Breakups can be rough, and they can be amicable; no matter what, no one really wants to go through them. The loss of your relationship can bring on intense heartache. But if you're looking for some help getting through it and want some suggestions about how to make it a little easier, read on... Steps 1. 1 Think through everything thoroughly, but not obsessively. Go ahead and mull it over, as many times as necessary, within reason. Consider all the reasons you two broke up. Even if it sometimes seems as if there wasn't a good reason, there certainly was one - and probably more than one. Understand that you enjoyed being together for a while, but if the relationship was not what both you and your partner wanted for life, it would have ended eventually, no matter what. In this case, better sooner than later. Thinking about the reasons why it ended can make it much clearer to you that it takes two people to start a relationship, but just one discordant person is enough to end it. It may also help you avoid many missteps in the future if you can identify areas where you contributed to the demise of the relationship. 2. 2 Don't rethink your decision. If the breakup was your decision, keep in mind that only thinking about all the good times you had with your partner may cause you to forget the reasons why you broke it off. By the same token, try not to second-guess the situation if the decision to end things was not yours. It's very common to romanticize the good parts of the relationship, convincing yourself that maybe the bad parts weren't so bad after all, that maybe you could just live with them. Or that maybe if your ex would know just how you feel, he/she wouldn't want to break up after all. Don't play this game with yourself. Accept the situation and work on moving forward. 3. 3 Keep your space. Even if you and your ex have decided to stay friends, break away completely from each other right after the breakup. This means not seeing each other, not being around his/her family members, no phone calls, no e-mails, no text messages and no IMs - not necessarily as a permanent measure, but until you feel that you can converse with him/her on a purely platonic level, without an ulterior motive (and yes, wanting to get back together counts as an ulterior motive). If he/she tries to convince you to see him/her, ask yourself honestly what the point would be. If you're reliving the past by seeing him/her, it's not hard to get caught up in the moment and it will be harder to let go again. You may have to have some contact in order to deal with the practical aspects of things like moving out, signing papers, etc., but try to limit this to what's absolutely necessary, and then keep such calls/meetings short and civil. 4. 4 Cope with the pain appropriately. It's okay to feel like you have messed up - accepting responsibility for your mistakes or shortcomings is healthy. On the other hand, you must also accept that you are a good person, and that you did your best and you're not the only one who made mistakes. Of course, a stage of denial is completely natural, but acceptance is the key to being able to start moving on. 5. 5 Deal with the 'hate phase'. This is when you want to just scream because your rage feels boundless. The amount of anger you feel depends on how antagonistic the split was, the circumstances, and how long it took to make the final break. You may resent your ex for wasting your time. You may realize that the breakup was inevitable (hindsight will reveal clues you failed to notice at the time). You may even feel a lot of anger towards yourself, but let go of that feeling fast! It's a waste of time and energy to rip yourself apart over something you no longer have the power to change. There are so many positive things you can do with your emotions and energy. 6. 6 Talk to your friends. You want people around you who love you and who will help you feel good about yourself. Surrounding yourself with compassionate, supportive friends and family will help you see yourself as a worthwhile person, and you'll find it easier to get steady on your feet again with your loved ones around you in a comforting net. But be wary of friends trying to connect you with another person right now, this is not what you need. 7. 7 Write all your feelings down. Write in a journal or try writing poems. The most important thing is to be absolutely honest and don't edit yourself as you go. One of the best results of writing it all down is that sometimes you will be amazed by a sudden insight that comes to you as you are pouring it all out onto paper. Patterns may become clearer, and as your grieving begins to lessen, you will find it so much easier to understand valuable life lessons from the whole experience if you've been writing your way through it. No relationship is ever a failure if you manage to learn something about yourself. Just because it didn't work out doesn't mean it wasn't a necessary part of your journey to becoming who you're meant to be. 8. 8 Make a list of reminders. One of the best tricks to help you stick to your resolve is to make a list of all the reasons your ex was not the one for you. Be ruthless and clear -- this is not the time to be forgiving. What you're doing is creating a picture for yourself that will call up an emotional response when you feel tempted to think that "maybe if you just did this or that, it would work out..." Write down what happened and how it made you feel, being clear about the things you never want to feel again. When you find yourself missing your ex in a weak moment, and think you might actually be getting too close to the telephone, get out this list, read it over a couple times, and then talk to yourself, "This is the truth of what it was like. Why would I want to go back and torture myself again?" If you're caught in a low-self-esteem trap, thinking you don't deserve better, imagine this happening to a friend of yours, and think what you would say to your friend: "Get as far away as you can! That relationship was no good for you!" 9. 9 Out with the old, in with the new. A breakup can signify a new beginning. Therefore, cleaning and organizing your personal space will leave you feeling refreshed and prepared for the new things to come. A mess can be overwhelming and depressing, and will just add to your stress level. The added bonus is that keeping busy with tidying your space doesn't require a lot of brain power, but does require just enough focus to keep you from recycling pain. Occupying yourself with such tasks designed to make your life better and easier will also occupy your mind enough to help you through the residual pain. 10. 10 Remove memory triggers. There are all kinds of things that remind you of your ex - a song, a smell, a sound, a place. Once the grieving period has had some time to process, don't dwell on painful feelings or memories. There are probably things that are pushing your buttons without your conscious recognition. Try walking around each room in your house with a box and removing things that make your heart ache or your stomach turn. Really focus and look carefully. You may realize that the little blue bird-shaped box sitting on the mantel has become pretty invisible for the last couple years, but when you take a conscious look at it, you notice that every time you turn towards that corner of the room and it catches your eye, you feel a sharp little pain in your solar plexus. It can work wonders to clear your space of all these triggers. If you have a keepsake, such as a watch or piece of jewelry that was given to you by your ex, and it's a reminder of the good aspects of your relationship, there's nothing wrong with keeping such a thing, but for the time being, try putting it away for later, when you've given yourself some time and space. 11. 11 Find happiness in other areas of your life. Whether that means spending time with your friends and family, signing up for that class you've always wanted to take, or reading every book on the New York Times bestseller list, remind yourself that a relationship is one part of life, but even when you are in one, there are personal pleasures that you can always enjoy on your own. Indulge in those things now. As they say, the best revenge is living well. Enjoy Being Single. 12. 12 Stay active. Exercise improves your mood and alleviates depression, and the distraction will help keep your mind off your situation. Go running outside, visit (or join) the gym, or just go for a walk, maybe with a friend, and think of releasing the anger or sadness with every step. 13. 13 Let go. Understand that there is no benefit in holding on to heartache, regret, and hatred toward another person. Realize that although it is over, your relationship with that person was unique and special in a lot of ways. You can congratulate yourself for being brave enough to take a risk and fall in love, and encourage your heart that even though love didn't work out this time, there will be a next time. You are better than them. 14. 14 Be Optimistic. Change your thinking; that will help change the way you feel. Soon enough you'll be feeling released and free, and ready to take on new challenges. Tips • Remember that your ex may be trying to get over you, as well. Be sensitive to that, and keep your distance. If you've decided to stop seeing one another, do just that: stop. • Sometimes it helps to listen to music that matches your feelings because you have stored up grief that needs a trigger to help you release it. But beware of wallowing. After a certain point, you're not helping yourself by going through it all again and again with the sad songs. Instead, try making a couple of CDs or playlists that put your thoughts where you want them to be. Sometimes it helps to make a collection of more self-affirming, new-attitude, defiant songs if you are feeling helpless. Choose lyrics that make you feel empowered and focused with a driving beat. • As simple as this sounds, be clear to yourself that you are actually breaking up. Too often the thoughts of possibly being back together will creep in, distracting you from the work of healing. Such fantasizing gradually eats at you and destroys your emotional well being. Accept the truth of your situation, and commit to it. • If your ex has left you for another person then ask yourself: If s/he said s/he wanted you back, would you really want him or her? Would you