Don’t Call It Rape If It’s Just Regret

Date: 20-07-2011 10:35 am (12 years ago) | Author: Darky
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- at 20-07-2011 10:35 AM (12 years ago)
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I came across this and
How many girls will wake up after a night of wild partying, half-dressed and hung-over and asking themselves this question? Who is the guy sleeping by my side? What happened yesterday night?
For years we’ve been told that we aren’t responsible for our actions, or are we. We can drink or dress provocatively or coyly slap away a guy’s roaming hands while at the same time undressing him with our eyes, but if he takes our mixed messages seriously and acts on them, he is a date rapist.
How many so-called date rapes are actually cases of morning-after regrets? I’m not saying that date rape doesn’t occur or is in any way excusable; for a guy to force himself on anyone at any time is absolutely wrong. But girls who put themselves in risky situations need to take responsibility for themselves and their actions. Drinking and the heady excitement of wild partying leads to a loss of inhibitions for both guys and girls. When an already horny guy, whether drunk or not, is given what he thinks is the go-ahead by his date, it is unreasonable to expect him to resist those signals.
Guys and girls alike must take responsibility and face the consequences for driving while intoxicated, but it’s somehow never considered the girl’s fault when we’re talking about hooking up while drunk.
This I know we all think is insulting. Someone read a statistic on MySpace recently that said that 27 percent of high school girls who are virgins before prom night lose their virginity that night. Knowing this, a girl should be smart enough to know her limits.
What do you guys have to say...


Posted: at 20-07-2011 10:35 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
- 123Sonia at 20-07-2011 11:03 AM (12 years ago)
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nothing
Posted: at 20-07-2011 11:03 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- whitedove255 at 20-07-2011 11:19 AM (12 years ago)
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reading...
Posted: at 20-07-2011 11:19 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 20-07-2011 11:32 AM (12 years ago)
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 Kiss Kiss

Posted: at 20-07-2011 11:32 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- drnoel at 20-07-2011 04:39 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 20-07-2011 11:32 AM
Kiss Kiss

Na so, women where una dey. This is one topic they won't like 2 answer

Posted: at 20-07-2011 04:39 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ebinyi at 21-07-2011 09:20 AM (12 years ago)
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that right!
Posted: at 21-07-2011 09:20 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xena15 at 21-07-2011 01:13 PM (12 years ago)
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Ok,then,no be rape....

Posted: at 21-07-2011 01:13 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- drnoel at 21-07-2011 01:21 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on 21-07-2011 01:13 PM
Ok,then,no be rape....

at least one woman agreed, wey the rest dey

Posted: at 21-07-2011 01:21 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xena15 at 21-07-2011 01:34 PM (12 years ago)
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D rest dey regret

Posted: at 21-07-2011 01:34 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tando at 21-07-2011 01:36 PM (12 years ago)
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if i didnt enjoy then it's rape period.
Posted: at 21-07-2011 01:36 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreciousA at 21-07-2011 01:59 PM (12 years ago)
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I always wait til the checque clears before I make up my mind.... Grin

Seriously, though, there will always some of both as long as men are men Roll Eyes and women are well, the way we are.
Posted: at 21-07-2011 01:59 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- drnoel at 22-07-2011 06:26 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: tando on 21-07-2011 01:36 PM
if i didnt enjoy then it's rape period.

U no see ur life, as if enjoying it depends only on the mans bed skills

Posted: at 22-07-2011 06:26 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Steelamazon at 22-07-2011 02:25 PM (12 years ago)
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Poster, i totally agree wit u.

Posted: at 22-07-2011 02:25 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 50scent at 22-07-2011 06:19 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on 21-07-2011 01:34 PM
D rest dey regret

Will u drag ya ass commot here if dey rape u go see
commot here right now,
awarawa bois eye dey red for here  Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad

Posted: at 22-07-2011 06:19 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- glossyeng at 22-07-2011 06:41 PM (12 years ago)
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still reading
Posted: at 22-07-2011 06:41 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 50scent at 22-07-2011 06:45 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: glossyeng on 22-07-2011 06:41 PM
still reading

borrow my spectacle  Grin

Posted: at 22-07-2011 06:45 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 22-07-2011 08:19 PM (12 years ago)
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If a woman tell u to jump inside river, will u go?

If she dress sexy or flirt, dusn mean she always need ur  Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Cheesy
Posted: at 22-07-2011 08:19 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- drnoel at 26-07-2011 06:09 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-07-2011 08:19 PM
If a woman tell u to jump inside river, will u go?

If she dress sexy or flirt, dusn mean she always need ur  Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Cheesy


Whats that supposed 2 mean. Do u think its every time a woman wears something skimpy or flirt that men get the jives. Cool, down what off if u turn the situation around and put the man in the woman's shoes. Do u think men don't get the come-on from women too, why is that when they don't act women call then names and when they act na problem....

Posted: at 26-07-2011 06:09 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 26-07-2011 07:04 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: drnoel on 26-07-2011 06:09 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-07-2011 08:19 PM
If a woman tell u to jump inside river, will u go?

If she dress sexy or flirt, dusn mean she always need ur  Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Cheesy


Whats that supposed 2 mean. Do u think its every time a woman wears something skimpy or flirt that men get the jives. Cool, down what off if u turn the situation around and put the man in the woman's shoes. Do u think men don't get the come-on from women too, why is that when they don't act women call then names and when they act na problem....

Not all women are the same u know.... Those ones luv to play games with men.
So it will never be ok, if u giv dem attention na problem, if not d same problem like u said.

but in many cases of rape, the first tin ppl go tink is, if d gal called for it hersef...nd am tired of hearin dat.
As if man no fit hear NO.
Posted: at 26-07-2011 07:04 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- erikaakpan at 26-07-2011 07:13 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: tando on 21-07-2011 01:36 PM
if i didnt enjoy then it's rape period.

lol

Posted: at 26-07-2011 07:13 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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