Getting married to the rich doesn't guarantee happiness in life

Published On: January 25, 2012, 10:53 pm (8 years ago)
Author: Akin Al-ameen

The race to marry a BIG BOY is what's now in vogue.Most ladies nowadays can't function if there is no cash involved. The urge for material things has changed the story of love. Never make money your only priority when choosing your spouse. There's more to marriage than money alone. A man with good heart is better than a rich man with D heart of beast. Most women say they want security in life so they wont date the poor. If he's not rich today doesn't mean he will be poor for life. The happiness and security of your life is your responsibility. Those who choose never to endure at all may have to suffer for long. Getting married to the rich doesn't guarantee happiness in life. Happiness is priceless. Perhaps those who say they will rather cry inside a Mercedes than laughing on a bicycle have never experienced PAIN in their life.Some relationship mistakes can cause a life regret. Women of virtue don't date for cash. They work hard and pray to GOD to make them rich and give them a good partner in life. IF IT DOESN'T COUNT, DON'T LOOSE THE COUNT. Many young women have blindly turn themselves to TEST DRIVE VEHICLE for the love of material things. Don't spoil ur tomorrow today. What qualified you as great woman is not in designer shoes and bags. its in your good heart, good characters and real personality.When a real man finds a wife in you he will never let you go.Ts funny how material women blame men for breaking their heart. A man who win your love with cash man not stay for long.Real men don't settle down with fake women.THE ONLY PLACE YOU CAN FIND A FAKE WOMAN IS TEMPORARILY IN THE HEART OF A FOOLISH MAN, BUT WHEN THE FOOL BECOMES WISE, THE WISE PERSON IS IN SERIOUS PROBLEMS. Looking for a real man when you are fake is like looking for a live fish in the forest. There is nothing in life that is not a risk. DATE WISELY. Sometimes a good and innocent woman will fall into the wrong hand. she will put so much efforts in a relationship to make it work and it all end up in vain. Let GOD wipe your tears away. Don't put ur life on hold because someone broke ur heart. Whoever broke ur heart has moved on with his life. Sometimes we hold on too long to what GOD is taking away from us. Don't stop living while U r still alive.A lonely life is a sad life. Turn every pain to experience and move on wisely. Never allow anyone to change you. You will never know your value until you finally meet someone who truly knows your value.

** Akin Al - Ameen **

Posted: (8 years ago) on 25-01-2012 10:53 PM | Newbie
This is undiluted truth! nice1!
Posted: (8 years ago) on 25-01-2012 11:36 PM | Upcoming
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that is for the ladies.the whole thing is d truth.
dating an already made man is like walking into a moving train.its either you are crushed or you live.even when you live you will regret telling the story.
Posted: (8 years ago) on 26-01-2012 12:57 AM | Newbie
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The reason why most women prefer to marry a rich man is they dont want to suffer with a poor man and when he becomes rich, that is when he wants another woman, since the first wife doesnt know how to do anything again or she is no longer attractive to him.Why should a woman suffer with a brokeass man and then end up the loser when he is now rich.Also when the woman is rich and marry a poor man,he is not even faithful to her.A friend always says,the least you can do for a woman who is taking care of you financially is to be faithful to her.I know a woman  with a good career whose husband is one brokeass man,with no responsibility in the family of four and he have the gut to be womanizing all over the city.The wife end up kicking him out,he was very embarassed,since he cannot survive on his own and moved out of state.So where is the womans hapiness when she has to go thru the emotional pain from his womanizing.She might as well go for the gold.
Posted: (8 years ago) on 26-01-2012 07:51 AM | Newbie
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@ Suzygirl ask him again.  I don't know why these men want woman to suffer.  Look how many woman who marry poor men are living in misery; being beaten day in day out, having man flaunt his mistress in her face, expected to sex like a porn star on a  hungry belly, and being left to stand up as mother and father to the children when the man decides to move on to someone, or something else.  Being married to a poor man is no guarantee of happiness either.  Better you marry a man who can provide for a wife and family and be unhappy than be poor, hungry, half naked and unhappy same way.  Having money is one less thing to worry about in life, having one less problem is always a  good thing.
Posted: (8 years ago) on 26-01-2012 08:01 AM | Upcoming
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Quote from: davetwist on 26-01-2012 12:57 AM
that is for the ladies.the whole thing is d truth.
dating an already made man is like walking into a moving train.its either you are crushed or you live.even when you live you will regret telling the story.
Posted: (8 years ago) on 26-01-2012 08:18 AM | Upcoming
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the painful truth women ought to know
Posted: (8 years ago) on 26-01-2012 08:26 AM | Hero
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gimac gimac (m)
 Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: (8 years ago) on 26-01-2012 08:46 AM | Hero
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Thank you,Celestial. I think is about time we let the men know why women go for the GOLD.
Posted: (8 years ago) on 26-01-2012 09:25 AM | Newbie
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Quote from: suzygirl on 26-01-2012 09:25 AM
Thank you,Celestial. I think is about time we let the men know why women go for the GOLD.
if you seek God's face b4 marrying your man, NO MATTER WHAT, he'll never cheat on you. U girls should stop blabbing. The truth of the matter is, Many of u girls luv money.

