A FOOL AT FORTY? (Page 2)

Published On: April 9, 2012, 12:52 pm (8 years ago)
Author: jasuow
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na prayers u need...
Posted: (8 years ago) on 9-04-2012 07:17 PM | Upcoming
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tHE MORE YOU GIVE THE MORE THEY COME DOE HELP,YOU HAVE TO BE WISE BROS
Posted: (8 years ago) on 9-04-2012 07:46 PM | Gistmaniac
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At your age,, you are asking for advice on how you will take care of your responsibilities as a man.......
   dis is what you will do.......when you discover the little remaining money you have is going down and you don't have any other source of income coming.....pls kindly look for a deep lagoon and fall inside, and make sure you get drown there.....
  taitai, pikin, baby, child, nwa ........wait make i come Bosom feed you too.       mtcheeew.

Posted: (8 years ago) on 9-04-2012 08:43 PM | Gistmaniac
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The ultimate solution to your problem is, You have to learn to say NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: (8 years ago) on 9-04-2012 08:52 PM | Gistmaniac
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Ur Steps
1. Cut Ur Expenses as low as possible, move to a cheaper, safe and affodable apt, stop spending on WANTS only on NEEDS
2. Start paying up your debts gradually, maybe monthly payment plan.
3. Do a good feasibility study on Ur wifes business or any other business before you invest, so that U can have something viable in case you lose your job.
4. Continue to assist your family on education and getting a job, some of them might train and get a Handywork to begin making money soon, they would help you and your children too later.
Posted: (8 years ago) on 9-04-2012 08:58 PM | Newbie
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wait wo u dey give offering and tieth 2 ur church?
Posted: (8 years ago) on 9-04-2012 09:36 PM | Upcoming
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Mr. D first step to finding a solution is dat u realise u have a challenge. My advice is dat u imbibe a saving culture not in d hands of family member but in d bank,my be a fix deposit, u earn good money. Secondly, stop dashing out money to ur family members like u r CBN cos dy r family n u may most likely not get  d money back n u won't want to hv a case with ur family to get ur money back. Spend only when necessary n according to ur scale of preference of needs, cut down on irrelevant expenditure. Lastly, ask God to direct u n give a clearer vision on how to manage ur finance. For d dept try paying even if it mean paying installmently up to four times. Gudluck.
Posted: (8 years ago) on 9-04-2012 09:36 PM | Newbie
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you are absolutely not a fool! you have tried a lot as a man ,dont give up ,just learn from ur mistakes and do some reajustment.wish u all the best

Posted: (8 years ago) on 9-04-2012 11:02 PM | Upcoming
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feyee feyee (f)
well i think the first thing is realising your shortcomings which you already did....other steps will follow, hang in there and be smart...savings is the key to a secure future!
Posted: (8 years ago) on 9-04-2012 11:12 PM | Upcoming
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proly proly (f)
oooooooooooooooooops
Posted: (8 years ago) on 9-04-2012 11:34 PM | Hero
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Quote from: jasuow on  9-04-2012 12:52 PM
Today April 9, 2012, I clock 40 years of age. I am thankful to God for everything but my heart is heavy because I seem to have failed so far!
Currently on a monthly salary of =N=440,000 and having worked in paid employments for eight years, I have no house or land of my own, I have a ramshackle looking five years old tokunbo car and a total investment and savings less than =N=200,000 with indebtedness to the tune of a million naira!
I am not bewitched or under a spell (I believe) but this failure stems from wrong decisions, unhealthy empathy and sentiments.
So far, I have lost about =N=7 million naira in monies invested in the businesses of family members and loan granted to friends to solve their financial problems. These monies are not coming back, they are completely lost! I do not drink or womanise but sometimes wish I do because at least I would have known the bottomless pit that sang my money.
I have survived 3 mass sack of staff in the banking industry and I am just wondering what life will look like if eventually I am also asked to go home, moreso, with my wife still struggling in her high risk business venture with a networth of =N=1 million. This is my second attempt at setting her up.
I am the eldest in the family of seven (from both sides of my two fathers). 3 members of these families are still in the higher institution and this responsibility is on me. I have 3 kids of my own with the eldest in primary 2. I pay a rent of =N=400,000 annually and hope I and my family member remain in sound health so that I don’t have to incur any huge health expense.
All said and done, I am determined to succeed in this life. Analyse, advice and judge me!

Posted: (8 years ago) on 10-04-2012 12:30 AM | Hero
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Did you say you have two fathers? I am not surprised if you fail.
Posted: (8 years ago) on 10-04-2012 01:56 AM | Upcoming
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Oboit! C big boy we don fulkup 4 life.
Posted: (8 years ago) on 10-04-2012 02:02 AM | Upcoming
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shit happens
Posted: (8 years ago) on 10-04-2012 02:11 AM | Gistmaniac
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men your problem is bigger than you i think you need fasting and prayer for forty days and forty night maybe that will help, if not seek out okija shrine
Posted: (8 years ago) on 10-04-2012 04:03 AM | Gistmaniac
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Is this a real life story or make believe? well If this guy never learnt how to plan his life wen he was earning 50k or whatever, no be now e go learn am with 440k. all the same you need serious prayers.
Posted: (8 years ago) on 10-04-2012 05:39 AM | Upcoming
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u need deliverance

Posted: (8 years ago) on 10-04-2012 06:21 AM | Hero
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MY BROTHER I BELIEVE YOU ARE EDUCATED OF WHICH YOU STUDIED ACCOUNTING AND ECONOMICS AS PART OF YOUR COURSE
IN BANKING.SO, ALL YOU NEED TO DO NOW IS, 1-DOWN SIZE,PACK INTO A HOUSE WHERE YOU RENT SHOULD BE BETWEEN THE RANGE OF 150,000 TO 200,000 ANNUALLY JUST FORGET ABOUT TOO MUCH COMFORT FOR NOW.

2-WITHDRAW YOUR KIDS FROM THE EXPENSIVE PRIVATE SCHOOL AND LOOK FOR A CHEAPER AND EFFICIENT ONE.

3.AVOID DISHING OUT LOANS WITH SENTIMENTS EVEN WHEN YOU KNOW THEY WILL TURN OUT TO BE BAD DEBT IN THE LONG RUN.

4-SPEND JUDICIOUSLY AND AVOID UNNECESSARY EXPENDITURE.

5.CONSULT GOD AND THINGS WILL START WORKING OUT FOR YOU AGAIN JUST BE FOCUSED AND YOU WILL NEVER BE TAGGED A FAILURE !
Posted: (8 years ago) on 10-04-2012 07:42 AM | Upcoming
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for now it is your lieve
Posted: (8 years ago) on 10-04-2012 07:58 AM | Upcoming
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My guy,it is not that you have spiritual problem but u fail to learn.Try and live within your income and never try to satisfy people.Firstly,discipline ur self in your spending,learn to save against the dry season and equip ur wife's business wit a better cash.You can call me for more advise 08022221443.
Posted: (8 years ago) on 10-04-2012 08:17 AM | Newbie
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