I told her dat i dnt believe in such bcos i hv witness alot like that which hv distroy many relationship.Many were told that they shud mary,at the end,d guy as many wive.Even many broke up.Wen she narated,she wept and i persuaded her.We continue again.One day i ws at work then i called her to knw her wereabout but she lied that she was at home not knwing that i saw her with a guy taking a bic.Wen i cal her she refuse to pick my calls.Later she told me that since i cnt trust her,we shud brake the relationship.I wept and even fal sick for gud three day bcos i wanted to forget about her but her taught keep coming my mind on how i hv ben hönest to her as a guy.Later i call her to my house.Wen she came she dnt want us to discus d matter.She only said she is sory foreverything she said.Rain fell heavily that nite and we had a great sex.I'm just cönfuse if she jst decided to stay to kep me happy while dating another guys else.Can i play along and think of another thrustworthy girl in my life again?Pls answers.
I'm cool and simple
Posted: at 3-07-2011 05:07 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 3-07-2011 06:44 PM (12 years ago) (f)
I'm wondering who is playing who!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 3-07-2011 06:44 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
Imagine this kinda players..huh , Why is it every time I try to figure the meaning of life and love we claim to have, they change it??. One word for you Poster....... Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself.. get solution to that.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 3-07-2011 06:53 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
O boy yu ve to act now ........cant yu see the handwritting on the wall........move on with a realiable gurl ............life is too short to mess around
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 3-07-2011 07:31 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
manscater at 3-07-2011 07:36 PM (12 years ago) (m)
With help of heavy rain u people had great sex, after all dis lies, if i told u 2 dump her u will still have sex with her when it's rain heavily so continue bros .
Posted: at 3-07-2011 07:36 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
I'm nt playing her as i hv said.I gave her my true word of defination of love.What i meant was that a lot of false pastor will lie and tel mst lady that this is their future husband but at d end they will be separation after 3 kid.Why i decided to post is jst to get the right answer,Since i hv notice that she is playing game.But i find it dificult jst to let her off my memory or if i can get someöne may b i might let her off my mind.
I'm cool and simple
Posted: at 3-07-2011 07:42 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
With help of heavy rain u people had great sex, after all dis lies, if i told u 2 dump her u will still have sex with her when it's rain heavily so continue bros .
Sex is a game of two, exercise that takes two people to tango when in good mood. I believe any man that is feeling sober like him will still fall into such little trick... but the earlier he wake up from his slumber the better for him.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 3-07-2011 07:43 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
With help of heavy rain u people had great sex, after all dis lies, if i told u 2 dump her u will still have sex with her when it's rain heavily so continue bros .
ur not far frm the truth
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 3-07-2011 07:48 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
@manscarter,sex is a comön thing that hapen btween two people.What suprises me mst is that after her telling me that we shud end the relationship which leaded me to b sick 4 three day later i ask her to see me for us to discus.But wen she came she told me dat i shud nt b sory but her shud b telling me sory.I decided nt to ask about d guy again.But an answer came to my mind that she knew that i hv been cheated but she does nt knw how to xplain that to me.I jst cant trust her 100% again.I still try to see if i can stil love her d way i did wen we met.I still try to figure out if i cud go own to get another date with another lady?Or are they all the same?Can we still have real love?
I'm cool and simple
Posted: at 3-07-2011 08:01 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
@manscarter,sex is a comön thing that hapen btween two people.What suprises me mst is that after her telling me that we shud end the relationship which leaded me to b sick 4 three day later i ask her to see me for us to discus.But wen she came she told me dat i shud nt b sory but her shud b telling me sory.I decided nt to ask about d guy again.But an answer came to my mind that she knew that i hv been cheated but she does nt knw how to xplain that to me.I jst cant trust her 100% again.I still try to see if i can stil love her d way i did wen we met.I still try to figure out if i cud go own to get another date with another lady?Or are they all the same?Can we still have real love?
I'm cool and simple
Posted: at 3-07-2011 08:01 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
@manscarter,sex is a comön thing that hapen btween two people.What suprises me mst is that after her telling me that we shud end the relationship which leaded me to b sick 4 three day later i ask her to see me for us to discus.But wen she came she told me dat i shud nt b sory but her shud b telling me sory.I decided nt to ask about d guy again.But an answer came to my mind that she knew that i hv been cheated but she does nt knw how to xplain that to me.I jst cant trust her 100% again.I still try to see if i can stil love her d way i did wen we met.I still try to figure out if i cud go own to get another date with another lady?Or are they all the same?Can we still have real love?
I'm cool and simple
Posted: at 3-07-2011 08:04 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
@manscarter,sex is a comön thing that hapen btween two people.What suprises me mst is that after her telling me that we shud end the relationship which leaded me to b sick 4 three day later i ask her to see me for us to discus.But wen she came she told me dat i shud nt b sory but her shud b telling me sory.I decided nt to ask about d guy again.But an answer came to my mind that she knew that i hv been cheated but she does nt knw how to xplain that to me.I jst cant trust her 100% again.I still try to see if i can stil love her d way i did wen we met.I still try to figure out if i cud go own to get another date with another lady?Or are they all the same?Can we still have real love?
I'm cool and simple
Posted: at 3-07-2011 08:08 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
manscater at 3-07-2011 08:18 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Edywalex on 3-07-2011 08:04 PM
@manscarter,sex is a comön thing that hapen btween two people.What suprises me mst is that after her telling me that we shud end the relationship which leaded me to b sick 4 three day later i ask her to see me for us to discus.But wen she came she told me dat i shud nt b sory but her shud b telling me sory.I decided nt to ask about d guy again.But an answer came to my mind that she knew that i hv been cheated but she does nt knw how to xplain that to me.I jst cant trust her 100% again.I still try to see if i can stil love her d way i did wen we met.I still try to figure out if i cud go own to get another date with another lady?Or are they all the same?Can we still have real love?
This surpose 2 be discusion and ur d one dat invited her back, guy ur weak. Always stand ur ground or hold ur self until ur mind is clear.
Posted: at 3-07-2011 08:18 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
poster...i understand that God created two things most important for men..which are DICK AND BRAIN...but just a little blood to run the two at the same time...you know what use your head not your THING[DICK] to think ok.you got feelings ,let her know about that and that your heart is not a playing ground whereby she can jump in and out and start playing with you...AS a black naija man i expects you to take a serious action..let your yes be your yes..and no to be your no.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 3-07-2011 08:21 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
poster...i understand that God created two things most important for men..which are DICK AND BRAIN...but just a little blood to run the two at the same time...you know what use your head not your THING[DICK] to think ok.you got feelings ,let her know about that and that your heart is not a playing ground whereby she can jump in and out and start playing with you...AS a black naija man i expects you to take a serious action..let your yes be your yes..and no to be your no.
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 3-07-2011 08:27 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero