'How can I learn to flirt when I can't even look a man in the eye?'

I’m not very confident with the opposite sex and simply don’t know how to signal romantic interest in men I fancy. My best friend says it’s because I’ve never learned how to flirt.It’s true that I’m not very confident in a one-on-one situation and find it hard to make eye contact, let alone be tactile. Do you think that someone awkward like me can be taught to flirt and act seductively?please pals i dont your opinions

Posted: at 16-07-2011 08:13 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

really, i hope you are not pretending to us here ooooooooooooo

Posted: at 16-07-2011 09:24 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

I suppose there's something behind ur lack of self confidence, but as long as it is about something which can't be "fixed",
just accept it,believe that u're a great girl exactly the way u r,and trust me,a lot of men are seeing u this way!
Just be yourself, and everything will be alright!

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Posted: at 16-07-2011 04:03 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

....ANYWAY...come flirt wif me @poster i'll teach you while doin d rehearsal

Posted: at 16-07-2011 09:59 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@poster, you are fine just the way you are, no need to flirt some guys are actually turned off by it, you can still be admired and get the same attention but you will still need to work on your confidence 

Posted: at 17-07-2011 05:16 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

hmm *flirting mode activated* 

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Posted: at 17-07-2011 11:07 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

lol.too late bro coz i'm already in 

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Posted: at 17-07-2011 11:34 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

lal

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Posted: at 18-07-2011 10:17 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

My dear, we cant all be extroverts..the fact that you can post on this site is enough to show you have some bones in you. all you need to do is be yourself. wen you meet a guy you like and get the chance to talk with him, fell free and make sure you talk on topic that is of interest to you which he will be cool to discus, from there, thing will happen on their own....am sure ur a smart gurl but not much of a talker. i was like that but now, wat i do is listen to the guy, pick on somtn that he seems to fancy and flow with im in the conversation...smile, drop in som witty jokes and u will get a response..but puleeez. dont go for flirting..it will spoil show for you...good luck!!

Posted: at 18-07-2011 11:10 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming