Be Mean and have a SteadyBlood Pressure!

and i will say it again and againand stand by it any day. it pays to be mean. Go and check most of the people with blood pressure problems, you'll find out that most of them have given something, their heart :'(, money, time, attention, etc.

i magine being nice to someone whose only mode of repayment is pulling a fast and dirty one on you. i know the general chorus would be "its good to be good" "give (whatever) and God will reward".  why should those crocodiles expect us to give and then direct us to go to God when its payback time?

you lend a friend some money, specifically telling him that you'll be neding that money in about a months time othat you could pay your school fees and write your finals? the ungrateful ferret drools over you while tryingto show his appreciation of your stupidity and lack of judgment. when its time for him to payback, if you are unlucky, you get to hear a really stupid  reply like "you know that exams are coming and this is the only amount i have to take care of myself till scool closes (thereby dubbing you Sir Moron of the knight of Stupidity, for placing his needs before yours). then you start shouting arguing and calling conferences (on top of your own money again oh! atimes the weasel does not answer you until he is good and ready, that is if he doesnt pay you back piece-mealy so that you can hardly apply the said fundto its original purpose.

can someone explain to me why a friend would try to snatch the guy of a friend who helped her out in time of need(my experience!), while still depending on the unfortunate girlfriend for sustenance? shebi if i had decided to bewickedandkeptmy foodandmoneyto myself, i wouldnt have given a rats a-s bout what she and the hyena i call a boyfriend were getting up to?!

i once threw this issue open to a group of friends and funny enuf some agreed with me: some however said thy'd give what they dont need and what they wouldnt feel if it doesnt get returned. they were of the opinion that its when you put yourself out that when it hurts.

what do you guys think?

Posted: at 6-06-2008 04:28 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Indie, it would be easier if u gave without expecting to recieve....I know its not applicable in all cases, like U can't give love without expecting to receive it , thats just wrong, but mostly if u give for the sake of giving or give having in mind as Khadi said that humans are selfish and the person may not return the favour, would be a easier ... and as 4 ur bf n friend, don't mean to be judging cos i dunno but...they are the typical example of wicked people 

Posted: at 23-07-2008 02:23 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Indie i'm 200% with u its just that its sort of difficult to say no to some people, besides like Gandhi said: "..be the change u want see in the world". If ure fortunate enuff to find urself in a position to help just do it. Though an important rule might be: "never give out something u cant forget about..."

Posted: at 26-07-2008 06:00 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie