He lost interest in me or may be in sex (Page 11)

Date: 29-07-2011 3:10 pm (12 years ago) | Author: taiwo florence
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- ifiokokoh at 30-07-2011 04:59 PM (12 years ago)
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Take him to God in prayer, ask God  he will surly show  you the right way.
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- Bantino at 30-07-2011 05:32 PM (12 years ago)
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Something is wrong somewhere, did you test before marriage?
Posted: at 30-07-2011 05:32 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 30-07-2011 05:33 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kelvindayo on 30-07-2011 04:14 PM
From My own point of View i just think He is tired of doing it and getting no results.

Also very possible.
Posted: at 30-07-2011 05:33 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Englins at 30-07-2011 05:52 PM (12 years ago)
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I think there might be sumtin wrong wit ur husband.... Have the both of u tried goin to the hospital
Posted: at 30-07-2011 05:52 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- emmybarthy at 30-07-2011 05:58 PM (12 years ago)
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Do you believe in prayers? If you do, then pray about it, and I believe God will help.  I tell you true, its not easy.  If your husband is a workaholic, then he is stressed out when he gets back from work and may not be interest in anything than to sleep.  See you you guys can go on a vacation to some new environment.  Talk with him and make him see reason.  Do listen to the talk of divorce that others are posting here, sometimes, you might be stepping out at the point that God is about the change your lifes.  "It is well".
Posted: at 30-07-2011 05:58 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- eddybest4life at 30-07-2011 06:21 PM (12 years ago)
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Well though it has been long, but you can still make an amend and can still make things work out. If you both did not go through a proper fertility test b4 marriage, i think you should go for that now. If after that, you discover that he is alright and you too is ok. Then you ask him some private question, becos there should be something he is not telling you. Something like being in a secret society. If i did not tell you something reasonable then you present the matter to my father, BABA GOD he is the final resort. He is always up to some thing wen you are down on nothing.
Posted: at 30-07-2011 06:21 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- igbonnanna at 30-07-2011 06:46 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Tabia on 29-07-2011 10:26 PM
Hi, first lets talk about appearance. Men tend to be controlled by their sight ie when they see a fine chick their stuff will begin to stand. How have you been looking lately? Do you put on your best lingerie or nighty in the bedroom when you guys are alone? Think of what attracted him to you? What he likes and what turns him on?
Next how do you behave lately? Do you nag at him aften? Do you tell him that  he makes you feel unhappy? I know you are unhappy now but then men like it when they feel they are the center of your happiness. So try not to even make them know cos they will feel they are not wanted.
Next, look for the right time to talk to him about it. I mean when he is in a good mood or when you feel its right. When your doing that hold his hands, look into his eyes. Dont panic when your talking. Tell him how lovely it is when you guys used to have sex. Tell him you all sweet stuff.
Its sad that you asked his friends about him being impotent. Do you think he will find it funny if he gets to know? Imagine how his friends will be looking at him now? Mind the kind of third parties you invite into marriage. If you are having any problem, there are ebooks online that you can read. Remember gossips spread alot and it wont be fair if your husband hears it.
If all this doesnt work then take the case to God, and you will get a solution.
Wish you the best!

@Tabia,

u are the only person till now that touched my mind and I feel u hit d nail on the heads, with my red-marked above.

Lady, all these things she pondered here, with it, every man would feel to be sleeping with you daily. lol., i hv started to hv filngs with dis contributor.

My sister. Keep it up!
Posted: at 30-07-2011 06:46 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 30-07-2011 06:48 PM (12 years ago)
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no comment............eze igbo i dey hail ooo

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- igbonnanna at 30-07-2011 06:55 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kinkyebony on 30-07-2011 01:50 AM
@ poster,u dnt hav 2 worry too much. But u've 2 search yö conscence & knw weda u offended him badly dat he may vow never 2 4k u any mör, instead he'll b FLOGIN enöf babes of his desire outside waitin wen u'll call off d MARRIAGE, den he'll marry d babe he may töt is right 2 replace u; He may turned 2 b GAY bcös of yö character, hw yuä moving wit his frends & xposin d secrecy of yö MATRMONY; May b doz his frends yuä cmplaining 2, may FALSLY tell him dat yüa chasing dem indirectly, den he may b targetin u, & waitin 4 d ryt tym 2 XCHANGE u wit anödä babe.

