Extended family gives an Ultimatum "Get Married or Else..." (Page 5)

Date: 12-08-2011 6:41 pm (10 years ago) | Author: Darky
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- Dan_Fulani at 14-08-2011 08:34 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: toibeli on 12-08-2011 09:07 PM
Gone are the days when parents influenced or forced their children to marry early or
marry a person of their (parent's) choice. I think the lady should follow her heart and
reach for the sky by going for her PhD. With such educational achievement, she
will attract a lot of good men.

Good advice. I wished the lady in question would read your comment.
Women should be allowed to make decisions that affect their lives by
themselves. And parents need to support their daughters regardless of
their disagreement with the choice. This lady should not be forced
to marry before she is ready.

dan fulani
Posted: at 14-08-2011 08:34 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dan_Fulani at 14-08-2011 08:40 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Geoffred on 13-08-2011 05:34 PM
hmmmm, well, i have gone through many comments here and im happy u guys understand really what going on here. i came to Italy few months ago and i can say that majority of girls here are prostitute and i can also tell u that 90 percent of them are happy with it.  Now, consider a pregnant women who went for a prostitute job last night and gave birth the next morning that is to show how curious they are with the job. Same thing also implies to men (BEGGING & HOMOSEXUALITY) in the street in other to make money to impress people at home. Now, who is to be blamed? the government or individual? the government have no fault in regards to this cus i will rather blame the so-called jandoneirs  who have lived here for some yrs, irrespective of their useless and downgrading job here, they still come to Africa to pose and deceive people that live is sweet here. i will rather deceive myself to deceive u, there is nothing here other than suffering and pains. here is like a secret cult, when u are in, its hard to get out. And this so-called prostitution is only taking so serious by our Nigerians girls, we have other African nationals here, like the Ghanaian, Cameroonians, Senegalese, Togolese, etc. they tend to do little job to save their image other than going into prostitution. Only God can help em.. i just want to drop little here, if u need to know more u can facebook me @ Geoffrey Obiazi...........love ya


You told the truth man. Thank you for the info.
dan fulani
Posted: at 14-08-2011 08:40 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ifeanyi1010 at 14-08-2011 08:55 AM (10 years ago)
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God is a master planner,God have something to do with that lady, the family lack  wisdom of God,so my point now is that this lady have to build a lot of faith and trust in God,and God will give her the best husband at the appointed time, so lady where is your faith?God said anywhere i find a Little faith i will appear believe me if you have a Little faith God will appear in your situation and people will beige bread in your hand, it's time for God to prove his power open your life,forget about what your family or peoples said against you, whom will said and it come to pass if God did not said? anyway i don't know you, if i know you i will let you see the power of God,  GOD BLESS YOU
Posted: at 14-08-2011 08:55 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dan_Fulani at 14-08-2011 08:59 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: slice on 13-08-2011 07:35 AM
I just pity her watin she dey use all the education 4, at the end she go end up inside kitchen. The education she hard, i think is enof for her. ladies get old faster than guys, u can't compeer a lady @ 30 to a guy @ 35 i bet u the guy will look more younger dan her. i know fully well that guys don't go for ladies who facial looks is older than there own, instead they go for young girls @ the age of 25. so plz b4 it is too late go and get married.  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Wow, I find it hard to believe men still think this way. Of course she can still cook for
herself and family but she does not have to end up in the kitchen as you put it.
You said ladies get older faster than guys......what is your proof? Show me the scientific
study that supports your claim?
Brother, I respectfully disagree with all your claims. There are no facts to support them.

dan fulani
Posted: at 14-08-2011 08:59 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- foukidrem at 14-08-2011 09:42 AM (10 years ago)
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@poster na who give you this info? u are stupidooo (anuofia) y na igbo girl u wan use abi for ur house ur sisters they reach under 31 before marry. then imagin under 31 with girls age na him be say the girl don reach 41 Grin Grin Grin
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- drnoel at 14-08-2011 10:45 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: foukidrem on 14-08-2011 09:42 AM
@poster na who give you this info? u are stupidooo (anuofia) y na igbo girl u wan use abi for ur house ur sisters they reach under 31 before marry. then imagin under 31 with girls age na him be say the girl don reach 41 Grin Grin Grin

Words of a completely ignorant man, I pity u....

