I think most people can’t honestly say they aren’t attracted to any person in a given ethnic group. I’m not attracted to WHITE, INDIAN OR CHINESE men in general, but I’m sure there are some I’d find banging. The biggest issue for me is when people aren’t attracted to anyone of their OWN ethnicity. I find that odd, but then again I also am not sure if it’s an issue of self-hate so much as it’s a by-product of how and where a person is raised.
Posted: at 16-07-2011 09:12 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
wandepope at 16-07-2011 09:23 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Truely a by-product of where one is raised.the mind is configured to be satisfied with what it can have to hold...you are not attracted to them because somehow you dont want to have them.If you build your desire for them by ignoring what you find unattrative in them and delibrately admiring even what you dont usually admire in any person..you heaart will learn.ITS NOT RACISM IN YOUR CASE ITS JUST YOU NOT BEEN INTERESTED..I MEAN NOT HATING THEM AND NOT LOVING THEM ALSO
Posted: at 16-07-2011 09:23 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
Youngstoriez at 16-07-2011 09:36 PM (12 years ago) (m)
ITS never a form of racism when you only date ur own race....ur love dont hang around them..*(like and love are diffrent)*, its not really fault since u dont really have feelings for them! but its wrong when u try takin kinda personal nd usin it as a form of ignorance towards them...its never right! .....
Posted: at 16-07-2011 09:36 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dirtykid at 17-07-2011 02:13 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Enviberry on 16-07-2011 09:12 PM
I think most people can’t honestly say they aren’t attracted to any person in a given ethnic group. I’m not attracted to WHITE, INDIAN OR CHINESE men in general, but I’m sure there are some I’d find banging. The biggest issue for me is when people aren’t attracted to anyone of their OWN ethnicity. I find that odd, but then again I also am not sure if it’s an issue of self-hate so much as it’s a by-product of how and where a person is raised.
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Posted: at 17-07-2011 02:13 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
every decision a man or woman makes is a choice, if you choose not to date a person soley on the color of their skin alone and u also hate that race of people then its pure racism, but if its just not your preference it means you just know what you like, I am not attracted to Caucasians(Oyinbo) because I like black men but I have Caucasian(Oyinbo) friends. I prefer a dark skinned tall man to a lighter skinned man but I dont care much for African American men either, just because I am more into my Naija men, simply a choice, that's life lol but that doesn't mean I will never love another in fact my Hubby is a light skinned short Naija man lol but I love him all the same
Posted: at 17-07-2011 06:10 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
Ask_For_Email at 17-07-2011 06:23 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: IamME on 17-07-2011 06:10 AM
every decision a man or woman makes is a choice, if you choose not to date a person soley on the color of their skin alone and u also hate that race of people then its pure racism, but if its just not your preference it means you just know what you like, I am not attracted to Caucasians(Oyinbo) because I like black men but I have Caucasian(Oyinbo) friends. I prefer a dark skinned tall man to a lighter skinned man but I dont care much for African American men either, just because I am more into my Naija men, simply a choice, that's life lol but that doesn't mean I will never love another in fact my Hubby is a light skinned short Naija man lol but I love him all the same
That should keep on his toes.
Posted: at 17-07-2011 06:23 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
every decision a man or woman makes is a choice, if you choose not to date a person soley on the color of their skin alone and u also hate that race of people then its pure racism, but if its just not your preference it means you just know what you like, I am not attracted to Caucasians(Oyinbo) because I like black men but I have Caucasian(Oyinbo) friends. I prefer a dark skinned tall man to a lighter skinned man but I dont care much for African American men either, just because I am more into my Naija men, simply a choice, that's life lol but that doesn't mean I will never love another in fact my Hubby is a light skinned short Naija man lol but I love him all the same
That should keep on his toes.
lol we are actually the same height but he knows what my preferences are and also that He is all I want and need in a man
Posted: at 17-07-2011 06:34 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
it depends on each individual sha..for me i only find my naija black men attractive..i can't date a non-naija guy...i won't feel comfortable be around that person.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 18-07-2011 03:37 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
shaoyang at 18-07-2011 04:31 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Depends on the criterial you consider b4 falling in love ... forme personality first, because that is the only thing that can make me hang around for longer time
Posted: at 18-07-2011 04:31 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac