Break-up's occur everyday, every second as we as people would never know it happened.
As someone who has had to make the decision to call it "quits" I know it is hard, actually harder saying it than thinking it.
Why do you break up with your partner?
What happens afterwards? Would you continue a friendship with your ex?
Do you get all nervous and uncomfortable if you saw your ex on the street? What turns you off about your partner which leads to break-up's? All the best..... CIAO!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: at 20-12-2008 11:03 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
Youre very right breaking up is not an easy decision to make anyway i havent really been in any real relationship ( at least to me ), but there one time i was involved with a guy. Anyway he wrote me a letter and broke up with me.I so it coming, so we talked and decided to part ways. I got back home, told my friends and that was it.He said he felt we weren't connecting and that he thought i felt it too and stuffs like that.I did not even shed a single tear and i did not feel moody one bit,I only wondered why i even went into the relationship in the first place ( not that i did not like him, i adored him, though i cant say i loved him ). Whenever i saw him, i felt very uncomfortable and ever since that day i never talked to him but only on two occasions ( like a year later) and it was necessary.I felt bad because everyone thought we made the best match. You wouldn't believe it but he thought i was going to cry and asked someone to check on me.The funniest part is that he was the one who felt horrible after the breakup,i mean it was written all over me. I feel Ive written too much,sorry i was just pouring my heart out. As for me no breakup can leave me in a very bad shape and i suggest that people adopt that attitude because "we make up to break up" but i still believe in true love.
Posted: at 21-12-2008 12:39 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
Quote from: blackberryPearl on 21-12-2008 04:49 AM
break up makes you do a lot of things but that doesn't mean u still can't be friends maybe u guys are better off friends but u just gotta move on
Are u for real? Be friends for what now? That's so typically girlie. u want to eat Ur cake and have it abi? If Ur not together, ur not together. Simple. What's the use holind onto someone U've been deep with (deeper than the casual), if no be say U wan complicate emotins arrange road block for Ur next relationship? Me I no gbadun dis ur talk at all.
It's not easy to move on but it definately WISER to move on. it takes time and in certain cases, U'll probably not forget him/her easily but U've got to.
Posted: at 24-01-2009 08:09 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
diplomatik at 24-01-2009 08:28 PM (16 years ago) (f)
which one i go answer first, na too much question at once now
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 24-01-2009 08:28 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Quote from: blackberryPearl on 21-12-2008 04:49 AM
break up makes you do a lot of things but that doesn't mean u still can't be friends maybe u guys are better off friends but u just gotta move on
Are u for real? Be friends for what now? That's so typically girlie. u want to eat Ur cake and have it abi? If Ur not together, ur not together. Simple. What's the use holind onto someone U've been deep with (deeper than the casual), if no be say U wan complicate emotins arrange road block for Ur next relationship? Me I no gbadun dis ur talk at all.
It's not easy to move on but it definately WISER to move on. it takes time and in certain cases, U'll probably not forget him/her easily but U've got to.
then u urself is crazy of course u can be friends. unless u wanted to know her just to date her. if ur friends, u can still be friends
Posted: at 24-01-2009 08:41 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
no u mean that when is all over that means that u guys can't be friends if u guys can be friends, it would be ok but if u wanna disappear then u have a ticket go ahead
Posted: at 24-01-2009 08:51 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
Break-up's occur everyday, every second as we as people would never know it happened.
As someone who has had to make the decision to call it "quits" I know it is hard, actually harder saying it than thinking it.
Why do you break up with your partner?
What happens afterwards? Would you continue a friendship with your ex?
Do you get all nervous and uncomfortable if you saw your ex on the street? What turns you off about your partner which leads to break-up's? All the best..... CIAO!!!!!!!!!!
once a partner has said his/her mind, the damage has already been done, so there is no point for much cry
2.0.
Posted: at 24-01-2009 08:53 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Beautydiva at 24-01-2009 08:54 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Breakups occur as a result of INCOMPATIBILITY. The best thing one can do after is 2 have self-belief and determination to pull through ur emotions. Most of d time, i don't remain friends with my ex. If i meet him on d street, i wouldn't take notice of him. I'll walk pass. I can't stand lies.
Posted: at 24-01-2009 08:54 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
Breakups occur as a result of INCOMPATIBILITY. The best thing one can do after is 2 have self-belief and determination to pull through ur emotions. Most of d time, i don't remain friends with my ex. If i meet him on d street, i wouldn't take notice of him. I'll walk pass. I can't stand lies.
"wouldn't take notice of him?" Now that's a bit too extreme for me and it would kinda imply that I'm being immature. i'm not saying blank the person as a whole o, I only suggested keeping off the person, no be say una no go yarn at all if per chance una paths jam.
Posted: at 24-01-2009 09:00 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
vivian07 at 24-01-2009 09:47 PM (16 years ago) (f)
its not easy to move on when u really love the guy.but u have to so that u will meet the right person. and i cant be friends with my ex.cos once in love u re always in love.
Posted: at 24-01-2009 09:47 PM (16 years ago) | Hero