Extended family gives an Ultimatum "Get Married or Else..." (Page 5)

Quote from: toibeli on 12-08-2011 09:07 PM

Gone are the days when parents influenced or forced their children to marry early or
marry a person of their (parent's) choice. I think the lady should follow her heart and
reach for the sky by going for her PhD. With such educational achievement, she
will attract a lot of good men.

Good advice. I wished the lady in question would read your comment.
Women should be allowed to make decisions that affect their lives by
themselves. And parents need to support their daughters regardless of
their disagreement with the choice. This lady should not be forced
to marry before she is ready.

dan fulani

Posted: at 14-08-2011 08:34 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

God is a master planner,God have something to do with that lady, the family lack  wisdom of God,so my point now is that this lady have to build a lot of faith and trust in God,and God will give her the best husband at the appointed time, so lady where is your faith?God said anywhere i find a Little faith i will appear believe me if you have a Little faith God will appear in your situation and people will beige bread in your hand, it's time for God to prove his power open your life,forget about what your family or peoples said against you, whom will said and it come to pass if God did not said? anyway i don't know you, if i know you i will let you see the power of God,  GOD BLESS YOU

Posted: at 14-08-2011 08:55 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

@poster na who give you this info? u are stupidooo (anuofia) y na igbo girl u wan use abi for ur house ur sisters they reach under 31 before marry. then imagin under 31 with girls age na him be say the girl don reach 41

Posted: at 14-08-2011 09:42 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Babe get married and continue your studies even if you want to get to heven. remember that you are acquiring more than many men  and it scares many away from women or do you want to marry yourself?  bringing family issue in the public  including your tribe too.  INA AGUGBUONWEGI NA- KWUKWO

Posted: at 14-08-2011 10:53 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

 

Posted: at 14-08-2011 11:04 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

HI, why are you crying about marriage?Now marry me while you continue with your PHD.
Marriage is good but not everyone will marry.
Now go ahead and stooped let me do the doing baby.

Posted: at 14-08-2011 12:46 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

you

Posted: at 14-08-2011 03:03 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master

MARRIAGE IS A MATTER OF RECONCILE. THEREFORE WE MUST NOT BE FORCED TO GET MARRIED JUST BECAUSE OUR PARENTS WANT THAT.
I THINK EDUCATION IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN MARRIAGE BECAUSE THE WHOLE NATION CAN BENEFIT FROM YOUR EDUCATION BUT ONLY
YOU WHO CAN BENEFIT FROM YOUR MARRIAGE IF YOU FIND THE APPROPRIATE SPOUSE.

Posted: at 14-08-2011 04:22 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

You gbaski jareee my broda,tell them.marriage my ass.

Posted: at 14-08-2011 04:27 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

 

Posted: at 14-08-2011 06:04 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming