About Dating an Older Lady?

Date: 30-10-2011 4:18 pm (11 years ago) | Author: Obi Nnaemeka
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- at 30-10-2011 04:18 PM (11 years ago)
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I'm in love with a girl who's about a year older than i am. Though i've not made it known to her yet cos of that reason. I'm not always comfortable with the thought of this. I've consulted some of my friends; some say it doesn't really mean if she's older as far as she loves and gives me the respect i deserve, while the others are like..it doesn't make sense logically. I agree with the second answer more cos the though of marrying an old lady sounds sttupid to me (removing love from the equation), and again also considering the kinda setting we find ourselves in in Africa, this doesn't seem right. Pls i need ur advice!



Posted: at 30-10-2011 04:18 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
- jennypriceson at 30-10-2011 05:16 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: obi_jay on 30-10-2011 04:18 PM
I'm in love with a girl who's about a year older than i am. Though i've not made it known to her yet cos of that reason. I'm not always comfortable with the thought of this. I've consulted some of my friends; some say it doesn't really mean if she's older as far as she loves and gives me the respect i deserve, while the others are like..it doesn't make sense logically. I agree with the second answer more cos the though of marrying an old lady sounds sttupid to me (removing love from the equation), and again also considering the kinda setting we find ourselves in in Africa, this doesn't seem right. Pls i need ur advice!

She may not be in love with you. Age is not just a number it's real.
Posted: at 30-10-2011 05:16 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kebella at 30-10-2011 05:52 PM (11 years ago)
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love surpass her age

Posted: at 30-10-2011 05:52 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- qualitysmart at 30-10-2011 05:57 PM (11 years ago)
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y nt 4get if she's older dan u or not and claim what u'v got b4 it gets 2 late
Posted: at 30-10-2011 05:57 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- qualitysmart at 30-10-2011 05:57 PM (11 years ago)
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y nt 4get if she's older dan u or not and claim what u'v got b4 it gets 2 late
Posted: at 30-10-2011 05:57 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Dhiras at 30-10-2011 06:04 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: qualitysmart on 30-10-2011 05:57 PM
y nt 4get if she's older dan u or not and claim what u'v got b4 it gets 2 late

There is no joy getting entangled with a fragile old lady when you can have your pick of your age-mate from the opposite sex. Leave the women oldies to the men oldies to drag their own oldies how best they know how together.
Posted: at 30-10-2011 06:04 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- jessican at 30-10-2011 08:27 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Dhiras on 30-10-2011 06:04 PM
Quote from: qualitysmart on 30-10-2011 05:57 PM
y nt 4get if she's older dan u or not and claim what u'v got b4 it gets 2 late

There is no joy getting entangled with a fragile old lady when you can have your pick of your age-mate from the opposite sex. Leave the women oldies to the men oldies to drag their own oldies how best they know how together.

The oldies sing a different tune and may not be able to gyrate to a more powerful youthful blast. So, why abuse your body?
Posted: at 30-10-2011 08:27 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- nametalkam at 31-10-2011 12:27 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: stephen153 on 30-10-2011 04:35 PM
what are u waiting for?
age is a number

Age is a number that matter (and counts upward)

Posted: at 31-10-2011 12:27 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- toibeli at 31-10-2011 02:35 AM (11 years ago)
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If you are worried because she is older by one year, you do not love her to begin with.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 02:35 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- senator76 at 31-10-2011 02:37 AM (11 years ago)
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and all this while u know she is older than u and u still dey hammer her..after u finish enjoy what carry u go to her u will tell u are sorry u cant marry her....look at u...
Posted: at 31-10-2011 02:37 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- Simon-Zeletus at 31-10-2011 04:45 AM (11 years ago)
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..it doesn't make sense logically. I agree with the second answer more cos the though of marrying an old lady sounds sttupid to me


You have answer the question if you go further with her that is what you are (STUPID)
Posted: at 31-10-2011 04:45 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Spencerjp2 at 31-10-2011 06:01 AM (11 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes it dosen't matter man... She luv u rite?
Posted: at 31-10-2011 06:01 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- nickyvil at 31-10-2011 06:12 AM (11 years ago)
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dont u know this before you went into relationship with her well to me age is not as long as she respect and love you cos if you leave her im afraid you might regret it when you fall into another hand that doesnt care only want to extort money from you but pretending to love you most of the girls outside are not good and the good ones are taken those that are left are not much so be careful dont  play with fire or it might hurt you.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 06:12 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- immortalsoul at 31-10-2011 06:46 AM (11 years ago)
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Speechless.. Huh? Huh?
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- Kellydon at 31-10-2011 07:14 AM (11 years ago)
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Ah bro one-thing i want you to know in life once it come about love age and region those not rise color
so go ahead and love her and make sure you tell her.   
Posted: at 31-10-2011 07:14 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- D9ja at 31-10-2011 07:37 AM (11 years ago)
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If u know before u start the relationship, then stop complaining. but if u feel the worries are too much
for u to bear, please step out. although it hurts but remember is a life time commitment and most women
are good and reservative while on a relationship but when u are married and there is a little argument.
Na there she go remind u say though u be the man but remember say i old pass u. so think twice
Posted: at 31-10-2011 07:37 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ufourme at 31-10-2011 07:49 AM (11 years ago)
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this can't be a real question
Posted: at 31-10-2011 07:49 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- ajanni at 31-10-2011 07:52 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: obi_jay on 30-10-2011 04:18 PM
I'm in love with a girl who's about a year older than i am. Though i've not made it known to her yet cos of that reason. I'm not always comfortable with the thought of this. I've consulted some of my friends; some say it doesn't really mean if she's older as far as she loves and gives me the respect i deserve, while the others are like..it doesn't make sense logically. I agree with the second answer more cos the though of marrying an old lady sounds sttupid to me (removing love from the equation), and again also considering the kinda setting we find ourselves in in Africa, this doesn't seem right. Pls i need ur advice!




you are not really in LOVE , all you want is to cheat on her and then dump her, you said it dosen,t seem right , and you said you also agree with those that said the age matters in the marrige,why seeking for advice when you have make up your mind?
Posted: at 31-10-2011 07:52 AM (11 years ago) | Grande Master
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- eomo at 31-10-2011 08:59 AM (11 years ago)
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@Poster who said you must marry a girl younger than you?
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- OguguaH at 31-10-2011 09:04 AM (11 years ago)
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My dear, age is but a number. Have u noticed that all those trying to discourage u here are mostly females. If u love her, go ahead. Nothing is wrong wit that. I've seen a woman that is five years older than her husband, yet they are living very happily. If u visit them, u won't like to leave their house quickly. Remember that an older woman wil take care of u beta than a younger woman, knowing she is older than u. She wil always look at ur face. A younger woman wil always like u to spend and waste ur money, and may cause catastrophies in ur home . Remember in the Bible that it was Rehoboam's friends that made him lose his Kingdom. So be wise, don't allow ur self to be deceived. Even if she is ten years older than u, it doesn't matter, so long as u love her. U are a man, make ur own decisions. GO WHERE UR HEART TELLS U.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 09:04 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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