can you be a friend to your EX? (Page 2)

Date: 29-12-2008 7:21 pm (16 years ago) | Author: sandie williams
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- akjasper at 19-01-2009 03:20 PM (16 years ago)
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Yes
Posted: at 19-01-2009 03:20 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- elizatops at 19-01-2009 03:29 PM (16 years ago)
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yes and no
it all depends if he just wants to be friends and the cause of the break up
Posted: at 19-01-2009 03:29 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- mazi at 19-01-2009 03:34 PM (16 years ago)
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u r not sure...
Posted: at 19-01-2009 03:34 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- akjasper at 19-01-2009 03:44 PM (16 years ago)
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She is confused.....
Posted: at 19-01-2009 03:44 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- elizatops at 19-01-2009 03:51 PM (16 years ago)
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i'm not confused
wat i meant was dat
yes if he wants to be friends
and no depending on the circumstances on which the break up was based on
Posted: at 19-01-2009 03:51 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- jummiedavids at 19-01-2009 06:02 PM (16 years ago)
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YEAH
Posted: at 19-01-2009 06:02 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- akjasper at 21-01-2009 01:31 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: elizatops on 19-01-2009 03:51 PM
i'm not confused
wat i meant was dat
yes if he wants to be friends
and no depending on the circumstances on which the break up was based on

Correct.
Posted: at 21-01-2009 01:31 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- bajju at 22-01-2009 12:17 PM (16 years ago)
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it really depends on how we broke up.if he hurt me so much its gonna take time to forgive him. but i believe with time we could be polite to each other.
Posted: at 22-01-2009 12:17 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- princemech at 22-01-2009 12:27 PM (16 years ago)
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better answer  Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 22-01-2009 12:27 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- BLAQQY at 22-01-2009 12:31 PM (16 years ago)
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of course, dere's no harm in being friends with ur ex. it's just that u must be careful u know. Huh? Sad Sad Sad Sad
Posted: at 22-01-2009 12:31 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- oyetunbo at 22-01-2009 01:24 PM (16 years ago)
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its okay bn frnds bt its gonn b difficult if d sparks can pick up
Posted: at 22-01-2009 01:24 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- Idysy at 22-01-2009 02:39 PM (16 years ago)
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This depends on the state of mind of the two people involved; how was the process of the break up and wat transpired there after.
Posted: at 22-01-2009 02:39 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- naijainct at 22-01-2009 03:44 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: sandie on 29-12-2008 07:21 PM
A lot depends on why u broke up. Anytime there is a restraining order, no friendship can come. or Is wanting to be friends now a subconscious excuse 2 be around this person so u can find closure on unresolved things? Is wanting 2 be friends now, really a product of guilt u have for how u were as a partner? Do u feel u owe your ex, at the very least, your friendship? If u truly want 2 be friends with Ur ex, it should be because u like him as a friend. It needs 2 be because u are willing to work at what might be a very hard friendship 2 solidify. What attracted u to him or her in the first place, is probably still there. There's habit and familiarity here, which are huge things and should not be taken lightly. Do u want 2 be friends with your ex because he's so exceptional, or because he's so easy and convenient? please u guys should try to answer this question with sincerity...thanks


I don't see why we can't remain friends especially if the sex was good. Sure we can be friends and still share lil bit of intimacy if both of us are still single.
Posted: at 22-01-2009 03:44 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bianca-amaka at 22-01-2009 07:30 PM (16 years ago)
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 i wud bt it will depend on our stae of breakup cos i av 2 ex d 1st i still talk 2 and alwas want his company bt d 2nd i totaly brokup wit him bcos of his pride
Posted: at 22-01-2009 07:30 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- afribabe at 22-01-2009 08:07 PM (16 years ago)
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am really in this.am the one requesting for friendship but at first he rejected and later accept to be my friend,but things are still d same.. i mean the rapors,text messages etc.am afraid its not gonna work Smiley
Posted: at 22-01-2009 08:07 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- habzee at 22-01-2009 10:15 PM (16 years ago)
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As said,it all depends on d state of mind and circumstance of breakup,Being friends again would only let d fire burn within again.Cos u cant hide what u really felt as true love.
Posted: at 22-01-2009 10:15 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Dee90 at 23-01-2009 10:34 AM (16 years ago)
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If it was true love! then i bet you that the latter friendship won't last! coz if there had bin sparks in the relationship, definitely the way they both looked at each other while in the relationship would still be read in their eyes. Its quite difficult to find a partner whose sparks, flows in the same direction with you and so if any of the parties were to try sumtin new, they would never feel comfortable with sum1 else bcz they had created sumtin unique btwn them while they were 2geda n their soul would alwz hunger for that outstanding dersire that they established.
Posted: at 23-01-2009 10:34 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- favour4realf at 24-01-2009 11:52 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: naijainct on 22-01-2009 03:44 PM
Quote from: sandie on 29-12-2008 07:21 PM
A lot depends on why u broke up. Anytime there is a restraining order, no friendship can come. or Is wanting to be friends now a subconscious excuse 2 be around this person so u can find closure on unresolved things? Is wanting 2 be friends now, really a product of guilt u have for how u were as a partner? Do u feel u owe your ex, at the very least, your friendship? If u truly want 2 be friends with Ur ex, it should be because u like him as a friend. It needs 2 be because u are willing to work at what might be a very hard friendship 2 solidify. What attracted u to him or her in the first place, is probably still there. There's habit and familiarity here, which are huge things and should not be taken lightly. Do u want 2 be friends with your ex because he's so exceptional, or because he's so easy and convenient? please u guys should try to answer this question with sincerity...thanks
i will be,it depends on the reason of the breakup and if you as a lady had your pride till the end of the relationship,at least,you can't feel guity if you see him,you will always know that, that guy has never seen your intimate part,so you have respect before him.

I don't see why we can't remain friends especially if the sex was good. Sure we can be friends and still share lil bit of intimacy if both of us are still single.
Posted: at 24-01-2009 11:52 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- meczytimber at 24-01-2009 11:49 PM (16 years ago)
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yeah i can, when am well, i will say more
Posted: at 24-01-2009 11:49 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cuty_babe at 25-01-2009 06:55 AM (16 years ago)
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yeah can be friend
as well he want too
nothing elsa intension
Posted: at 25-01-2009 06:55 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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