hi pals, Please i need your advise. am a girl of 21years in relationship with a guy of 32years, we have been in a relationship for the past one year & two months now but the problem now is that he is insisting in sex before marriage, i told him that i dont want dat which i even told him before we began but each time i says no he keep saying that i dont love he dat if i love him dat i will do it for the sake our love & I hate someone complaining about one particular thing about me. pls pals should i just quite the relationship & go on with my life. i Love him so much but i want my peace of mind. pls adive me.
Posted: at 9-01-2009 03:32 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
chrisshadon at 9-01-2009 03:44 PM (15 years ago) (m)
well i don't think it is because i believe and know that once you have sex with a girl you, the amount of love you have for her starts depreciating but to some guys guys sex is the main thing in a relationship. at first i do pity the ladies but not any more
Posted: at 9-01-2009 03:44 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
luvbug,no body perfect O! Your plsarrange is two word,pls arrange,correct whoever spell wrongly,
Sex is no love! A guy dat trully love you shld not be persuasive about sex. There is nothing like having sex for the sake of love,except you want it,follow ur hrt beat.
Posted: at 9-01-2009 03:46 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
if sex is love what about those that will leave their girls after the must have slept with them what are we going to call that one love or sex, so my dear sex is not love it only help to build a strong relationship to them that are having it at the right time (i.e after marrage)
Posted: at 9-01-2009 05:37 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
blessedchidon at 9-01-2009 05:58 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Poster, pls pls pls, stick to ur descision if he really loves u, he must stay put but if he don't love u, even after having sex with u, he will dump u.........Don't gv up no matter the preasure, maybe he's trying u......Show him that u are a decent girl. But if he don't want to stay with ur descision, let him go...He's nt ur Mr right......Don't sell ur birthright with sex.
Posted: at 9-01-2009 05:58 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
hi pals, Please i need your advise. am a girl of 21years in relationship with a guy of 32years, we have been in a relationship for the past one year & two months now but the problem now is that he is insisting in sex before marriage, i told him that i dont want dat which i even told him before we began but each time i says no he keep saying that i dont love he dat if i love him dat i will do it for the sake our love & I hate someone complaining about one particular thing about me. pls pals should i just quite the relationship & go on with my life. i Love him so much but i want my peace of mind. pls adive me.
Better just let go of him. 32yrs... Na man be that! Him kw wetin him dey do. ur still young, better to leave with Ur goods and no regrets U can live with than to suffer much loss. U can love again and U will find someone that respects Ur choices if he doesnt. Dem no dey loose virginity twice. All the best!
Posted: at 11-01-2009 07:07 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
luv2bnafrica at 11-01-2009 07:15 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Sex can be an expression of love but it is not love in itself we all know that. Nobody and I mean nobody should tell you that you must don't love them if your not willing to have sex with them it is manipulation to try and make you feel bad to give them what they want. If your not ready your not ready and he should love and respect you enough to not force you or make you feel bad about your decision. However men will say anything when they want something such as sex from you I have been there done that when I was 18, and once you give in and the relationship breaks not that it will but if it does you will regret it. Follow your heart, listen to you first. You might want to consider finding someone with your values (though hard to find) nothing is worth you losing your dignity or belief system just to please someone. You are too young to let one person who is 32 decide what is right for you. Enough said.... Tell him you can show him love without laying down with him if he does not agree tell him peace be gone.......Lol No for real girl follow your heart it knows best.
Posted: at 11-01-2009 07:15 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
gen2esther at 12-01-2009 12:20 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Sex is no love, I believe u let go of him and focus on yr education, after that u'll see that guys will be after u not bcos of sex but bcos of yr potentials.
Posted: at 12-01-2009 12:20 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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