If non of d abov is d squable, i think d ryt tin 4 u is 2 divorce him & move on wit yö life. Dat's y is gud 4 cotship b4 marriage, so dat u'll knw weda d BOLE is active or limp. i dnt believ in no-sex b4 marriage, dat's arrant nonsense. Dis is an eye opener 2 any babe who will b decievin herself by sayin dat's only aftä marriage man cn 4k her. dat's bullshit menh Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad

Posted: at 30-07-2011 06:55 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- igbonnanna at 30-07-2011 06:58 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 30-07-2011 08:51 AM
This can mean so many different things.
He may be experiencing some physical problems, and he is embarrassed to talk abt it.
So always make him feel comfortable whn having a conversation, or u can go for professional help.

He may have something bothering him outside of the marriage. Maybe pressure frm his job,
financial struggles, anytin.

Give ur support, always be there for him, show respect and find ways for him to relax.

What about passion? Maybe this is missing frm ur r/s... Do what u can do to bring variety into ur experience.
Encourage him anytime he does somtin right tht excites u.

Maybe he is havin an affair. But b4 u jump to conclusions u must hav definite proof.
If at all ur suspicions are confirmed, u have to decide, either together or with the help of a therapist, whether u want to work towards saving ur marriage or would prefer parting ways.

Reevaluate ur own atractiveness. Hav u bin takin ur own looks and appereance for granted?


red marked seems reasonable.
Posted: at 30-07-2011 06:58 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- igbonnanna at 30-07-2011 07:02 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: martha4228 on 30-07-2011 07:25 AM
a man’s emotions can have a huge impact on his segxwal desire. If he feels emotionally distant from his wife, and especially if he feels like a failure in any way, it can lead to a lack of confidence and therefore a lack of interest in sex. For a man, segxwal performance is very much tied to ego, so if he is not feeling good about himself it will definitely show up in his approach to segxwal intimacy with his wife.

similar 2 above.

Are u working and bringing some money home or give him some super workable ideas on how to succeed? if u possess none of these qualities, and always expect LOVE, SEX, LOVE, SEX without any economic consideration, then you ought to make a rethink.
Posted: at 30-07-2011 07:02 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- igbonnanna at 30-07-2011 07:09 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: open_reality on 30-07-2011 12:11 PM
Quote from: DHash on 30-07-2011 11:54 AM
Try fcuking outside and forget about him.

Haba!!! That's not a good advise u know?

Red marked = BAD ADVICE!

And if she gets pregnant from outside, who is responsible? That would end of the marriage, abi?
Posted: at 30-07-2011 07:09 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- igbonnanna at 30-07-2011 07:17 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 30-07-2011 06:48 PM
no comment............eze igbo i dey hail ooo


Beautiful Babe, KEBELLA,  how are u my D? I miss u. I haven't be around here some days now. My lovely greetings!
Posted: at 30-07-2011 07:17 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- goingwithyou at 30-07-2011 07:24 PM (12 years ago)
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Since it as come to dis spy on him ... Get some one to track him down for u .. with dat u r going to kw where he visit after work and wht is doing ..
Posted: at 30-07-2011 07:24 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- austineok at 30-07-2011 07:25 PM (12 years ago)
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@poster plz tank ur God maybe ur hubby is HIV+ and he dnt want to infest u/and dnt knw how to info u.
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- austineok at 30-07-2011 07:31 PM (12 years ago)
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@poster plz tank ur God maybe ur hubby is HIV+ and he dnt want to infest u/and dnt knw how to info u.
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- jeffrey4u at 30-07-2011 07:45 PM (12 years ago)
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hehehe
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- mimibre at 30-07-2011 08:28 PM (12 years ago)
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hmmm! Are u sure ur husband isn't having an affair? Cos d way i see it i think he's tired of u! 
Posted: at 30-07-2011 08:28 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oscy at 30-07-2011 08:31 PM (12 years ago)
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ok in that case, find out about his segxwal orientation....
Posted: at 30-07-2011 08:31 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- mimibre at 30-07-2011 08:39 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 29-07-2011 03:50 PM
Quote from: 50scent on 29-07-2011 03:45 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 29-07-2011 03:43 PM
Quote from: 50scent on 29-07-2011 03:37 PM
tflo divorce your so called man, get your ass in here
Stop this your yeye talk.......this is serious business........tell her something reasonable or get your ass outta here.......

Sweetheart, queen of my heart im sorry
i gotta get my ass out but kiss me first

The person wey do you this thing don die........so make u manage urself like dat but no be for my body...iPad pikin like you
hahahahaha! 50 cent  Tongue :'(
Posted: at 30-07-2011 08:39 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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