ever trust him/her not to break your heart again? Would you be hurt, angry, distrustful when s/he is 10 minutes late calling you, wondering where she is, who he is with? Though you may believe that the answer to all your prayers would be a reconciliation with your ex, if it did happen, you might find that Mr. Spock from Star Trek was right when he said "You may find that having is not so pleasing a thing, after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true." • Keep your dignity. Many times, it's our own ego that causes the pain; we feel rejected and deceived, embarrassed. We doubt our self worth and adequacy. A breakup, especially one in which your partner has cheated on you, can really undermine your self-confidence and shake your self-esteem to the core. Help rebuild your inner stability by impressing yourself with accomplishment - volunteer, take a class, do things that remind you of your value as a person. • If you find yourself compulsively checking your ex's MySpace, Facebook, or any other social networking profile, help yourself out and use the Firefox extension, block site, which allows you to block the URL to that profile. Sometimes it also helps to take them off your 'Friends' list, or 'de-friend' them, at least for a while. Even if things ended on a clean slate, it can be too painful to see what the other person is up to. It helps, even though it's hard. Warnings • After some time passes (how much time depends on the length and/or intensity of your relationship and how dependent you let yourself become on your ex), you will start to feel better. This does not mean that you should jump into another relationship right away, especially a serious one. Take it easy. You have all the time in the world to feel better, and just because you meet a nice guy/girl does not mean you should get involved. Your emotions may still be unstable and the first person you meet may get a version of you that is not completely healed.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 23-06-2010 12:42 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
divineproject at 23-06-2010 12:45 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Dont tell me you have joined 'nametalkam' in posting long essays.......oya come summarize it sharply!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 23-06-2010 12:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 23-06-2010 12:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
dupsy2smile at 23-06-2010 01:32 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 12:50 PM
Quote from: xter on 23-06-2010 12:48 PM
Where did u get dis unsavourable magazine?
my dear thou i say funny tins .. am also a writter
i never knew u're dis talented, i used 2 c u as naughty! Anyway, kip it up! I applied those tricks wen we broke up and dey worked 4 me. There's one i havent applied, which is about peepin in2 his Facebook. Now i knw i've been hurtin mysef unnecessarily. Pls tell me d process of blockin dat site. Also i neva thought of d possibility of him tryin 2 get ova me, since he was d one dat opted out. Good work.
Posted: at 23-06-2010 01:32 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
sophiebaby at 23-06-2010 02:20 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 01:32 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 12:50 PM
Quote from: xter on 23-06-2010 12:48 PM
Where did u get dis unsavourable magazine?
my dear thou i say funny tins .. am also a writter
i never knew u're dis talented, i used 2 c u as naughty! Anyway, kip it up! I applied those tricks wen we broke up and dey worked 4 me. There's one i havent applied, which is about peepin in2 his Facebook. Now i knw i've been hurtin mysef unnecessarily. Pls tell me d process of blockin dat site. Also i neva thought of d possibility of him tryin 2 get ova me, since he was d one dat opted out. Good work.
peeping into his fb wont help matas rada it will hurt u more.. All u nid do if be yasef.. kip to yasef and move on wit ya life.. thats life for u.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 23-06-2010 02:20 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dupsy2smile at 23-06-2010 02:25 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:20 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 01:32 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 12:50 PM
Quote from: xter on 23-06-2010 12:48 PM
Where did u get dis unsavourable magazine?
my dear thou i say funny tins .. am also a writter
i never knew u're dis talented, i used 2 c u as naughty! Anyway, kip it up! I applied those tricks wen we broke up and dey worked 4 me. There's one i havent applied, which is about peepin in2 his Facebook. Now i knw i've been hurtin mysef unnecessarily. Pls tell me d process of blockin dat site. Also i neva thought of d possibility of him tryin 2 get ova me, since he was d one dat opted out. Good work.
peeping into his fb wont help matas rada it will hurt u more.. All u nid do if be yasef.. kip to yasef and move on wit ya life.. thats life for u.
....and wat r u feelin like, a relationship expert? I didnt ask 4 ur advice. I only asked 4 d process of blockin his site usin firefox extension block site, which u stated in dat piece.
