sojimade at 28-09-2011 02:30 PM (12 years ago) (m) i hope all the girls read and act on this article. It's as if the poster opened my mind and take out my plight. I'm ready to settle down but yet to find that missing rib. Posted: at 28-09-2011 02:30 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Oyinda07 at 28-09-2011 04:13 PM (12 years ago) (m) I do not blame Nigerian Women. A vast number of them do not trust men because they have had a lot of bad experience in men ditching them and leaving them at great risk Posted: at 28-09-2011 04:13 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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queenrukky at 28-09-2011 05:49 PM (12 years ago) (f) couldn't finish it....i nid a glasss of water Posted: at 28-09-2011 05:49 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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ifexdemike at 28-09-2011 06:07 PM (12 years ago) (f) u re rite dear,our problem is our xter Posted: at 28-09-2011 06:07 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers.... it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause. In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude Posted: at 28-09-2011 06:48 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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some still ague it Posted: at 28-09-2011 07:23 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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the bitter truth,ladies una dey hear Posted: at 28-09-2011 07:58 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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ngeri1 at 28-09-2011 10:42 PM (12 years ago) (f) I take it English is not your first language due to improper sentence structure and your comment being ridden with grammatical errors. But that is besides the point. Where did Lesbians come into this? I know you are not making the attempt to suggest that I am one? LOL you and your simple mind. I am truly getting a good laugh right now. I am actually not one..just an educated female with too much to offer the world to deal with simple/one-track minded males. I come from a line of strong, educated, independent women who have men in their lives but make more than these men who (when Nigerian) simply can't handle being in the shadows of such women. So there is no emphasis for me to run out and engage with all of that..not right now at least. But I understand that a lot of this backwards thinking comes from a tradition that embraces it so I am just grateful that in my own family, I don't have to deal with that nonsense. So in response to your grammatically improper comment, COURTESY and MANNERS are subjective on so many levels. So there would have to be definitions set into place to bring those up. Nigerian men take almost anything as insult when in fact, it's just the truth. Like I'd said before..the men that cannot measure up can go talk to the basic females that would accept them with open arms. Lots of them are reading and commenting on this silly post in agreement..so clearly..there is a market out there..I am just not within that constraint..... So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers.... it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause. In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude Posted: at 28-09-2011 10:42 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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serababy at 28-09-2011 10:46 PM (12 years ago) (f) u r right , but the guys need to change .... Posted: at 28-09-2011 10:46 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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trolling at 28-09-2011 10:55 PM (12 years ago) (m) ngeri! u t too full of yrself!........now I have some questions for you.....what is yr yardstick of measurement?, because from the way to write, i can tell that yu've been in the states for too long......now answer my first question before i know how to deal with yu, since men cant measure up. Posted: at 28-09-2011 10:55 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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I take it English is not your first language due to improper sentence structure and your comment being ridden with grammatical errors. But that is besides the point. Where did Lesbians come into this? I know you are not making the attempt to suggest that I am one? LOL you and your simple mind. I am truly getting a good laugh right now. I am actually not one..just an educated female with too much to offer the world to deal with simple/one-track minded males. I come from a line of strong, educated, independent women who have men in their lives but make more than these men who (when Nigerian) simply can't handle being in the shadows of such women. So there is no emphasis for me to run out and engage with all of that..not right now at least. But I understand that a lot of this backwards thinking comes from a tradition that embraces it so I am just grateful that in my own family, I don't have to deal with that nonsense. So in response to your grammatically improper comment, COURTESY and MANNERS are subjective on so many levels. So there would have to be definitions set into place to bring those up. Nigerian men take almost anything as insult when in fact, it's just the truth. Like I'd said before..the men that cannot measure up can go talk to the basic females that would accept them with open arms. Lots of them are reading and commenting on this silly post in agreement..so clearly..there is a market out there..I am just not within that constraint..... So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers.... it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause. In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude emmm you are correct! English is not my first language but i speak and write 3 international languages (maybe with grammatical errors like you said )not including my local languages. from your correct grammatical statement, you just said Nigerian men take almost everything for an insult? this is our culture and who we are, we are not changing that for you. I know quite well that there are many sites for educated, rich and civilized people like you, why dont you try that than getting worked up with uneducated, poor and uncivilized people here? feeling funky lol Posted: at 28-09-2011 11:41 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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folabomi at 28-09-2011 11:49 PM (12 years ago) (f) @ ngeri1 i totally agree with you, some guys are still threatened by a woman's success. Plus i totally disagree with the OP suggesting that just women should change who they are just to get married. Marriage is not life or death if it happens it happens
I take it English is not your first language due to improper sentence structure and your comment being ridden with grammatical errors. But that is besides the point. Where did Lesbians come into this? I know you are not making the attempt to suggest that I am one? LOL you and your simple mind. I am truly getting a good laugh right now. I am actually not one..just an educated female with too much to offer the world to deal with simple/one-track minded males. I come from a line of strong, educated, independent women who have men in their lives but make more than these men who (when Nigerian) simply can't handle being in the shadows of such women. So there is no emphasis for me to run out and engage with all of that..not right now at least. But I understand that a lot of this backwards thinking comes from a tradition that embraces it so I am just grateful that in my own family, I don't have to deal with that nonsense. So in response to your grammatically improper comment, COURTESY and MANNERS are subjective on so many levels. So there would have to be definitions set into place to bring those up. Nigerian men take almost anything as insult when in fact, it's just the truth. Like I'd said before..the men that cannot measure up can go talk to the basic females that would accept them with open arms. Lots of them are reading and commenting on this silly post in agreement..so clearly..there is a market out there..I am just not within that constraint..... So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers.... it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause. In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude Posted: at 28-09-2011 11:49 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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ngeri1 at 29-09-2011 01:06 AM (12 years ago) (f) LOL at too full of myself. Thanks for the comedic insert. I am actually not. In the states for too long? I can tell you must not leave the backward nature of wherever you are too often if at all. I was born and raised in the States, I'm a scholar, graduated with honors, do research and I am going to law school next year. I come from a family of 6+ figures but have a strong grasp on the world and societal function. So, if that's what you consider being too full of myself (which it actually is not)...use the term as you wish. Yardstick of measurement? That phrasing (though I can see how you would think so) actually does not apply. But nice try! It's not too far-fetched. ngeri! u t too full of yrself!........now I have some questions for you.....what is yr yardstick of measurement?, because from the way to write, i can tell that yu've been in the states for too long......now answer my first question before i know how to deal with yu, since men cant measure up.
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ngeri1 at 29-09-2011 01:08 AM (12 years ago) (f) LOL I agree, this site does have that standard that you just referred to. It speaks to the type of person you must be even. And I do interact with those as well. LOLOLOL...three languages..was that inserted to enhance an image of yourself? English is a universal language and not of your list of proficiency. Nice try from you as well! I take it English is not your first language due to improper sentence structure and your comment being ridden with grammatical errors. But that is besides the point. Where did Lesbians come into this? I know you are not making the attempt to suggest that I am one? LOL you and your simple mind. I am truly getting a good laugh right now. I am actually not one..just an educated female with too much to offer the world to deal with simple/one-track minded males. I come from a line of strong, educated, independent women who have men in their lives but make more than these men who (when Nigerian) simply can't handle being in the shadows of such women. So there is no emphasis for me to run out and engage with all of that..not right now at least. But I understand that a lot of this backwards thinking comes from a tradition that embraces it so I am just grateful that in my own family, I don't have to deal with that nonsense. So in response to your grammatically improper comment, COURTESY and MANNERS are subjective on so many levels. So there would have to be definitions set into place to bring those up. Nigerian men take almost anything as insult when in fact, it's just the truth. Like I'd said before..the men that cannot measure up can go talk to the basic females that would accept them with open arms. Lots of them are reading and commenting on this silly post in agreement..so clearly..there is a market out there..I am just not within that constraint..... So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers.... it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause. In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude emmm you are correct! English is not my first language but i speak and write 3 international languages (maybe with grammatical