"I'm sorry" has been, and always' will be, the beginning of an admission that you were wrong or you have done something that really hurt someone. Saying "I'm sorry" is a way of trying to make the situation better.
Why do we find it difficult to say am sorry?
No insult pls.
Posted: at 10-03-2012 11:28 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 10-03-2012 01:43 PM (12 years ago) (f)
For some ppl it's the fear of rejection that makes an apology so hard to say.The prospect of getting a cold shoulder,not being forgiven or losing a friend can understandably be unsettling,especially when it comes from someone u still love,care about and want to maintain a relationship with.Sometimes ppl feel it like a sign of weakness. If they apologize, it can make them feel vulnerable, or feel like they are in danger of losing their power and status. Some ppl find saying they’re sorry humiliating. Some just prefer staying in denial...
Live and let live!
Posted: at 10-03-2012 01:43 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
Treasure2 at 10-03-2012 02:02 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 10-03-2012 01:43 PM
For some ppl it's the fear of rejection that makes an apology so hard to say.The prospect of getting a cold shoulder,not being forgiven or losing a friend can understandably be unsettling,especially when it comes from someone u still love,care about and want to maintain a relationship with.Sometimes ppl feel it like a sign of weakness. If they apologize, it can make them feel vulnerable, or feel like they are in danger of losing their power and status. Some ppl find saying they’re sorry humiliating. Some just prefer staying in denial...
Speaking from the heart, Tnx sweetie.
Posted: at 10-03-2012 02:02 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
For some ppl it's the fear of rejection that makes an apology so hard to say.The prospect of getting a cold shoulder,not being forgiven or losing a friend can understandably be unsettling,especially when it comes from someone u still love,care about and want to maintain a relationship with.Sometimes ppl feel it like a sign of weakness. If they apologize, it can make them feel vulnerable, or feel like they are in danger of losing their power and status. Some ppl find saying they’re sorry humiliating. Some just prefer staying in denial...
very true
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 11-03-2012 08:53 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
jossy4reall at 12-03-2012 10:16 AM (12 years ago) (m)
I personally dont find it difficult.........for eg....I can call u anything I like and tell u am sorry............. just like dis poster u are ..........am sorry
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 12-03-2012 10:16 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
Ego...somepple feel like they don't need to say i am sorry even though they are wrong...they find it as an insult to dem to bring demselves low, but they fail to realize that submissive respect or humble put dem to the upper level. say i am sorry is not going to harm any tissue from one body....
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 12-03-2012 01:20 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
I never find it difficult to apologize only if I'm wrong
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 12-03-2012 01:52 PM (12 years ago) | Hero