What would you do if your family, mother to be precise; tells you that she is going to disowned you if you dont marry a particular man?
Would you go ahead and marry the man that you are not in love or compatible with in order for your mother not to disown you or not marry the man and let her disown you?
Posted: at 16-11-2010 04:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
mydicksweet at 16-11-2010 04:12 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Its better she disown me bcs what matters is my happiness,gone are the days when parents chose spouse for their sons and daughters
Posted: at 16-11-2010 04:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
juleshotluv at 16-11-2010 04:16 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: mydicksweet on 16-11-2010 04:12 PM
Its better she disown me bcs what matters is my happiness,gone are the days when parents chose spouse for their sons and daughters
Right!
you make a lot of sense when you are not drinking or just seeing things. my advice partner, stay completely off those things, they are a bad influence to your life()
Posted: at 16-11-2010 04:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 16-11-2010 04:17 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Let me talk based on the mother that gave birth to me.......I cant imagine my mother threatening me with such.........but if she does, I know it is just an empty threat which she cant carry out..........I will marry a man I love and am compatible with..........
Now for those whose mothers' words are laws, they would do well to convince their mothers otherwise............becos there is no wedding without the consent of your parents!............
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 16-11-2010 04:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
I would asked her who chose her husband for her. Or is she the one getting married to the person? Why on earth would she say she would disown me is beyond my imagination. So i will pay attention to why she wants me to marry the person. By the way, did she choose the person in the first place?
Posted: at 17-11-2010 04:55 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
juleshotluv at 17-11-2010 06:13 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: samboko on 17-11-2010 04:55 AM
I would asked her who chose her husband for her. Or is she the one getting married to the person? Why on earth would she say she would disown me is beyond my imagination. So i will pay attention to why she wants me to marry the person. By the way, did she choose the person in the first place?
Nope!
I know what you are thinking..there is no hidden agenda.
Posted: at 17-11-2010 06:13 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Treasure2 at 17-11-2010 09:37 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: juleshotluv on 16-11-2010 04:09 PM
What would you do if your family, mother to be precise; tells you that she is going to disowned you if you dont marry a particular man?
Would you go ahead and marry the man that you are not in love or compatible with in order for your mother not to disown you or not marry the man and let her disown you?
First find out her reason for her wanting you to marry that particular person, ask her if she has made any promise to the person?
Ask for disown, she can go to CNN and do that for all u care, gone are the days when parent will live ur life for u. The soon she understand that is ur life and ur happiness, the better for her.
Posted: at 17-11-2010 09:37 AM (13 years ago) | Hero