Posted: (8 years ago) on 26-01-2012 12:18 PM | Upcoming
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I call this an important advice
Posted: (8 years ago) on 26-01-2012 01:08 PM | Newbie
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Quote from: hispaniola73 on 25-01-2012 10:53 PM
The race to marry a BIG BOY is what's now in vogue.Most ladies nowadays can't function if there is no cash involved. The urge for material things has changed the story of love. Never make money your only priority when choosing your spouse. There's more to marriage than money alone. A man with good heart is better than a rich man with D heart of beast. Most women say they want security in life so they wont date the poor. If he's not rich today doesn't mean he will be poor for life. The happiness and security of your life is your responsibility. Those who choose never to endure at all may have to suffer for long. Getting married to the rich doesn't guarantee happiness in life. Happiness is priceless. Perhaps those who say they will rather cry inside a Mercedes than laughing on a bicycle have never experienced PAIN in their life.Some relationship mistakes can cause a life regret. Women of virtue don't date for cash. They work hard and pray to GOD to make them rich and give them a good partner in life. IF IT DOESN'T COUNT, DON'T LOOSE THE COUNT. Many young women have blindly turn themselves to TEST DRIVE VEHICLE for the love of material things. Don't spoil ur tomorrow today. What qualified you as great woman is not in designer shoes and bags. its in your good heart, good characters and real personality.When a real man finds a wife in you he will never let you go.Ts funny how material women blame men for breaking their heart. A man who win your love with cash man not stay for long.Real men don't settle down with fake women.THE ONLY PLACE YOU CAN FIND A FAKE WOMAN IS TEMPORARILY IN THE HEART OF A FOOLISH MAN, BUT WHEN THE FOOL BECOMES WISE, THE WISE PERSON IS IN SERIOUS PROBLEMS. Looking for a real man when you are fake is like looking for a live fish in the forest. There is nothing in life that is not a risk. DATE WISELY. Sometimes a good and innocent woman will fall into the wrong hand. she will put so much efforts in a relationship to make it work and it all end up in vain. Let GOD wipe your tears away. Don't put ur life on hold because someone broke ur heart. Whoever broke ur heart has moved on with his life. Sometimes we hold on too long to what GOD is taking away from us. Don't stop living while U r still alive.A lonely life is a sad life. Turn every pain to experience and move on wisely. Never allow anyone to change you. You will never know your value until you finally meet someone who truly knows your value.

** Akin Al - Ameen **
Bros, while I feel your pain in a big way, you would really have a very tough time selling that ideology to most girls these days. For them, its all about convenience and not compatibility. They all dream of a high society wedding that will be the topic of gossip for the next 3 months at the very least followed by a life of luxury to make their friends and peers envious. Some even do it with the excuse that they are bringing wealth into the family by making themselves the self-appointed 'Savior' or Bread winner of their families. What a large number of them try to hide is that they will have to battle with the in-laws and the 'other woman'. The question that begs and answer: is trading love for 'alonga' really worth that much emotional storm?
Posted: (8 years ago) on 26-01-2012 03:11 PM | Upcoming
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The reason why most men want to marry a rich or successful woman or a woman with a good career and not the poor woman, is the same reason why most women want to marry a rich or successful man.Why do most men go home to marry a nurse or a medical doctor and not the beautiful  high school dropout,can someone tell me?
Posted: (8 years ago) on 26-01-2012 04:37 PM | Newbie
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If getting married to the rich does'nt guarantee happiness in life,and also getting married to the poor doesn't guarantee happiness either.So i am better of marrying the rich.
Posted: (8 years ago) on 29-01-2012 05:22 PM | Newbie
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