Posted: at 23-06-2010 02:25 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
sophiebaby at 23-06-2010 02:33 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 02:25 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:20 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 01:32 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 12:50 PM
Quote from: xter on 23-06-2010 12:48 PM
Where did u get dis unsavourable magazine?
my dear thou i say funny tins .. am also a writter
i never knew u're dis talented, i used 2 c u as naughty! Anyway, kip it up! I applied those tricks wen we broke up and dey worked 4 me. There's one i havent applied, which is about peepin in2 his Facebook. Now i knw i've been hurtin mysef unnecessarily. Pls tell me d process of blockin dat site. Also i neva thought of d possibility of him tryin 2 get ova me, since he was d one dat opted out. Good work.
peeping into his fb wont help matas rada it will hurt u more.. All u nid do if be yasef.. kip to yasef and move on wit ya life.. thats life for u.
....and wat r u feelin like, a relationship expert? I didnt ask 4 ur advice. I only asked 4 d process of blockin his site usin firefox extension block site, which u stated in dat piece.
for the firefox extnsn/URL stuff u will pay for it if i tell u... if u are interested tell me so i can send u my email add.. but the best is ...remove from ya friend list... na jealouse lovers dey always peep like dat oooo.. watever u see on his wall shudnt hurt u..
hehehehe
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 23-06-2010 02:33 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dupsy2smile at 23-06-2010 02:44 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:33 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 02:25 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:20 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 01:32 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 12:50 PM
Quote from: xter on 23-06-2010 12:48 PM
Where did u get dis unsavourable magazine?
my dear thou i say funny tins .. am also a writter
i never knew u're dis talented, i used 2 c u as naughty! Anyway, kip it up! I applied those tricks wen we broke up and dey worked 4 me. There's one i havent applied, which is about peepin in2 his Facebook. Now i knw i've been hurtin mysef unnecessarily. Pls tell me d process of blockin dat site. Also i neva thought of d possibility of him tryin 2 get ova me, since he was d one dat opted out. Good work.
peeping into his fb wont help matas rada it will hurt u more.. All u nid do if be yasef.. kip to yasef and move on wit ya life.. thats life for u.
....and wat r u feelin like, a relationship expert? I didnt ask 4 ur advice. I only asked 4 d process of blockin his site usin firefox extension block site, which u stated in dat piece.
for the firefox extnsn/URL stuff u will pay for it if i tell u... if u are interested tell me so i can send u my email add.. but the best is ...remove from ya friend list... na jealouse lovers dey always peep like dat oooo.. watever u see on his wall shudnt hurt u..
hehehehe
ok, bt i dnt evn hv him in my friend's list. I'm not a jealous lover o, jst dat i'm still in d healin process and as u rightly said, there r times u miss him so mch u can't help tinkin bout gud times 2geda. I tink na im mk i still dey check n nt out of jealousy, sister.
Posted: at 23-06-2010 02:44 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
sophiebaby at 23-06-2010 02:49 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 02:44 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:33 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 02:25 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:20 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 01:32 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 12:50 PM
Quote from: xter on 23-06-2010 12:48 PM
Where did u get dis unsavourable magazine?
my dear thou i say funny tins .. am also a writter
i never knew u're dis talented, i used 2 c u as naughty! Anyway, kip it up! I applied those tricks wen we broke up and dey worked 4 me. There's one i havent applied, which is about peepin in2 his Facebook. Now i knw i've been hurtin mysef unnecessarily. Pls tell me d process of blockin dat site. Also i neva thought of d possibility of him tryin 2 get ova me, since he was d one dat opted out. Good work.
peeping into his fb wont help matas rada it will hurt u more.. All u nid do if be yasef.. kip to yasef and move on wit ya life.. thats life for u.
....and wat r u feelin like, a relationship expert? I didnt ask 4 ur advice. I only asked 4 d process of blockin his site usin firefox extension block site, which u stated in dat piece.
for the firefox extnsn/URL stuff u will pay for it if i tell u... if u are interested tell me so i can send u my email add.. but the best is ...remove from ya friend list... na jealouse lovers dey always peep like dat oooo.. watever u see on his wall shudnt hurt u..
hehehehe
ok, bt i dnt evn hv him in my friend's list. I'm not a jealous lover o, jst dat i'm still in d healin process and as u rightly said, there r times u miss him so mch u can't help tinkin bout gud times 2geda. I tink na im mk i still dey check n nt out of jealousy, sister.
since he opted out himself.. have u asked ursef y he opted out? or did u ask him y? if yes.. try to get over him.. but if no ask yasef qstns...
