can u dig this

Date: 29-12-2008 12:26 pm (15 years ago) | Author: tunde daniel
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- at 29-12-2008 12:26 PM (15 years ago)
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i met ds girl durin summer sch in 2001 while preparin for JAMB and ad a crush for her but neva told her. 5 years afta we meet on the road side and she invites me to her place. dat nyt we talked and she confirm she also ad a crush on me and told me to come see her. wen i got to her place the followin week we were talkin but i noticed she was moody and i asked wat was up. she refused but i pestered and she ended up tellin me dat she ad sex for the firsttime 3 weeks befor i met her and she tinks she's pregnant. i was shocked and i told her to taske tins easy. she sed d guy told her to go sort herself. i consoled her and told her she wasnt pregnant but she kept insistin and i foolishly sed if she was i would take responsibility. she was supriseed but i told her i was serious and vowed. the next weeks she called me that she went for a test and was negative. pls pips dont crucify me.

Posted: at 29-12-2008 12:26 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- Vixenx at 29-12-2008 02:14 PM (15 years ago)
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What is there to crucify you about? you wanted to take responsibility when another guy wouldn't, what you did was not foolish, you are simply a good man. Let her know that the next time she gets to know the person before having sex with them. Kids ain't nothing to play with.
Posted: at 29-12-2008 02:14 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- princemech at 29-12-2008 05:36 PM (15 years ago)
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huh!
Posted: at 29-12-2008 05:36 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- herdeysohjy at 29-12-2008 05:54 PM (15 years ago)
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 Smiley Smiley
Posted: at 29-12-2008 05:54 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eagleseyez at 29-12-2008 05:57 PM (15 years ago)
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but are u really ready to take this responsibility?
i hope u know what that means, acceptin what
belongs to another man, Vixenx may be right
but tomorrow counts....what if the father pops
out from nowhere and claim paternity?
thats by the way, i ask again....do u knw what
it means to take responsibility can u live wth
that?.. allow ur head 2 do some work for u o
Posted: at 29-12-2008 05:57 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tundedaniel at 2-01-2009 10:19 AM (15 years ago)
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it was sometin i wanted to really do for her. but does dat make me a good man?
Posted: at 2-01-2009 10:19 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- yemmight at 2-01-2009 11:30 AM (15 years ago)
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Please dont take such responsibility next time.
Posted: at 2-01-2009 11:30 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lovemar at 2-01-2009 03:32 PM (15 years ago)
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I guess u just have to be careful.
Posted: at 2-01-2009 03:32 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- herdeysohjy at 2-01-2009 03:38 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: lovemar on  2-01-2009 03:32 PM
I guess u just have to be careful.
Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 2-01-2009 03:38 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tundedaniel at 2-01-2009 04:18 PM (15 years ago)
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u can bet on ur life i wont
but u know we do crazy tins at times. any1 else done sometin crazy?
Posted: at 2-01-2009 04:18 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- akjasper at 4-01-2009 02:25 AM (15 years ago)
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Accepting Smones responsibility is nt all
Dt correct only if u did it wt condition.....
Posted: at 4-01-2009 02:25 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 4-01-2009 05:58 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: tundedaniel on  2-01-2009 10:19 AM
it was sometin i wanted to really do for her. but does dat make me a good man?



Well in a way it seems so cos u try to prevent her from killing the baby thereby would ve saved a life but then, my dear just remember that in this part of the world ones act of kindness could sometimes bring him untold woes. thats if u understand what i mean.
Posted: at 4-01-2009 05:58 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 4-01-2009 06:00 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on 29-12-2008 05:57 PM
but are u really ready to take this responsibility?
i hope u know what that means, acceptin what
belongs to another man, Vixenx may be right
but tomorrow counts....what if the father pops
out from nowhere and claim paternity?
thats by the way, i ask again....do u knw what
it means to take responsibility can u live wth
that?.. allow ur head 2 do some work for u o


