IS IT RACIST TO ONLY DATE YOUR OWN RACE?

Date: 16-07-2011 9:12 pm (12 years ago) | Author: sweetberry lomo
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- at 16-07-2011 09:12 PM (12 years ago)
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I think most people can’t honestly say they aren’t attracted to any person in a given ethnic group. I’m not attracted to WHITE, INDIAN OR CHINESE men in general, but I’m sure there are some I’d find banging. The biggest issue for me is when people aren’t attracted to anyone of their OWN ethnicity. I find that odd, but then again I also am not sure if it’s an issue of self-hate so much as it’s a by-product of how and where a person is raised.

Posted: at 16-07-2011 09:12 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
- wandepope at 16-07-2011 09:23 PM (12 years ago)
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Truely a by-product of where one is raised.the mind is configured to be satisfied with what it can have to hold...you are not attracted to them because somehow you dont want to have them.If you build your desire for them by ignoring what you find unattrative in them and delibrately admiring even what you dont usually admire in any person..you heaart will learn.ITS NOT RACISM IN YOUR CASE ITS JUST YOU NOT BEEN INTERESTED..I MEAN NOT HATING THEM AND NOT LOVING THEM  ALSO
Posted: at 16-07-2011 09:23 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Youngstoriez at 16-07-2011 09:36 PM (12 years ago)
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ITS never a form of racism when you only date ur own race....ur love dont hang around them..*(like and love are diffrent)*, its not really fault since u dont really have feelings for them! but its wrong when u try takin kinda personal nd usin it as a form of ignorance towards them...its never right! .....
Posted: at 16-07-2011 09:36 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 16-07-2011 09:38 PM (12 years ago)
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dunno ...........

Posted: at 16-07-2011 09:38 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- gucciberry at 16-07-2011 09:39 PM (12 years ago)
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any1 is fine by me
Posted: at 16-07-2011 09:39 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- xena15 at 16-07-2011 11:36 PM (12 years ago)
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Dnt hate em bt dnt want em

Posted: at 16-07-2011 11:36 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 17-07-2011 02:13 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Enviberry on 16-07-2011 09:12 PM
I think most people can’t honestly say they aren’t attracted to any person in a given ethnic group. I’m not attracted to WHITE, INDIAN OR CHINESE men in general, but I’m sure there are some I’d find banging. The biggest issue for me is when people aren’t attracted to anyone of their OWN ethnicity. I find that odd, but then again I also am not sure if it’s an issue of self-hate so much as it’s a by-product of how and where a person is raised.


Non discrimina a ninguén, eu estou aberto a calquera tribo do mundo  Cheesy

Posted: at 17-07-2011 02:13 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- IamME at 17-07-2011 06:10 AM (12 years ago)
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every decision a man or woman makes is a choice, if you choose not to date a person soley on the color of their skin alone and u also hate that race of people then its pure racism, but if its just not your preference it means you  just know what you like, I am not attracted to Caucasians(Oyinbo) because I like black men but I have Caucasian(Oyinbo) friends. I prefer a dark skinned tall man to a lighter skinned man but I dont care much for African American men either, just because I am more into my Naija men, simply a choice, that's life lol but that doesn't mean I will never love another in fact my Hubby is a light skinned short Naija man lol but I love him all the same Smiley
Posted: at 17-07-2011 06:10 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ask_For_Email at 17-07-2011 06:23 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: IamME on 17-07-2011 06:10 AM
every decision a man or woman makes is a choice, if you choose not to date a person soley on the color of their skin alone and u also hate that race of people then its pure racism, but if its just not your preference it means you  just know what you like, I am not attracted to Caucasians(Oyinbo) because I like black men but I have Caucasian(Oyinbo) friends. I prefer a dark skinned tall man to a lighter skinned man but I dont care much for African American men either, just because I am more into my Naija men, simply a choice, that's life lol but that doesn't mean I will never love another in fact my Hubby is a light skinned short Naija man lol but I love him all the same Smiley

That should keep on his toes.
Posted: at 17-07-2011 06:23 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- IamME at 17-07-2011 06:34 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Ask_For_Email on 17-07-2011 06:23 AM
Quote from: IamME on 17-07-2011 06:10 AM
every decision a man or woman makes is a choice, if you choose not to date a person soley on the color of their skin alone and u also hate that race of people then its pure racism, but if its just not your preference it means you  just know what you like, I am not attracted to Caucasians(Oyinbo) because I like black men but I have Caucasian(Oyinbo) friends. I prefer a dark skinned tall man to a lighter skinned man but I dont care much for African American men either, just because I am more into my Naija men, simply a choice, that's life lol but that doesn't mean I will never love another in fact my Hubby is a light skinned short Naija man lol but I love him all the same Smiley

That should keep on his toes.

lol we are actually the same height but he knows what my preferences are and also that He is all I want and need in a man Smiley
Posted: at 17-07-2011 06:34 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 17-07-2011 09:50 PM (12 years ago)
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I can fall in love with any race, depending on the individual.
Posted: at 17-07-2011 09:50 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- trolling at 18-07-2011 01:24 AM (12 years ago)
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 Black+White="Grey"
Posted: at 18-07-2011 01:24 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 18-07-2011 03:37 AM (12 years ago)
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it depends on each individual sha..for me i only find my naija black men attractive..i can't date a non-naija guy...i won't feel comfortable be around that person.

Posted: at 18-07-2011 03:37 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- tayewo12 at 18-07-2011 03:43 AM (12 years ago)
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I am not racist, but for me the darker the sexier. I knew this since I was a child of about 12!
Posted: at 18-07-2011 03:43 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- shaoyang at 18-07-2011 04:31 AM (12 years ago)
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Depends on the criterial you consider b4 falling in love ... forme personality first, because that is the only thing that can make me hang around for longer time
Posted: at 18-07-2011 04:31 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 18-07-2011 07:41 AM (12 years ago)
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 Smiley

Posted: at 18-07-2011 07:41 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Mercies at 18-07-2011 04:08 PM (12 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
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- FlyMamacita at 19-07-2011 07:55 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 18-07-2011 01:24 AM
Black+White="Grey"

Thank God my son is not "Grey"
Posted: at 19-07-2011 07:55 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ladysleek4u at 19-07-2011 09:46 AM (12 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
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- FlyMamacita at 19-07-2011 09:49 AM (12 years ago)
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 Tongue Tongue Tongue Grin
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