Have You Asked Yourself? Why Are You In A Relationship?

Date: 26-10-2011 12:09 am (11 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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- at 26-10-2011 12:09 AM (11 years ago)
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The truth be told its because I don't want to be alone(yes I know some of you are saying being alone isn't good but sometimes trust me u need ur sanity and yourself back on track,lonesomeness is definitely needed), and I'm wondering Yeni this isn't a good enough reason but sadly its why most people are in relationships. The fear of being alone.



People are in relationships for various reasons:
1. For what they can get from the person(financial,educational,status quo and the rest)

2. It can be as a result of pressure from friends,your friends tell u "babe u don't know what ur missing out on oh"


3. Pressure from yourself,how u feel you'll only be complete if u had someone or the need to just impress family and friends

4.The mind set of "I won't get anyone better" yet the guy/babe is just chopping ur money anyhow,com dey beat u and verbally abuse you on top and yet u still dey dia. Ok! Nothing do u oh


These are just a few I can think of write now but if you know anymore,feel free to share yours and my lovies just so you know "a man/ woman that loves you just because your available doesn't love you"


Posted: at 26-10-2011 12:09 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- ILOVEIT at 26-10-2011 12:22 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: nametalkam on 26-10-2011 12:09 AM
The truth be told its because I don't want to be alone(yes I know some of you are saying being alone isn't good but sometimes trust me u need ur sanity and yourself back on track,lonesomeness is definitely needed), and I'm wondering Yeni this isn't a good enough reason but sadly its why most people are in relationships. The fear of being alone.



People are in relationships for various reasons:
1. For what they can get from the person(financial,educational,status quo and the rest)

2. It can be as a result of pressure from friends,your friends tell u "babe u don't know what ur missing out on oh"


3. Pressure from yourself,how u feel you'll only be complete if u had someone or the need to just impress family and friends

4.The mind set of "I won't get anyone better" yet the guy/babe is just chopping ur money anyhow,com dey beat u and verbally abuse you on top and yet u still dey dia. Ok! Nothing do u oh


These are just a few I can think of write now but if you know anymore,feel free to share yours and my lovies just so you know "a man/woman that loves you just because your available doesn't love you"




I share n agree with you on the highlighted words in red....i even add "at all" at the end!. for d first time you make sense. will be back to add  some reasons later..

Posted: at 26-10-2011 12:22 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- ityspecial at 26-10-2011 12:31 AM (11 years ago)
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Making sense
Posted: at 26-10-2011 12:31 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- osesunday at 26-10-2011 01:16 AM (11 years ago)
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am in correspondence wit number 2
Posted: at 26-10-2011 01:16 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- osesunday at 26-10-2011 01:19 AM (11 years ago)
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NO OFFENCE, but i think d convicts of number 4 are actually very stupid  Undecided
Posted: at 26-10-2011 01:19 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- feyee at 26-10-2011 01:23 AM (11 years ago)
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well, when am in a relationship, i'll let u know
Posted: at 26-10-2011 01:23 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- eomo at 26-10-2011 01:25 AM (11 years ago)
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God gave Eve to Adam not because Adam was lonely but because he needs a "help meet" (one who helps). If God said it I need a helper who am I to say no? "And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him." -Genesis 2:18
Posted: at 26-10-2011 01:25 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ask_For_Email at 26-10-2011 02:42 AM (11 years ago)
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Have you asked yourself how to ask intelligent questions?
Posted: at 26-10-2011 02:42 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ArabMannie at 26-10-2011 03:13 AM (11 years ago)
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A Relationship is a Broken Home Were 2 partners comes together to fix it up. it doesn't make sense if one person try's to do the fixin up alone. so i myt as well say phyuk it if he/SHE try's anythin stupid. thats me tho'
Posted: at 26-10-2011 03:13 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- Starcy1 at 26-10-2011 03:21 AM (11 years ago)
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A touchin questn
Posted: at 26-10-2011 03:21 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 1daful at 26-10-2011 03:52 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: ArabMannie on 26-10-2011 03:13 AM
A Relationship is a Broken Home Were 2 partners comes together to fix it up. it doesn't make sense if one person try's to do the fixin up alone. so i myt as well say fcuk it if he/SHE try's anythin stupid. thats me tho'
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Posted: at 26-10-2011 03:52 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 41truth at 26-10-2011 07:50 AM (11 years ago)
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just like our police some of our journalist need mental check
Posted: at 26-10-2011 07:50 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- osesunday at 26-10-2011 07:54 AM (11 years ago)
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dis days is all about d money and not dis bullshit
Posted: at 26-10-2011 07:54 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Sodman4luv at 26-10-2011 08:00 AM (11 years ago)
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yeah
Posted: at 26-10-2011 08:00 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- eoadex2003 at 26-10-2011 09:26 AM (11 years ago)
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Most people are in coz of money
Posted: at 26-10-2011 09:26 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Idbabe at 26-10-2011 09:28 AM (11 years ago)
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Am still thinking y
Posted: at 26-10-2011 09:28 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 26-10-2011 09:42 AM (11 years ago)
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AN interesting one.
Posted: at 26-10-2011 09:42 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 26-10-2011 09:52 AM (11 years ago)
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What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined... to strengthen each other... to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories.

Posted: at 26-10-2011 09:52 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kattie77 at 26-10-2011 09:57 AM (11 years ago)
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As humans we just need someone special who should be be there 4 us,someone to hold,someone to cuddle,someone to tell some sweet nonsense/nothing and someone to ............. if u know wat i mean
Posted: at 26-10-2011 09:57 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gloxxy98 at 26-10-2011 10:04 AM (11 years ago)
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God said, for this reason "shall a man leave his mother and father and cling unto his wife and they shall become one" so it is neccessary to be in a relationship not bcos of material things or watever u get from it, but bcos it is a need u must have.
Posted: at 26-10-2011 10:04 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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