Would you forgive your husband for impregnating your best friend?

Date: 26-02-2012 5:06 am (12 years ago) | Author: RICHARD DURON
- at 26-02-2012 05:06 AM (12 years ago)
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It is terrible what some men can do because of the inability to control themselves. Maybe, it shouldn’t be called a lack of control, but an intentional act done to spite their wives or the women in their lives.

READ HER STORY:



My ex- husband is a good example of the epitome of lack of control in men. Each time I think of his last escapades, l still wonder if it is possible for Femi not to have known that Amanda, the lady he met abroad is still the same childhood best friend whose photographs he had seen severally in my collections.



Amanda and I did everything together while we were growing up. We went to the same primary school and the same University. We were even posted to the same state during youth service.  We had everything in common except for the men in our lives. In fact, we nearly liked the same men and it showed each time one of us brings home a guy.



Amanda got a visa to Britain, but it didn’t stop our friendship. We couldn’t always talk much because of the expensiveness of international calls, we couldn’t even do mails because Cyber café was just a new development and computers was just finding their way into the country to the very rich.



So as I was getting married, Amanda couldn’t make it to the wedding because she didn’t have a stay at that time and we decided that she shouldn’t come because she might not be able to go back if she dares it. The marriage formality was done and life went to normal with the twins coming and the girl following two years after.



It was exactly five years into my marriage when this seemingly impossible episode took place. My husband had being a playboy, but for some time, he had being acting like a changed man. So l thought all was well with my family.  I thought he had finally settled down to enjoy being a dad to our children and a husband and friend to me.



His company sent him abroad for a six months course and we practically spoke every other day while he was there. He returned back and I got a call from my best friend, she said she was coming to Nigeria for her marriage and l was happy for her, she also said that she was already pregnant for the man in question.



Amanda came to town and rented a place, so most of the times l visit her because Femi returns from the office late and the children stay back at school for their  lessons. I found out her husband to be’s name is also Femi with my Femi’s surname. I was surprised, but saw it as a coincidence; it was on one of my visits to her place that l met her fiancé who happens to be my own …

Posted: at 26-02-2012 05:06 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
- Brnsugarbabe37 at 26-02-2012 06:01 AM (12 years ago)
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BUT U ALSO KNEW HE WAS A PLAYBOY!!! NO I WOULD NEVER 4 GIVE HIM N WOULD ALSO LEAVE!! 
Posted: at 26-02-2012 06:01 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gimac at 26-02-2012 07:19 AM (12 years ago)
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wooo,this is interesting,it is hard to chew
Posted: at 26-02-2012 07:19 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 26-02-2012 11:00 AM (12 years ago)
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This story did not end well here.  And what happen when she discovered that the Femi is her own and what was the reaction of her best friend?
Posted: at 26-02-2012 11:00 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 26-02-2012 11:01 AM (12 years ago)
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It takes divine grace for men of this day ooo.
Posted: at 26-02-2012 11:01 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Unikpearl at 26-02-2012 05:10 PM (12 years ago)
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Hmmmm...interesting
Posted: at 26-02-2012 05:10 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 26-02-2012 05:20 PM (12 years ago)
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Ladies to answer this one.

Posted: at 26-02-2012 05:20 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 1daful at 26-02-2012 06:13 PM (12 years ago)
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It all Depends on my mood at that tym.

Posted: at 26-02-2012 06:13 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Emmandazie at 27-02-2012 09:20 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 1daful on 26-02-2012 06:13 PM
It all Depends on my mood at that tym.
....and what if the time changes?
Posted: at 27-02-2012 09:20 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 27-02-2012 09:26 AM (12 years ago)
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Is difficult to believe what men are doing now, sometimes, one wonders if they still have heart at all.
Posted: at 27-02-2012 09:26 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- duron at 3-03-2012 06:14 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 27-02-2012 09:26 AM
Is difficult to believe what men are doing now, sometimes, one wonders if they still have heart at all.

Do not count the women out pls, This is a world of man and woman, and none is perfect
Posted: at 3-03-2012 06:14 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- jossy4reall at 3-03-2012 06:49 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 26-02-2012 11:00 AM
This story did not end well here.  And what happen when she discovered that the Femi is her own and what was the reaction of her best friend?

Plz watch out for part 2

Posted: at 3-03-2012 06:49 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 3-03-2012 09:29 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jossy4reall on  3-03-2012 06:49 AM
Plz watch out for part 2
Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 3-03-2012 09:29 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 4-03-2012 09:26 PM (12 years ago)
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hmmn
Posted: at 4-03-2012 09:26 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Solidstonez at 30-05-2012 08:27 PM (11 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmmmmm forgive? tht one no dey my dictionary when it come to matter like this

Posted: at 30-05-2012 08:27 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mallorca at 30-05-2012 09:15 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 26-02-2012 11:01 AM
It takes divine grace for men of this day ooo.
and it takes more than luck for women of this days ooo.

Posted: at 30-05-2012 09:15 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 9nicemummy at 31-05-2012 10:35 AM (11 years ago)
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2 of needs to disciple him  very well
Posted: at 31-05-2012 10:35 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- mizcollins1 at 31-05-2012 11:05 AM (11 years ago)
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CAN'T REALLY SAY TILL I'M IN THAT POSITION I'M AFRIAD
Posted: at 31-05-2012 11:05 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 31-05-2012 11:13 AM (11 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 31-05-2012 11:13 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- vivianbest33 at 31-05-2012 11:26 AM (11 years ago)
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I CAN FORGIVE IF HE'S READY TO CHANGE.
Posted: at 31-05-2012 11:26 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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