errors like you said )not including my local languages. from your correct grammatical statement, you just said Nigerian men take almost everything for an insult? this is our culture and who we are, we are not changing that for you. I know quite well that there are many sites for educated, rich and civilized people like you, why dont you try that than getting worked up with uneducated, poor and uncivilized people here? feeling funky lol Posted: at 29-09-2011 01:08 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ngeri1 at 29-09-2011 01:09 AM (12 years ago) (f) Aw Folambi, it's refreshing to see a fellow voice of reason that abandons the submissive nature of the oppressive culture! Thanks so much for chiming in @ ngeri1 i totally agree with you, some guys are still threatened by a woman's success. Plus i totally disagree with the OP suggesting that just women should change who they are just to get married. Marriage is not life or death if it happens it happens
I take it English is not your first language due to improper sentence structure and your comment being ridden with grammatical errors. But that is besides the point. Where did Lesbians come into this? I know you are not making the attempt to suggest that I am one? LOL you and your simple mind. I am truly getting a good laugh right now. I am actually not one..just an educated female with too much to offer the world to deal with simple/one-track minded males. I come from a line of strong, educated, independent women who have men in their lives but make more than these men who (when Nigerian) simply can't handle being in the shadows of such women. So there is no emphasis for me to run out and engage with all of that..not right now at least. But I understand that a lot of this backwards thinking comes from a tradition that embraces it so I am just grateful that in my own family, I don't have to deal with that nonsense. So in response to your grammatically improper comment, COURTESY and MANNERS are subjective on so many levels. So there would have to be definitions set into place to bring those up. Nigerian men take almost anything as insult when in fact, it's just the truth. Like I'd said before..the men that cannot measure up can go talk to the basic females that would accept them with open arms. Lots of them are reading and commenting on this silly post in agreement..so clearly..there is a market out there..I am just not within that constraint..... So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers.... it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause. In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude Posted: at 29-09-2011 01:09 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ngeri1 at 29-09-2011 01:12 AM (12 years ago) (f) PS. Past that...the whole changing for me? I wasn't asking anyone to. I have no idea what that insert is even referencing. I am used to interacting with intellectual individuals who leave the constraint of marginalization. But hey...to each their own...specifically...you are entitled to your own opinion. I acknowledge that. Insult and fact are not interchangeable. I suggest you keep that in mind. Take care and continue to "feel funky"...... I take it English is not your first language due to improper sentence structure and your comment being ridden with grammatical errors. But that is besides the point. Where did Lesbians come into this? I know you are not making the attempt to suggest that I am one? LOL you and your simple mind. I am truly getting a good laugh right now. I am actually not one..just an educated female with too much to offer the world to deal with simple/one-track minded males. I come from a line of strong, educated, independent women who have men in their lives but make more than these men who (when Nigerian) simply can't handle being in the shadows of such women. So there is no emphasis for me to run out and engage with all of that..not right now at least. But I understand that a lot of this backwards thinking comes from a tradition that embraces it so I am just grateful that in my own family, I don't have to deal with that nonsense. So in response to your grammatically improper comment, COURTESY and MANNERS are subjective on so many levels. So there would have to be definitions set into place to bring those up. Nigerian men take almost anything as insult when in fact, it's just the truth. Like I'd said before..the men that cannot measure up can go talk to the basic females that would accept them with open arms. Lots of them are reading and commenting on this silly post in agreement..so clearly..there is a market out there..I am just not within that constraint..... So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers.... it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause. In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude emmm you are correct! English is not my first language but i speak and write 3 international languages (maybe with grammatical errors like you said )not including my local languages. from your correct grammatical statement, you just said Nigerian men take almost everything for an insult? this is our culture and who we are, we are not changing that for you. I know quite well that there are many sites for educated, rich and civilized people like you, why dont you try that than getting worked up with uneducated, poor and uncivilized people here? feeling funky lol Posted: at 29-09-2011 01:12 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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I don't believe fully on this post
what is the part you dont believe? Posted: at 29-09-2011 01:47 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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too much to read
better get to it!! Posted: at 29-09-2011 01:49 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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