Am Confused> Two Suitors After me. (Page 5)

Hmmm! I wish i had a mother like that to look out for me!
There's a proverb in my place thats says
"WHAT AN ELDER SEES WHILE SITTING, A CHILD WILL NOT EVEN IF HE CLIMBS A LADDER"
Moving out wil not make things better, have a heart to heart talk with ur mum and tell her how grateful u are for having her but that ur not ready and she'l keep praying for you! Evry MUM wants the best for their children.  U need a man in ur life, we all need a man/woman in our lives. If u don't want ur mum's choice then choose one amongst ur friends, there is a man out there who would love ur dauta as much as u do, and respect ur wishes as regards her future.

Two suitors! God! Aren't u lucky!

I Was Recommended to two men without my notice by my mum's friend's. Came back from work last weekend and met one of them already waiting for me at home,he told me that he's heard all bout me, likes my person,told me his intentions and wants to take me into his life as his wife. i sat quietly listened to him,but never gave him an answer. Was shocked thou, cos nobody, not even my mum told me anything concerning these men.
After work yesterday,i left for the house met another man that i was been recommended to,waiting to see me. told me lots that he's heard and also his intentions towards me as a wife. I sat quietly listened to him,cos i never wanted to embarrass him nor my mum.. never gave him an answer also.
I HAVE NEVER IN MY LIFE AND WILL NEVER WILL: HIDDEN ANYTHING CONCERNING THE REAL ME,WHO I AM,WHAT I AM, AND MY EXPERIENCES IN LIFE EVEN AS A YOUNG LADY: I am a single parent and I am proud to have a child at my age,not minding my past experience. (the Suitors have been told) I LOVE MY DAUGHTER so much that am working hard to make sure she studies in LONDON (Harvard) cos that's what she requested of me..and i don't want any man of any sort to be a stumbling block to this. I really have not made up my mind on having another relationship.

I don't want to Accept their request cos i am not desperate,and also don't want to see it as (I.e) i already have a child..Men wont come after me,or marry me..NO....she's my priceless Jewel. I see nothing else but her.
I don't even want to start praying to God to show me the right one amongst them, cos am not interested.
Right now i feel terible cos i fell MuM is thinking this is the only oppurtunity i have..and i've made up my mind on Moving to my own Apartment..i'd already contacted  an Agent to get me one.. so that i can be.

Pals> Am i Making the Right Decision?