I'm Tired Of Being A Good Girl; Says Female Pastor

Date: 18-01-2012 5:16 pm (12 years ago) | Author: YoungStoriez
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- at 18-01-2012 05:16 PM (12 years ago)
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Queen Ure Okizie is back in the news. However, this time she's set to 'explore the waters'. The female pastor is not getting certain aspect of her life right, according to her story, hence she decided to say it all in the social networking space - for what purpose, I don't understand.

From how she got dis-virgined at the age of 23 for some stupid reason (as a Christians who was even preaching the Gospel to others) as well as...
other personal issues that many would think should be kept from the public, she outlined her journey so far in the hands of different men and concluded by telling the world her next plans.

See all she wrote about herself below:
"(Sigh), strange thoughts on my mind. Born with a silver spoon in my mouth yep my dad was a minister in Gowon’s regime when I was born. Last born, only girl, never lacked anything, got born again at 10 in FGGC Owerri, grew up with very strong Christian values.

At 14, I was done with secondary school. Did my youth service at 21, shortly after I started working in Diamond Bank, then Zenith, then Platinum, then First Atlantic (Finbank). Rosy life but full of hard work, my dad instilled that into us being a medical doctor.

I forgot to say, I studied Physics in the university (B.sc), my life on campus was lectures and church, I actually started preaching seriously from secondary school. Typical S.U all through campus days at UJ (Unijos).

Now my love life, got ‘dis-virgined’ at 23 just as I was getting into Diamond bank…well I did it out of curiosity and a feeling of ‘Na only me be Christian?’. In the process in my nativity I got pregnant twice and removed both meanwhile I did the stuff few times. Small, small, the clock started ticking, at 29 honestly I don’t know how I got married to this guy that I don’t love, good looking, rich and all (he’s presently in the US) I married him to please my dad but as soon as my dad died my brother came and got me out of there (long story), this sweet ‘good’ girl had suddenly turned a divorcee!!

No kids because I didn’t want to (have any) since I didn’t love him. Tried getting married again but this time to a much younger guy who claimed he loved me helplessly and I went and believed him, I put in everything as in everything, there was so much money at my end and the love was flowing, shortly after I had a small financial setback he took off.

I’ve always believed in love. I’m a strong believer in love, I even tried another relationship where I was also the bread winner but when I couldn’t meet a certain demand he took off. (Laughs) I’ve never gone out with anyone because of money.

If I love you, I love you. If I don’t love you, I don’t love you. I really love family and would want to be happily married with kids. I’ve never been one to date married guys but now I want to change. I feel like putting love aside to date for selfish reasons. I’ve not started but I’m seriously contemplating it, or better still get a bastardly wealthy guy and just stick with him and let him look after me (I’m actually tired of working hard).

If I end up having kids fine, if not I’ll eventually adopt. I’m actually tired of being a good girl. (Laughs) because, lots of people actually think I’m ‘bad’ anyway so it won’t make a difference if I just become BAD. #JustThinking Happy Subsidy."

Your thoughts please.

Posted: at 18-01-2012 05:16 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- 50scent at 18-01-2012 05:44 PM (12 years ago)
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She need to see me as soon as possible i have some matters to discuss with her

Posted: at 18-01-2012 05:44 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MegaOneplusone at 18-01-2012 05:55 PM (12 years ago)
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My code of living (aka onye wetala, wele soro ya) Sometimes being nice hurts. i used to act and treat people nicely and i always end up hurt. now, i act like a lion, i have my phyuking respect cos nobody needs my heat!! Is boldly written in bible that the good die fast while the bad lives long. Make a choice girl friend
Posted: at 18-01-2012 05:55 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- trolling at 18-01-2012 06:36 PM (12 years ago)
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y u remove 2 pikin now?
Posted: at 18-01-2012 06:36 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- giftmurphy at 18-01-2012 06:46 PM (12 years ago)
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noted!God help u...passing
Posted: at 18-01-2012 06:46 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Youngstoriez at 19-01-2012 07:52 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 18-01-2012 06:36 PM
y u remove 2 pikin now?
d thing tire me ooo
Posted: at 19-01-2012 07:52 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 19-01-2012 08:32 AM (12 years ago)
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shes a strong believer of love....lol

Posted: at 19-01-2012 08:32 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wandepope at 19-01-2012 11:57 AM (12 years ago)
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Wow,if you love GOD you'll loose so many things and also gain so many things,Lady you had better not go back into the world else all those you have won to Christ may loose and i tell you its better if a grind stone is wrapped around your neck and  cast into the sea than cause people to leave Christ.
Posted: at 19-01-2012 11:57 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- giftmurphy at 19-01-2012 12:06 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 19-01-2012 08:32 AM
shes a strong believer of love....lol
lol
Posted: at 19-01-2012 12:06 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- blings_is_back at 19-01-2012 01:39 PM (12 years ago)
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where she dey
Posted: at 19-01-2012 01:39 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- wallas at 19-01-2012 01:51 PM (12 years ago)
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passing wit koliwater
 Grin
Posted: at 19-01-2012 01:51 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- hotguy77 at 19-01-2012 02:06 PM (12 years ago)
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Jeje o
Posted: at 19-01-2012 02:06 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- giftmurphy at 19-01-2012 02:08 PM (12 years ago)
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find,am@blings
Posted: at 19-01-2012 02:08 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- katung44 at 19-01-2012 02:54 PM (12 years ago)
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Forgive me I sound rather blunt and nonchalant for saying this but I would say that she has come too far down the road for this sudden change of heart. I understand how being a good girl can get boring. Guys love you then leave you because they think you are too 'bush' for their liking. Problem is at the end of the day, Men would be looking for the 'Bush' girl they dumped to marry because they have tried the 'happening' girl and they find they cannot afford to keep her as a wife.
Posted: at 19-01-2012 02:54 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kebella at 19-01-2012 03:59 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 18-01-2012 05:44 PM
She need to see me as soon as possible i have some matters to discuss with her
minister himself doing what she no how to do best Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 19-01-2012 03:59 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- youngrashy at 19-01-2012 04:43 PM (12 years ago)
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I need her fone number
Posted: at 19-01-2012 04:43 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mimibaby_5 at 19-01-2012 11:17 PM (12 years ago)
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>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Posted: at 19-01-2012 11:17 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- giftmurphy at 20-01-2012 04:21 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: youngrashy on 19-01-2012 04:43 PM
I need her fone number

for prayers? Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 20-01-2012 04:21 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- bishopgold at 20-01-2012 01:27 PM (12 years ago)
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U think say i got fit believe  this one...good girl my foot...i beg go sidon joo
Posted: at 20-01-2012 01:27 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- bishopgold at 20-01-2012 01:29 PM (12 years ago)
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By the way, who anoint am as pastor sef?
Posted: at 20-01-2012 01:29 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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