"I Don't Want Kids But My Husband 2b Won't Marry Me bcos of that

Date: 11-06-2013 11:55 am (10 years ago) | Author: Idbabe
- at 11-06-2013 11:55 AM (10 years ago)
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I am a 39 year old divorcee with three lovely kids. I'd given up on love and romance when this man suddenly showed up in my life four years ago.

We've been engaged for two years now but he insists the only way he would go ahead with a wedding is if I'm willing to give him children. I don't want any more children. I have a 13 year old, a 12 year old and a 9 year old and the last thing I want is to get pregnant again. My fiance doesn't have any kids of his own and says he wants at least two.

I love this man to death and he is good to my children but the thought of being pregnant again makes me suicidal. What do I do? Should I let him go?

I SEE THIS AS SELFISHNESS ON THE PART OF THE WOMAN, ABI WETIN UNA THINK?

Posted: at 11-06-2013 11:55 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
- winace at 11-06-2013 12:10 PM (10 years ago)
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If don't want kids pls don't marry. Its d pride of marriage.
Posted: at 11-06-2013 12:10 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Idbabe at 11-06-2013 12:11 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: winace on 11-06-2013 12:10 PM
If don't want kids pls don't marry. Its d pride of marriage.

good girl, abeg help me tell am ooo.  She get her own, she no want give the man his own.  E good so?
Posted: at 11-06-2013 12:11 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- jossy4reall at 11-06-2013 12:13 PM (10 years ago)
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nothing wey person no go hear........wetin come be dis one again??....Abeg free the man joor make him go marry person wey go give am pickins naa

Posted: at 11-06-2013 12:13 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Idbabe at 11-06-2013 12:32 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: jossy4reall on 11-06-2013 12:13 PM
nothing wey person no go hear........wetin come be dis one again??....Abeg free the man joor make him go marry person wey go give am pickins naa

Hahahhahahahhaah, no long tin joor
Posted: at 11-06-2013 12:32 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- jossy4reall at 11-06-2013 01:08 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Idbabe on 11-06-2013 12:32 PM
Hahahhahahahhaah, no long tin joor

hehe.....u already knw naa Wink.....no long thing for dis matter.....na very short thing and every body go be ok for dia side

Posted: at 11-06-2013 01:08 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Idbabe at 11-06-2013 01:17 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: jossy4reall on 11-06-2013 01:08 PM
hehe.....u already knw naa Wink.....no long thing for dis matter.....na very short thing and every body go be ok for dia side

Agreed bros, nothing do u
Posted: at 11-06-2013 01:17 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- xena15 at 11-06-2013 01:19 PM (10 years ago)
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Such a selfish woman!

Posted: at 11-06-2013 01:19 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jossy4reall at 11-06-2013 01:23 PM (10 years ago)
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Imagine.......she wan take her own disturb anoda man own

Posted: at 11-06-2013 01:23 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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