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 23-06-2010 02:49 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dupsy2smile at 23-06-2010 03:04 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:49 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 02:44 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:33 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 02:25 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:20 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 01:32 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 12:50 PM
Quote from: xter on 23-06-2010 12:48 PM
Where did u get dis unsavourable magazine?
my dear thou i say funny tins .. am also a writter
i never knew u're dis talented, i used 2 c u as naughty! Anyway, kip it up! I applied those tricks wen we broke up and dey worked 4 me. There's one i havent applied, which is about peepin in2 his Facebook. Now i knw i've been hurtin mysef unnecessarily. Pls tell me d process of blockin dat site. Also i neva thought of d possibility of him tryin 2 get ova me, since he was d one dat opted out. Good work.
peeping into his fb wont help matas rada it will hurt u more.. All u nid do if be yasef.. kip to yasef and move on wit ya life.. thats life for u.
....and wat r u feelin like, a relationship expert? I didnt ask 4 ur advice. I only asked 4 d process of blockin his site usin firefox extension block site, which u stated in dat piece.
for the firefox extnsn/URL stuff u will pay for it if i tell u... if u are interested tell me so i can send u my email add.. but the best is ...remove from ya friend list... na jealouse lovers dey always peep like dat oooo.. watever u see on his wall shudnt hurt u..
hehehehe
ok, bt i dnt evn hv him in my friend's list. I'm not a jealous lover o, jst dat i'm still in d healin process and as u rightly said, there r times u miss him so mch u can't help tinkin bout gud times 2geda. I tink na im mk i still dey check n nt out of jealousy, sister.
since he opted out himself.. have u asked ursef y he opted out? or did u ask him y? if yes.. try to get over him.. but if no ask yasef qstns...
yeah i did. He lied at first, tryin 2 put d blame on me, but later told me d truth.......... ..........he was in love with sumone else. I followed him home dat nite and gave him a very deeeeeeep kiss and dat was it, d luv faded immediately! Romantic breakup, isnt it?
Posted: at 23-06-2010 03:04 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
sophiebaby at 23-06-2010 03:07 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 03:04 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:49 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 02:44 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:33 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 02:25 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:20 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 01:32 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 12:50 PM
Quote from: xter on 23-06-2010 12:48 PM
Where did u get dis unsavourable magazine?
my dear thou i say funny tins .. am also a writter
i never knew u're dis talented, i used 2 c u as naughty! Anyway, kip it up! I applied those tricks wen we broke up and dey worked 4 me. There's one i havent applied, which is about peepin in2 his Facebook. Now i knw i've been hurtin mysef unnecessarily. Pls tell me d process of blockin dat site. Also i neva thought of d possibility of him tryin 2 get ova me, since he was d one dat opted out. Good work.
peeping into his fb wont help matas rada it will hurt u more.. All u nid do if be yasef.. kip to yasef and move on wit ya life.. thats life for u.
....and wat r u feelin like, a relationship expert? I didnt ask 4 ur advice. I only asked 4 d process of blockin his site usin firefox extension block site, which u stated in dat piece.
for the firefox extnsn/URL stuff u will pay for it if i tell u... if u are interested tell me so i can send u my email add.. but the best is ...remove from ya friend list... na jealouse lovers dey always peep like dat oooo.. watever u see on his wall shudnt hurt u..
hehehehe
ok, bt i dnt evn hv him in my friend's list. I'm not a jealous lover o, jst dat i'm still in d healin process and as u rightly said, there r times u miss him so mch u can't help tinkin bout gud times 2geda. I tink na im mk i still dey check n nt out of jealousy, sister.
since he opted out himself.. have u asked ursef y he opted out? or did u ask him y? if yes.. try to get over him.. but if no ask yasef qstns...
yeah i did. He lied at first, tryin 2 put d blame on me, but later told me d truth.......... ..........he was in love with sumone else. I followed him home dat nite and gave him a very deeeeeeep kiss and dat was it, d luv faded immediately! Romantic breakup, isnt it?
