What is your biggest obstacle to committing to a relationship?

In my opinion, there are two major obstacles to committing to a relationship. The first is the difficulty in finding someone deeply compatible. The second is that there are so many terrific women available, it's difficult to isolate oneself from them all. These two obstacles may seem a paradox. However, I see it working like this. While deep compatibility is rare, there are plenty of people with whom you may greatly enjoy being with, but with whom you have only surface compatibility. How do you feel?

Posted: at 8-09-2009 07:33 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

1. The fear that she could still be like others, (though l can never know lf she ls different lf l don't give her the opportunity to showcase what she's made of).
2. Getting one that could share the same thought and goal as you.
3. So many wolfs with sheeps clothing lately.

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Posted: at 8-09-2009 08:05 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Trust, similar values, complimentary life purposes and compatibility

Posted: at 8-09-2009 09:16 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Well -- really couples dont need to be compatible before they commit - but there need to be an unconditional love motivated by pure and undiluted love....

Then the next obstacle might be lack of freedom

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Posted: at 8-09-2009 11:16 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac