about any of these things with a man:
-Why he acts moody or withdrawn for no good
reason
-Why he seems to still need his "freedom" even
though you're together, and what that even
really means
-Why he says he loves you but acts like he
couldn't care one way or the other when you get
into a heated discussion
-Why he doesn't seem to listen when you tell
him something that's bothering you
-Why he doesn't seem to think about your future
and avoids talking about commitment
If you have, this will be one of the best emails
you've ever received. Because it may very well
change your life.
If you've been wondering these things quietly and
secretly about men all your life, but didn't know
who to ask about it, now is the time.
Right now I'm going to tell you something that
will stop all the guessing and wondering and
waiting when it comes to love and men in your
life.
Are you ready to know exactly how men think about
relationships, what they really want, and what
the confusing things they say really mean?
Good.
Because all the answers you've been searching for
are in my Inside The Mind Of A Man program.
In this program, I've revealed the hidden secrets
behind why men do what they do, and why they often
send "mixed signals" to women they say they love.
If you want to finally know what's going on with
your man and get more love and understanding from
him than you ever thought possible, then you need
what's inside my Inside the Mind of a Man program:
http://www.CatchHimKeepHim.com/IMM
So Sheenor,
How's it going?
Do you ever feel frustrated that men don't
know what they want when it comes to love and
relationships?
Have you felt this way even when you and a man
are already physical, affectionate, and having an
amazing time together?
What's going on here?
Are men really this clueless and frustrating?
In case you haven't figured this one out for
yourself, here's an important piece of info
about how men can be when it comes to "dating"
and relationships...
A man can be DOING all the things that say
he's interested and wants more with you, but FEEL
like HE'S NOT READY or wanting more in terms of a
RELATIONSHIP at the same time.
Crazy, right?
It's enough to drive a woman mad.
And what's worse... a man can DO all kinds of
things with you from hanging out to take things
to a segxwal level... but he won't COMMUNICATE
about what he's really FEELING.
At least not until after the fact - after he
decides things aren't "working" and he's not
ready for a serious relationship.
Ever had a man get close to you and spend lots
of time with you, but then he couldn't get a word
out about how he was feeling and what he wanted?
If you know what I'm talking about here, then
you know that not-so-great feeling you get when
you're sharing an amazing connection with the
man in your life but...
Out of nowhere he does a complete 180 and
tells you he doesn't like your situation or
something really important about YOU.
And he's already made up his mind to LEAVE.
Arrghhhhhh!
Frustrating, right?
You didn't even get the chance to know or
talk about what was going on inside his head.
How in the world did he think things were
supposed to end up working?
Were you supposed to read his mind!?
I get that it must feel IMPOSSIBLE sometimes to
get close to a man and have a real relationship.
Well, it's not.
Tons of other women like you have gone from
where you are now to having an easy time
communicating with the men in their lives and
growing from that UNCERTAIN area of the first
few dates to a loving and secure relationship.
I've helped tons of women create that "shift"
in their dating life or their relationship that
now PREVENTS these frustrating things from
happening.
And now I want to share some real-world
insights with you about how men think... and how
to make things with that right man work for you.
WHY MEN DON'T CALL AGAIN AFTER GREAT DATES
I probably don't have to tell you that men do
this "suddenly pulling away" thing in all
different situations from "casual" dating to
committed relationships.
And they do it without warning, and for what
seems like no good reason at all.
How many times have you gone on a first or
second date with a man and had an absolutely
fantastic time...
And you were sure he was going to call and
felt as strongly about you as you did him...
You had both laughed and found so many things
you had in common...
You felt relaxed and confident, and you BOTH
had a good time flirting and getting to know one
another.
Best of all, that magic chemistry you can only
share with the right kind of guy was there.
And it was INTENSE.
When you went home after being with him, you
were 100% SURE he would call and ask you out
again.
He had even said "I'll call you" as he left.
But then a few days went by... and nothing.
Several days later, after you had wondered
about him more than you'd like to admit, you
came to the realization that he was NEVER going
to CALL.
What's the deal here!?
Why did he act like it was such a great date
and even say that he'd call you later, when he
obviously didn't plan on it?
Did he lie simply because it was easier in
the moment and he didn't want to hurt your
feelings?
And was there something strange going on inside
HIM he didn't want to share, show you, or be
honest about?
Or was there something else?
Something you missed that he saw in YOU?
Was there something YOU DID or said that was
the REAL REASON he didn't feel compelled to see
you again?
If you're like a LOT of single women, this
sort of thing where a man never calls or makes
plans with you again has not only happened to
you once, but it's happened to you a few times.
You've spent time with a man who seemed like
he could have been great "relationship material",
and who showed all the signs of wanting to grow
close to you and get to know you better...
But when push came to shove, he PULLED AWAY
for what seemed like no good reason at all.
And he was never available to you to talk
about it or tell you why.
Which means... for all the times this has
happened to you, a part of you has NEVER learned
anything about WHY these things keep happening
to you.
Part of you simply feels like you're "cursed"
when it comes to love... and that things just
aren't fated to work out for you with true love.
But, if you're like lots of women I've talked
to and helped, then part of you has also made
up your own "stories" for WHY these things
happened to try and make yourself feel better.
Stories like:
-"He wasn't that great anyway."
-"It wasn't really meant to be."
-"You'll find someone better."
-"It was his loss."
Recognize any of these?
The reality is that we often make up these
"stories" in our lives when we let our FEAR of
what the REAL TRUTH about us might be keep us
from looking for and finding out who and what
we really are... and how others see us.
So let me ask you...
What if a man who you really and truly liked
and connected with was willing to tell you THE
TRUTH about why he really never called you again?
Would you be able to listen to him with an
open mind and an open heart?
Would you be able to believe him?
And would you be willing to do anything about
it if what he said was honest and real?
See, lots of women know they aren't getting
the "whole story" from a man, but on a deeper
level they aren't OPEN to hearing his reason WHY
because of the PAIN that could come from it.
And it's this FEAR of being hurt or feeling
unloved or unappreciated that pushes them to both
create a less painful "story"... and try and get
over it and forget about the situation as quickly
as possible.
It's ironic, isn't it, that the very thing that
can keep you from learning, growing, and creating
what you want is often your own unwillingness to
hear the REAL STORY about yourself from another
persons perspective (a man's in this case).
Considering this, here's the real question for
you:
What if there was a real reason why a man
didn't call to ask you out again?
Like that he REALLY WAS interested in you, but
something else got in the way of him being able
to see you and feel comfortable with you.
If this was the case, and knowing what this
mistake was could help you avoid ever making the
same mistake again, wouldn't you want to know
what it was?
What if it was something you were doing on an
unconscious level that you couldn't even see about
yourself that was causing you to lose the chance
to start an incredible connection with a great
guy?
What if it was you who blew it because of some
small misunderstanding or "glitch" going on
inside you that is so EASY TO FIX that you'll
wonder why it was ever a problem for you in the
first place?
There's something I need you to understand
right now...
If there is something you might be doing to
get in your own way, odds are that you are 100%
UNAWARE of what that thing is, and what's causing
it.
After all, the reason you don't know what's
getting in your way in the first place is because
the mistake you're making is something that
happens completely UNCONSCIOUSLY.
Don't believe me yet?
I'll explain how it works like this:
I'm sure you've seen it where a girlfriend of
yours went on a date with a guy she really
liked... and she was completely intent on things
really working out with him - even though they
had only been getting to know each other for a
very short while.
But the more you saw how your girlfriend was
thinking about and approaching the whole
situation, the more that part of you knew that
the man she was dating would instantly lose
interest when he picked up on how she was thinking
and feeling (UNCERTAIN and INSECURE).
And guess what happened?
Exactly...
The man did pick up on it, and he stopped
calling and making plans with her all of a
sudden.
It was over. And she was devastated.
You tried to talk to her about it.
But you knew that there was something that
your girlfriend just couldn't see about herself
that had made this guy get that weird awkward
"Eeeewwww" feeling when he was around her that
had pushed him away.
Even you would have been turned off by this
kind of thing in someone you had started dating.
And even though you tried to hint at what you
saw and explain it to your girlfriend... she just
wasn't having anything to do with the fact that
how SHE was thinking and acting was the reason
he lost interest.
Instead, she was FIXATED on HIM.
Here's the thing...
We all have our own "blind spots" - things
that we do in our lives that WORK AGAINST US
that we can't see for ourselves... but that are
obvious to others when they look at our lives
from the outside.
I'm going to suggest to you that if you're
having some of the same problems and frustrations
over and over with men as you're dating or in
relationships, then what's important is NOT the
belief you might have about how men are so messed
up and don't "get it".
What's important is you getting to the bottom
of YOUR PART in these situations that are keeping
you from creating what you want, YOUR BLIND SPOTS.
That way, you never have to wonder again.
AND, best of all, you can start making LOVE
come together and work for you in your life.
Wouldn't it be great to be able to have a
connection with a man effortlessly grow into a
deeper relationship?
And have that deeper relationship quickly grow
into something SECURE and LASTING not because it
had to be, but because a man was just that wild
about you and had to be with you and stay with
you?
Well keep on reading, because I'm going to
open your eyes up to your blind spots.
*Note: One of the quickest ways to get a man
feeling literally ADDICTED to you is to dial up
the level of ATTRACTION he's feeling for you.
Of course, you have to know how to create
attraction, and you have to know how to make him
feel the kind of attraction that LASTS.
My very best tips on how to make a man feel
this more deep and lasting attraction are all
here:
http://www.CatchHimKeepHim.com/NALA
THE SUREFIRE WAY TO TURN A GUY OFF AFTER THE
FIRST FEW DATES
Let me ask you...
What are those things that even your best
friends see in you and try to tell you, but you
just don't listen to or believe about yourself?
What are the things that are true about how
you end up acting when you get close to a man and
you lose your composure?
I want to tell you that you aren't alone when
it comes to feeling this way and having "blind
spots".
You could be having a hard time just getting
to experience dates #2 and 3 with a guy, because
you rarely get asked out after a first date.
Men just didn't seem to want to follow up and
explore things with you...
Which leads me to an interesting question I
hear sometimes from the women who write to me -
what do dates #2 and #3 MEAN to a man?
If he asks you out on a second or third date,
does that mean he's interested in having a real
relationship?
Maybe. Here's the deal...
When a man asks you out for a second or third
date, what it means is that he's interested in
getting to know you better, because he felt a
good connection with you on date #1.
It doesn't mean that he necessarily wants to
be "exclusive" or is thinking "serious
relationship."
He's STILL just getting to know you.
One of the BIGGEST MISTAKES women make early
on in a dating situation is they assume that
there is a "relationship" when in fact the
thought hasn't even crossed the man's mind.
He's enjoying your company, getting to know
you, starts wondering about you, and meanwhile,
you're already thinking ahead to the next few
months when this is the ONLY man you're seeing
and things are "serious".
You've already made a decision about this guy,
and you don't even know him that well yet. All
you're doing is going by your "gut feeling" and
the chemistry you feel when you're with him.
So you start acting on that "feeling" and you
begin to make certain assumptions about what's
going on between you.
This can send a really bad "vibe" to a guy,
especially when you ASSUME you're going to be
seeing each other every weekend, when you express
your annoyance with him when he doesn't call you
more often, and when you assume a monogamous
relationship instead of actually DISCUSSING it.
I call this the "Instant Relationship" syndrome
and it can be the difference between never getting
past date #2 or 3 with a guy, or connecting way
past dating and into a committed, amazing
relationship.
You can read more about the Instant
Relationship mistake right here:
http://www.CatchHimKeepHim.com/MeetingTheOne
Now...
Here's another question about dating and
relationships I get asked a lot... and I'm sure
you can relate.
Women will come up to me and say, "Christian,
all this dating advice is great, but I don't
understand why I can't just BE MYSELF and still
attract Mr. Right."
The answer is, you CAN be yourself, and really
you SHOULD be.
But how do you know that the way you "are"
around a man is the "best" and most attractive
you?
I believe that ALL women have the natural
power and ability to be confident, playful, and
wildly attractive to a man.
The problem is that because of the baggage of
past bad relationships, hurtful feelings or not
understanding how men think, makes women SUPPRESS
that natural ability to ATTRACT and engage a man
in a way where he can't help but want to spend
time with her - and want to commit to her.
What if you could UNLOCK your natural ability
to attract the right man by learning what it is
that makes HIM desire to be with you and ONLY you?
What if you knew the secrets to how men think
and behave, so you could finally relax and BE
YOURSELF and draw a man to you without all that
"convincing" about how he should be with you?
When a man starts telling you "I care about
you, but I'm not ready for a relationship right
now" it's special man-speak for "I'm not that
attracted to you, deep down."
Now, wouldn't KNOWING that spare you a lot of
wasted time and energy, trying to figure out what
"care about you" really means, and whether or not
there's something you could do or say to get him
to want to date you?
Unfortunately, a lot of women don't have that
basic understanding about men, and so they spend
endless hours analyzing what a guy does or says
and whether or not he's really being honest with
his feelings.
Believe me, if a man feels that DEEP EMOTIONAL
CONNECTION with you, he won't even worry about
what else is going on in his life.
He'll want to be around you and want to have
something meaningful and long-lasting with you.
These kinds of misunderstandings about men can
be the ROOT CAUSE of why you're not getting past
a few dates with the men you're really attracted
to and interested in.
What if you could know, without a doubt, what
kinds of things are the real attraction-killers
for men?
What if you knew how to talk to a man so that
he saw you as fun and interesting, instead of
needy or critical or just too "bossy"?
In my Inside The Mind Of A Man program, I
take you IN-DEPTH to why men do the things they
do and why they say the things they say to a
woman.
Think for a moment about where you would be if
you had an amazing, mature, great guy in your
life.
Would you feel more confident if you knew:
> Exactly what to say and do so that your man
would ALWAYS feel that staying with you was more
than worth it - even when you had challenges,
fights, and disagreements?
> How to keep from feeling unintentionally hurt
by little things he says and does, because you'll
understand him better than he understands himself?
Think about it.
Wouldn't your love life be 100 times better if
you only understood certain things about men?
Things like:
> Why men cheat and how to affair-proof your
relationship
> What men really need in order to feel "in love"
> What men wish women understood about them
> Why men often seem to withdraw after an
argument or conflict
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