livingday at 16-07-2011 02:45 PM (13 years ago) (m) One-sided story! Posted: at 16-07-2011 02:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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toibeli at 16-07-2011 02:54 PM (13 years ago) (m) Poster, Is there something you are not telling us...like when this behavior started what you did to force this behavior out of him, and how many times you put him in the dog house, and................... Posted: at 16-07-2011 02:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Annizzle at 16-07-2011 02:58 PM (13 years ago) (f) Why should a man discuss his family affairs to his friends? This is not just cool at all involving a third party... He needs to man-up a face his own problems and stop acting like a girl. Posted: at 16-07-2011 02:58 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Annizzle at 16-07-2011 02:58 PM (13 years ago) (f) that kind of man is not worthy of being a man
true. Posted: at 16-07-2011 02:58 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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feyee at 16-07-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) (f) some men are kinda childish Posted: at 16-07-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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feyee at 16-07-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) (f) nne sorry ohhh,na marriage palava be this one.is painful seeing ur hus talking 2 his friends what happens in his house but handle it with care coz is a sensitive issue coz he might be thinking that u want 2 cut his relationship with his friends.
IMPORTANT TAKE NOTE: PRAY 2 GOD 2TOUCH HIM N MAKE HIM REALIZE WHAT HE'S DOING. PRAY THIS PRAYER POINT ASWELL(EVERY NEGETIVE RELATIONSHIP IN UR MARRIAGE SHOULD BE SCATTERED) is painful coz sumtimes u will be wondering if u r safe 2 talk n share ideas with him knowing that his friends can make an impact in ur marrital life.it's well b strong GOD will see u tru this amen!
what more could i say, uv said it all Posted: at 16-07-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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One-sided story!
I think so too
KINDLY IGNORE ANY TYPING ERROR, IT'S CALLED SLIP OF FINGER.  R.I.P HATERS.  Posted: at 16-07-2011 03:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Whenever his friends comes around, he has no time for me nor children. They 'll gathered around discussing about unnecessary matters and the most painful aspect is that he discuss our family issues with them which I find uncomfortable with. I have discussed this with him severely to stop doing it, but he wont just listen, sometimes he yell at me to stop it preventing him from doing it.
What should I do ?
Very immature behavior! But,tell me,has he always acted this way?
Live and let live! Posted: at 16-07-2011 03:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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guffer at 16-07-2011 03:50 PM (13 years ago) (m) NOTE: i am not being sexist. Its quite painful no doubt but you have got to excuse women with their gossip, like i said i don't intend to be sexist but men always have this idea and it ain't an idea but a fact that the way women gossip has absolutely no bounds and i reckon you trying to tell your husband to stop only reiterates the point of feminine gossip in his head. The only solution to your problem is to make him see things from your perspective but at the same time assuring him or making him understand such don't happen with you, you don't have to be direct about showing him, just be indirect. i guarantee you if you can do it without provocation its bound to work. The fundamental things women don't understand about men is that when men come home they expect a peaceful abode, a man will do anything outside, shout fight and all but its something he won't want to follow him home. the problem is when laying a complaint to your man don't do it like most women who make it an issue, start a fight. Let him be, you know what makes your husband happy, do that, get him in a good mood and then still in that mood without provocation you tell him, no shouting or anger in your voice because i am sure coz it makes you angry you might never be in a calm mood to tell him. Posted: at 16-07-2011 03:50 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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kelechi86 at 16-07-2011 04:05 PM (13 years ago) (f) if dats his only fault, then take it easy wit him cus he is nt aware he is doing the wrong thing. Tel him stories on the consequences of wat he is doing. Real or fake ones and pray he comes around Posted: at 16-07-2011 04:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 16-07-2011 04:12 PM (13 years ago) (f) be rty back.............
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 16-07-2011 04:12 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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LOYOLAR at 16-07-2011 04:24 PM (13 years ago) (m) Try and wake him up in the middle of the night, on your kneels with a solemn voice talk to him. Before you will do this, firstly pray to your God for Him to arrest his heart to listen to you. Gbam! So shall it be. Posted: at 16-07-2011 04:24 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Faithandme at 16-07-2011 04:34 PM (13 years ago) (m) Am sorry,can't help Posted: at 16-07-2011 04:34 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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It all depends on hw u talk 2 him.......we men we listin i mean we listin 2 ladies more when de calm down n talk 2 us......so i tink ur not talking 2 him in d right way...just wake him up at night n talk 2 him am sure he will listin 2 u.....cheers. Posted: at 16-07-2011 04:37 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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kebella at 16-07-2011 04:45 PM (13 years ago) (f)
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 16-07-2011 04:45 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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sensitive issue that needs only God intervention
very correct! is very very sensitive so b careful on the matter!only GOD can do the magic not talking coz when GOD comes in every other thing will surrender get that first then watch n see!! Posted: at 16-07-2011 04:52 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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mallorca at 16-07-2011 04:54 PM (13 years ago) (m) take heart
HOPE IS MY ROAD,VICTORY IS MY DESTINY Posted: at 16-07-2011 04:54 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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50scent at 16-07-2011 04:57 PM (13 years ago) (m)
RELATIONSHIP & ROMANCE FORUM; MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS WELCOMES YOU  Posted: at 16-07-2011 04:57 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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monday3 at 16-07-2011 05:37 PM (13 years ago) (m) what his doing is bad.try talk to him early in the morning anytime he dose it again . Posted: at 16-07-2011 05:37 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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saintkevin at 16-07-2011 06:02 PM (13 years ago) (m) He's not man enough,.how on earth can one who claimed to be matured behave like a baby?,.tell him to stop feeding on milk its time for him to chew bones. Posted: at 16-07-2011 06:02 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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