u re very right bro
Posted: at 4-01-2009 06:00 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- tundedaniel at 7-01-2009 12:34 PM (15 years ago)
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at babe could be our next Obama u know
Posted: at 7-01-2009 12:34 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- elizatops at 7-01-2009 12:57 PM (15 years ago)
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hmmm....
dont know wat to say
iy seems u dont know the kind of responsibility u are bringing upon ursef
its good to be good and nice but not all times
Posted: at 7-01-2009 12:57 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- peacetee at 7-01-2009 01:34 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: tundedaniel on 29-12-2008 12:26 PM
i met ds girl durin summer sch in 2001 while preparin for JAMB and ad a crush for her but neva told her. 5 years afta we meet on the road side and she invites me to her place. dat nyt we talked and she confirm she also ad a crush on me and told me to come see her. wen i got to her place the followin week we were talkin but i noticed she was moody and i asked wat was up. she refused but i pestered and she ended up tellin me dat she ad sex for the firsttime 3 weeks befor i met her and she tinks she's pregnant. i was shocked and i told her to taske tins easy. she sed d guy told her to go sort herself. i consoled her and told her she wasnt pregnant but she kept insistin and i foolishly sed if she was i would take responsibility. she was supriseed but i told her i was serious and vowed. the next weeks she called me that she went for a test and was negative. pls pips dont crucify me.

I did and dug  Tongue

What is there to crucify...u had a lucky escape young man...

DONT EVER TRY DAT AGAIN.....

Go AND NOT make idle vows no more  Undecided
Posted: at 7-01-2009 01:34 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tundedaniel at 8-01-2009 12:41 PM (15 years ago)
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yea but u neva know wen its good to be nice and wen its good to be not nice. we dont av discernin powers for dat
Posted: at 8-01-2009 12:41 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- peacetee at 8-01-2009 03:01 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: tundedaniel on  8-01-2009 12:41 PM
yea but u neva know wen its good to be nice and wen its good to be not nice. we dont av discernin powers for dat

As Vixen said....Children are not something to play with...

You being nice is not the answer to that girl's need.  Takin on someone else's child is NOT something u do cos its 'nice'.  A child Needs stability, support, financially emotionally and otherwise.... U can be 'nice' for a moment, but we are talking for life!! Cos that is what a child is ... FOR LIFE...

Be nice and tell her u will support her, but not TAKE responsibility for that child especially when u arent prepared for that.

Dont get me wrong, what u did obviously was outstanding as a Man. but as I said, u had a lucky escape, cos her pregnancy came back negative...

Ask urself this, what if it had come back Positive? where would ur life be in 10yrs time? and where will ur life be in 10yrs time now that the result was negative?

Food for thot...

Posted: at 8-01-2009 03:01 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 8-01-2009 03:28 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: tundedaniel on 29-12-2008 12:26 PM
i met ds girl durin summer sch in 2001 while preparin for JAMB and ad a crush for her but neva told her. 5 years afta we meet on the road side and she invites me to her place. dat nyt we talked and she confirm she also ad a crush on me and told me to come see her. wen i got to her place the followin week we were talkin but i noticed she was moody and i asked wat was up. she refused but i pestered and she ended up tellin me dat she ad sex for the firsttime 3 weeks befor i met her and she tinks she's pregnant. i was shocked and i told her to taske tins easy. she sed d guy told her to go sort herself. i consoled her and told her she wasnt pregnant but she kept insistin and i foolishly sed if she was i would take responsibility. she was supriseed but i told her i was serious and vowed. the next weeks she called me that she went for a test and was negative. pls pips dont crucify me.
wot really do want wit her...apart 4rm d promise?
till death do two of u part?
Or is it something u want to do as a charity?
any of them is not bad...but u hv to look very well b4 u leap.
all is a long committment.
Posted: at 8-01-2009 03:28 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- tundedaniel at 13-01-2009 10:44 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on  8-01-2009 03:28 PM
Quote from: tundedaniel on 29-12-2008 12:26 PM
i met ds girl durin summer sch in 2001 while preparin for JAMB and ad a crush for her but neva told her. 5 years afta we meet on the road side and she invites me to her place. dat nyt we talked and she confirm she also ad a crush on me and told me to come see her. wen i got to her place the followin week we were talkin but i noticed she was moody and i asked wat was up. she refused but i pestered and she ended up tellin me dat she ad sex for the firsttime 3 weeks befor i met her and she tinks she's pregnant. i was shocked and i told her to taske tins easy. she sed d guy told her to go sort herself. i consoled her and told her she wasnt pregnant but she kept insistin and i foolishly sed if she was i would take responsibility. she was supriseed but i told her i was serious and vowed. the next weeks she called me that she went for a test and was negative. pls pips dont crucify me.
wot really do want wit her...apart 4rm d promise?
till death do two of u part?
Or is it something u want to do as a charity?
any of them is not bad...but u hv to look very well b4 u leap.
all is a long committment.
u know the best tins in life dont actually come easy
Posted: at 13-01-2009 10:44 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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