Posted: at 14-08-2011 10:45 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ebysco at 14-08-2011 10:53 AM (10 years ago)
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Babe get married and continue your studies even if you want to get to heven. remember that you are acquiring more than many men  and it scares many away from women or do you want to marry yourself?  bringing family issue in the public  including your tribe too.  INA AGUGBUONWEGI NA- KWUKWO
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- samsonab at 14-08-2011 10:56 AM (10 years ago)
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What is happening in this our time, The creator of heaven and earth says seek me first and every other thing will be added to u. So why do we put our seif first God ve mercy,if she belief in God is going to be well, is not how far but how well.   
Posted: at 14-08-2011 10:56 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- malvin2525 at 14-08-2011 11:04 AM (10 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 14-08-2011 11:04 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- handofGod at 14-08-2011 11:50 AM (10 years ago)
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make them go buy husband inside mall for her since they want her to get married. stupid people
Posted: at 14-08-2011 11:50 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- myguy540 at 14-08-2011 12:46 PM (10 years ago)
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HI, why are you crying about marriage?Now marry me while you continue with your PHD.
Marriage is good but not everyone will marry.
Now go ahead and stooped let me do the doing baby.
Posted: at 14-08-2011 12:46 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- descent1 at 14-08-2011 01:47 PM (10 years ago)
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She should know that,' the older she grows, the less attractive she becomes'. If she wants to marry,it should not deter her from her academic pursuit. I believe that she has the right to choice.
Posted: at 14-08-2011 01:47 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- ajanni at 14-08-2011 03:03 PM (10 years ago)
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you Huh?
Posted: at 14-08-2011 03:03 PM (10 years ago) | Grande Master
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- HOPEA23 at 14-08-2011 03:50 PM (10 years ago)
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make her parents nor worry demselves her education go marry her...

Posted: at 14-08-2011 03:50 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- gladiator14 at 14-08-2011 04:22 PM (10 years ago)
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MARRIAGE IS A MATTER OF RECONCILE. THEREFORE WE MUST NOT BE FORCED TO GET MARRIED JUST BECAUSE OUR PARENTS WANT THAT.
I THINK EDUCATION IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN MARRIAGE BECAUSE THE WHOLE NATION CAN BENEFIT FROM YOUR EDUCATION BUT ONLY
YOU WHO CAN BENEFIT FROM YOUR MARRIAGE IF YOU FIND THE APPROPRIATE SPOUSE.
Posted: at 14-08-2011 04:22 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- princess4jifs at 14-08-2011 04:24 PM (10 years ago)
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Marriage Marriage Marriage,watz the big deal,let me remind us all dat not everybody is meant to marry or be married.pple inside married are looking for a way out bcos of d wrong choice of partner,u guys are here crying rivers becos of marriage.mind us it is beta to remain single dan to marry a spouse dat ll make u cry every second.of ur life.Girl get ur education,on d way if u meet d right man fine,if u dnt beta remain single than be with a heartache cos u might die on time without eating ur labour fruit.gacia amile.
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- princess4jifs at 14-08-2011 04:27 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: gladiator14 on 14-08-2011 04:22 PM
MARRIAGE IS A MATTER OF RECONCILE. THEREFORE WE MUST NOT BE FORCED TO GET MARRIED JUST BECAUSE OUR PARENTS WANT THAT.
I THINK EDUCATION IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN MARRIAGE BECAUSE THE WHOLE NATION CAN BENEFIT FROM YOUR EDUCATION BUT ONLY
YOU WHO CAN BENEFIT FROM YOUR MARRIAGE IF YOU FIND THE APPROPRIATE SPOUSE.



You gbaski jareee my broda,tell them.marriage my ass.
Posted: at 14-08-2011 04:27 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Teganto at 14-08-2011 05:34 PM (10 years ago)
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call me latr
nxt
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- hotchase at 14-08-2011 06:04 PM (10 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
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- djosh4cesc at 14-08-2011 06:06 PM (10 years ago)
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I agree with all have been said...but if she isnt ready for marriage at 30 or 31,then when will she be?when she hit menopause?
Posted: at 14-08-2011 06:06 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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