Is it proper to marry a man that is good in every other aspect but stingy to a fault?
Posted: at 1-09-2011 10:56 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
deboalabi262 at 1-09-2011 11:20 PM (12 years ago) (m)
It depends on the level of his stinginess. Try and talk things out with him explaining your observation. Hopefully, he would change his ways. However, remember that life is full of give and take.....
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Posted: at 1-09-2011 11:20 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
well, y nt try bin a free giver 2 him first then lets c wht follows. Some men wnt 2b sure of ur luv n comitmnt 1st b4 d spnd their hard earnd money on u based on their past experience. While odas ar jst born stingy, if he is dis way then talk about it wit him.
Posted: at 2-09-2011 08:32 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
Emmandazie at 2-09-2011 08:36 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: zizi01 on 2-09-2011 08:32 AM
well, y nt try bin a free giver 2 him first then lets c wht follows. Some men wnt 2b sure of ur luv n comitmnt 1st b4 d spnd their hard earnd money on u based on their past experience. While odas ar jst born stingy, if he is dis way then talk about it wit him.
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Posted: at 2-09-2011 08:36 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
No. I wouldn't even bother..I have an aunt who married one to the point where he spends thousands on himself and takes them (wife and children)to secondhand shops for their items. He's crazy. He makes over $200,000 a year and plays like that...not worth anyone's time. That's a silly move. So in response to the question..I would never. But there are other reasons as well.
Posted: at 2-09-2011 05:12 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
maryclaret at 2-09-2011 05:16 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Hmm... see this is hard cause I can't stand stingy people. I know love's supposed to "conquer all," but it would really be unbearable to live with such a person. Nevertheless, it's a trait that someone can work on. If he's willing to work on it and I actually see improvements, then sure.
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Posted: at 2-09-2011 05:16 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
so stingy in what way? is it money aspect or accepting is wrong doings? for money aspect he might be for now in order to make life better in the future...and you must learn to adjust and talk over it.
Posted: at 2-09-2011 05:34 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
favourmine at 2-09-2011 05:46 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: maryclaret on 2-09-2011 05:16 PM
Hmm... see this is hard cause I can't stand stingy people. I know love's supposed to "conquer all," but it would really be unbearable to live with such a person. Nevertheless, it's a trait that someone can work on. If he's willing to work on it and I actually see improvements, then sure.
my dear don't go i have hard the experience hoping that things will change which i have never see none better talk to him now if he can not change now then even if you married to him it will still the same gudluck
Posted: at 2-09-2011 05:46 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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