lie lie like u
hehehehehehe
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 23-06-2010 03:07 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dupsy2smile at 23-06-2010 03:12 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 03:07 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 03:04 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:49 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 02:44 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:33 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 02:25 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 02:20 PM
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 01:32 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 12:50 PM
Quote from: xter on 23-06-2010 12:48 PM
Where did u get dis unsavourable magazine?
my dear thou i say funny tins .. am also a writter
i never knew u're dis talented, i used 2 c u as naughty! Anyway, kip it up! I applied those tricks wen we broke up and dey worked 4 me. There's one i havent applied, which is about peepin in2 his Facebook. Now i knw i've been hurtin mysef unnecessarily. Pls tell me d process of blockin dat site. Also i neva thought of d possibility of him tryin 2 get ova me, since he was d one dat opted out. Good work.
peeping into his fb wont help matas rada it will hurt u more.. All u nid do if be yasef.. kip to yasef and move on wit ya life.. thats life for u.
....and wat r u feelin like, a relationship expert? I didnt ask 4 ur advice. I only asked 4 d process of blockin his site usin firefox extension block site, which u stated in dat piece.
for the firefox extnsn/URL stuff u will pay for it if i tell u... if u are interested tell me so i can send u my email add.. but the best is ...remove from ya friend list... na jealouse lovers dey always peep like dat oooo.. watever u see on his wall shudnt hurt u..
hehehehe
ok, bt i dnt evn hv him in my friend's list. I'm not a jealous lover o, jst dat i'm still in d healin process and as u rightly said, there r times u miss him so mch u can't help tinkin bout gud times 2geda. I tink na im mk i still dey check n nt out of jealousy, sister.
since he opted out himself.. have u asked ursef y he opted out? or did u ask him y? if yes.. try to get over him.. but if no ask yasef qstns...
yeah i did. He lied at first, tryin 2 put d blame on me, but later told me d truth.......... ..........he was in love with sumone else. I followed him home dat nite and gave him a very deeeeeeep kiss and dat was it, d luv faded immediately! Romantic breakup, isnt it?
lie lie like u
hehehehehehe
wat do u mean by lie lie like me? Which part of d story u nor believe?
Posted: at 23-06-2010 03:12 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
dupsy2smile at 23-06-2010 03:36 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 03:07 PM
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Quote from: dupsy2smile on 23-06-2010 01:32 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 12:50 PM
Quote from: xter on 23-06-2010 12:48 PM
Where did u get dis unsavourable magazine?
my dear thou i say funny tins .. am also a writter
i never knew u're dis talented, i used 2 c u as naughty! Anyway, kip it up! I applied those tricks wen we broke up and dey worked 4 me. There's one i havent applied, which is about peepin in2 his Facebook. Now i knw i've been hurtin mysef unnecessarily. Pls tell me d process of blockin dat site. Also i neva thought of d possibility of him tryin 2 get ova me, since he was d one dat opted out. Good work.
peeping into his fb wont help matas rada it will hurt u more.. All u nid do if be yasef.. kip to yasef and move on wit ya life.. thats life for u.
....and wat r u feelin like, a relationship expert? I didnt ask 4 ur advice. I only asked 4 d process of blockin his site usin firefox extension block site, which u stated in dat piece.
for the firefox extnsn/URL stuff u will pay for it if i tell u... if u are interested tell me so i can send u my email add.. but the best is ...remove from ya friend list... na jealouse lovers dey always peep like dat oooo.. watever u see on his wall shudnt hurt u..
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ok, bt i dnt evn hv him in my friend's list. I'm not a jealous lover o, jst dat i'm still in d healin process and as u rightly said, there r times u miss him so mch u can't help tinkin bout gud times 2geda. I tink na im mk i still dey check n nt out of jealousy, sister.
since he opted out himself.. have u asked ursef y he opted out? or did u ask him y? if yes.. try to get over him.. but if no ask yasef qstns...
yeah i did. He lied at first, tryin 2 put d blame on me, but later told me d truth.......... ..........he was in love with sumone else. I followed him home dat nite and gave him a very deeeeeeep kiss and dat was it, d luv faded immediately! Romantic breakup, isnt it?
lie lie like u
hehehehehehe
have i ever lied 2 u before?
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