After I cheated on him...

Date: 02-06-2012 5:25 pm (11 years ago) | Author: Bello Mayowa Alex
- at 2-06-2012 05:25 PM (11 years ago)
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Hi there.

Here is my story.

I am a 26 year old woman, I am pretty and I have a nice profession and a secure job.

Four years ago I married my husband for love.

He is a very sexy man and he likes women a lot. I knew this before, but I guess I thought that after he marries he will become a new man, besides I was madly in love with him and he was in me.

We lived very well. Of course we had our arguments like every other normal family, but we always found ways to solve all our problems.

Recently though, I started noticing this specific sparkle in his eyes when he scaned young girls. And they will in return look him over. At the beginning I was amused, I was proud with him, it was a nice thought that I owe him, that he is MINE. But I guess I overestimated my capabilities to have him only for myself.

To cut the long story short, I understood in a second that he was cheating on me. I went crazy!

What I hated most was that he was replacing them very often.

After a mad argument, my husband solemnly swore that he would stop with his love adventures, that he can’t imagine his life without me. I trusted him, because he was so miserable and….sweet. But only after half a year it all happened again.

Then it dawned on me to pay him back and make him feel betrayed, just like I felt.

I decided to cheat on him, what is more I have my way and am quite successful with guys. I chose my “candidate” – young and good-looking, and I knew he liked me for some time.

I went to bed with him, but I did not feel at all relieved. On the contrary, I felt worse. I felt I have lost not only my marital honor, but also my self-respect.

Instead of paying him back, I feel miserable and dirty.

How can I live with this? What should I do? Shall I confess it all to him?...

What would happen to me...

Posted: at 2-06-2012 05:25 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
- FlyMamacita at 3-06-2012 10:09 AM (11 years ago)
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Undecided Undecided Woman wot u did no make sense at all..2wrongs no make a right.
U better confess to ur husband and pray he will forgive u. U felt so angry over wot ur husband did to u,
it cost u so much pain..but ur not betta then him.  Huh?
Posted: at 3-06-2012 10:09 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- zeigbo at 3-06-2012 10:37 AM (11 years ago)
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Woman go repent
Posted: at 3-06-2012 10:37 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mizcollins1 at 3-06-2012 10:40 AM (11 years ago)
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1ST OF ALL YOU SHOULD HAVE NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT YOU BEING ABLE TO CHANGE HIM AFTER MARRIAGE!!...MEN CHANGE IF AND ONLY WHEN THEY WANT TO!!
2ND WHEN YOU NO LONGER FELT PROUD OF HAVING HIM ALL TO YOURSLEF AND STARTED TO FEEL UPSET WITH THE ON GOING ATTENTION HE GET'S AND RECIVE FROM OTHER LADIES,WAS SUPPOSE TO BE A WAKE UP CALL FOR YOU!
3RD WHEN YOU DISCOVERED HE WAS CHAETING ON YOU AND THAT IT STILL COUNTINUED AFTER HE HAD PROMISED NEVER TO DO IT AGAIN,THAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN THE TIME YOU EITHER CUT YOUR LOOSE AND LEAVE OR STAY AND DEALT WITH THE CONSTANT CHEATING....NOW YOU'VE GONE AND DONE WHAT HE DID...AND THE SAD BIT OF IT IS IT'S MADE YOU FEEL EVEN BAD ABOUT YOURSLEF
Posted: at 3-06-2012 10:40 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- omomarty at 3-06-2012 04:37 PM (11 years ago)
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confess too him, beg for his forgiveness and also beg God for his forgiveness i'm sure everything will be ok. u shouldn't have lost ur dignity like that because most men cheats is in their blood to cheat so if u a woman decide to behave like men then you will never get married. go pray to God and don't ever do it again
Posted: at 3-06-2012 04:37 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kethey at 3-06-2012 04:52 PM (11 years ago)
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Let me tell u one thing... No man is 100% faithful, its in them, u have 2 learn 2 live with dat. As 4 u cheating on him back, dats not a wise move... Go to God 4 forgiveness n then ur husband. Promise him u'll never do it again
Posted: at 3-06-2012 04:52 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- katung44 at 4-06-2012 06:43 AM (11 years ago)
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Well, I guess you just found out the hard way that 2 wrongs don't make a right. If your husband cheated on you, your retaliation by cheating on him with another man means you were no better than he was morally. I am not sure you stripping naked will not make you more sane than an already naked mad woman. That is why there is something called principles that define us as individuals, as in cats do not eat grass even though they may be edible as goats do to differentiate their species. So, also 'Do me, I do you, God no vex' does not make you better than the person who sinned against you.
Posted: at 4-06-2012 06:43 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- softleague at 10-01-2013 02:52 PM (11 years ago)
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quit that boy and ask God for forgiveness. But sometings are meant to be secrets if ur marriage must survive.
Posted: at 10-01-2013 02:52 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- sophiebaby at 10-01-2013 04:22 PM (11 years ago)
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omg
Posted: at 10-01-2013 04:22 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Swtezvikky at 11-01-2013 06:55 AM (11 years ago)
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That's too bad!
Posted: at 11-01-2013 06:55 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Makos at 12-01-2013 04:50 PM (11 years ago)
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Alow him to marry second wife as  a result you will have a peace 
Posted: at 12-01-2013 04:50 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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