he isnt talking to me!!!

Date: 30-08-2007 6:55 pm (16 years ago) | Author: zababe
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- at 30-08-2007 06:55 PM (16 years ago)
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i was talking to my man and he asked me a question which i jokingly refused to answer. (it wasnt about cheating or another man) he got angry and said i was taking him for granted. he has refused to take my calls or reply my texts for over a week now. i call several times a day and text but no luck. what should i do? how long should i keep up the begging?

Posted: at 30-08-2007 06:55 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
- democrazy at 30-08-2007 09:50 PM (16 years ago)
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How far away is he from you?

My initial advice is that you stop calling/texting him.

Atimes when you have so many missed calls from the same person, the habit gets harder to break.
The calls soon have no meaning.

Pick yourself up and go find him. Explain how your last week has been, and answer his question, for just incase that was his reason.

N/B I dont understand girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. My understanding only stems as far as fiancee, to-marry, and married.

Wish you the best!!
Posted: at 30-08-2007 09:50 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wales at 31-08-2007 07:16 PM (16 years ago)
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If you are in LOVE with him, i will advice you to keep on call and text him till you can call and text no more, for if you take chances you will not have him again. So take care of your heart. Grin
Posted: at 31-08-2007 07:16 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- herre at 31-08-2007 07:36 PM (16 years ago)
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ah!...is he a baby....pls try and reason wit him....but rmember only the reasonable can actually reason...so is he a reasonable guy? Undecided
Posted: at 31-08-2007 07:36 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Vixenx at 2-09-2007 10:21 PM (16 years ago)
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I don't think that you should continue with the non-stop calling and texting depending on the kind of individual you're dealing with. You know your man , so therefore you should know if he's the type thats gets irritated easily, because most people, especially men does not like when a girl keeps calling and texting them non-stop, especially when they're angry, sometimes that makes them even angrier. So since the calls and texts didn't seem to be working, how about just chillin and laying low for a lil bit..and give him a chance to cool off and then he might call you..Good luck!!
Posted: at 2-09-2007 10:21 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- myragonza at 3-09-2007 08:33 AM (16 years ago)
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can i know what was the question that he asked...?!?!?

Posted: at 3-09-2007 08:33 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- herre at 4-09-2007 03:49 AM (16 years ago)
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for real pls what is the question?
Posted: at 4-09-2007 03:49 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 4-09-2007 10:37 AM (16 years ago)
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we are still waiting my friend...........

Posted: at 4-09-2007 10:37 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- zababe at 4-09-2007 06:37 PM (16 years ago)
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well, he called my phone and i did not pick the first time it rang, i picked the second time. his phone was on private numbe, i had no way of knowing it was him. and he just asked why i did not pick i told him we should greet first now. that was it.
Posted: at 4-09-2007 06:37 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- herre at 4-09-2007 07:48 PM (16 years ago)
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r u kidding me?!?!dats all???....come oh r u sure ur not omittin smthn..talk the whole truth oh ,so we know how to help u. bcos come on dat hardly sounds like a reason for him to stop talkin to u, unless he has been plannin it since and was just lookin for a reason ...
Posted: at 4-09-2007 07:48 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 5-09-2007 04:18 AM (16 years ago)
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the reason is so absurd.....if its really true.....i don't think it will be a happy relationship coz till the end, he will be suspecting u......and u cannot live in peace....

Posted: at 5-09-2007 04:18 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Vixenx at 5-09-2007 09:23 PM (16 years ago)
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@herre..you're right about that..I mean thats a stupid reason to stop calling..It's something he's been planning and just waiting on you to do something to use that as a reason. Girl you need to let him be..get u a real hero and drop that zero ya heard?? Grin
Posted: at 5-09-2007 09:23 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- zababe at 17-09-2007 06:07 PM (16 years ago)
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thnks y'all, you really helped me there. its true that if your guy is naturally suspicious, its gonna be a difficult relationship. thanks for the advice. cheers!
Posted: at 17-09-2007 06:07 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- myragonza at 18-09-2007 06:12 AM (16 years ago)
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anytime gurl......in fact anytime for my naijapals..........take care!!

Posted: at 18-09-2007 06:12 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- freda at 9-02-2008 11:31 PM (16 years ago)
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if u love him stop calling for a while, then go and see him.
all da best.
Posted: at 9-02-2008 11:31 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- dejifortune at 9-02-2008 11:38 PM (16 years ago)
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just go for him and apologies, if he still not answering you call, just let him go, maybe u he just looking for an exuse to end the relationship, u know we men are unpredictable.

Posted: at 9-02-2008 11:38 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- damien2 at 10-02-2008 12:12 AM (16 years ago)
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i agree with dejifortune
Posted: at 10-02-2008 12:12 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- khadijah at 10-02-2008 12:23 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: dejifortune on  9-02-2008 11:38 PM
just go for him and apologies, if he still not answering you call, just let him go, maybe u he just looking for an exuse to end the relationship, u know we men are unpredictable.
just exactly what i thought
Posted: at 10-02-2008 12:23 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- delicious070 at 10-02-2008 11:28 AM (16 years ago)
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hi ze baby, i just like ur topic of discussions they are more realistic,reasonable and they all worth discussing.But i think he dont talk to u because of guilty conciance so girl u dont need to appologise 4 a mistake  u never made after all he's not buying 
Posted: at 10-02-2008 11:28 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- orilanda at 10-02-2008 11:54 AM (16 years ago)
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Call me i will pick ur calls and reply ur texts

Posted: at 10-02-2008 11:54 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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