Would You Forgive Your Wife Who Slept With Your Pastor And Now Asking For Forgiveness ?

"Dear Naijapals,"
My name is Ikechukwu and what I have to share with your readers has been eating at my soul and if I don't get a reliable solution, it could lead to my death.

I got married to my wife, Nneka four years ago and we have a son whom I love dearly. Before I got married, I was doing well in my business but due to the economic situation in the country, things became tough for me and I had to close down my business and has been hustling since last year to make ends meet for my family.
That was when a friend introduced me to a pastor with the assurance that if the man prayed for me, things would go back to normal. I started attending the man's church and within a short while, I made sure my family attended the church too. We became so dedicated that we became a reference point.
I was made an elder in the church while Nneka was made the women fellowship leader and she became so close to the pastor, so much that she was free to visit his house at anytime and help him in household chores.
Little did I know that my wife and the pastor had started an affair until his secretary leaked the secret to me. At first, I would not believe that until the lady started giving me updates on their dalliances. On the day I caught her red handed, the secretary had called me to go to a hotel in town, that my wife who had told me she was going for evangelism with the pastor were lodged there.
I went to the hotel out of curiosity and true to what the lady said, I caught my wife with our pastor in the same room almost Nood. It was apparent they had had sex all through the night because they were still locked in each other's arms when I knocked on the door pretending to be one of the hotel's cleaner.
They were both shocked to see me but after I had seen them, I just closed the door and went out. Back home, I called her mother and brother and told them everything, telling them that Nneka should not come back to my house or I would kill her.
It has been six months now and she has been begging me, sending emissaries to talk to me to forgive her and take her back, at least for the sake of our son.
I want to ask your readers to advice me. Should I forgive her and take her back? Mind you, I am still hurting from her betrayal.

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Posted: at 12-01-2016 11:15 AM (8 years ago) | Hero

Nah don't dare try it cos she might kill you @d end of the day..

Posted: at 12-01-2016 11:30 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming

Yes i will forgive her but never never to remarry. Forgive her but don't take her back

Posted: at 12-01-2016 11:35 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Ewooh,woman but why? This na adultery&infedility.anyway you can forgive her but watch your back&becareful,is just that she bore a son for you,if not I would have advised that you send her packing,but leave her,let her&her conscience alone be fighting.but don't eat her food or try sleeping with her again.

Posted: at 12-01-2016 11:47 AM (8 years ago) | Hero

I WILL FORGIVE HER FOR ''TO ERR IS HUMAN TO FORGIVE DIVINE''
BUT STOP USING IGBO NAMES TO WRITE FABRICATED STORIES

Posted: at 12-01-2016 12:19 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

POSTER STOP ALL THIS TRIBALISM OF A THING, WHY NOT USE YORUBA NAME TO WRITE THIS TRASH?
WHAT HAVE IGBOS DONE TO U GUYS?

Posted: at 12-01-2016 12:23 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

There is a word of wisdom that says forgive and forget. Yes I will forgive her but forget her thereafter.

Posted: at 12-01-2016 12:31 PM (8 years ago) | Hero

Gosh... Your just too dumb.. Very childish reasoning.

Posted: at 12-01-2016 02:04 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Why the pastor no marry her?

Posted: at 12-01-2016 02:24 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

............Good question.

Posted: at 12-01-2016 02:31 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac