truenaija2 at 16-02-2011 06:50 PM (13 years ago) (f) Reply |
I'm a girl of 22,whose Traditional Marriage Rites has been paid by a man i accepted to marry last december.I had a little misunderstanding with him on phone a day before valatine,and the 14th being val's day,i sent him a love text mssg in the morning and he never replied,neither did he call throughout that day until past 6 in the evening wen i got his text mssg and dat was all.No calls throughout dat day and d following day as well,up till today.People of naijapals wat do u suggest i do,coz i don't want to call him as well.
Hm!I'm curious what that "little misunderstanding " was about, and who caused it exactly! Because, if it was his fault, and you'll make the first step towards him now,then prepare yourself to do so for the rest of your life!
Live and let live! Posted: at 16-02-2011 06:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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mazi at 16-02-2011 06:57 PM (13 years ago) (m) Posted: at 16-02-2011 06:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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ALOY4U at 16-02-2011 08:53 PM (13 years ago) (m) baby am not sure you will be a good wife....you are competing with your suppose husband. just listening to your story... Posted: at 16-02-2011 08:53 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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interpo77 at 16-02-2011 08:59 PM (13 years ago) (m) what actually happend?is it really because of val massage or call? ohh common, this is some body u called ur husband, so no mathher what,u must visit him to know why the misunderstanding, remember u win nothing being in such condition if mohamed dint go to moutain then moutain must go to moha ok and again , u really need to what marriage is all about Posted: at 16-02-2011 08:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 16-02-2011 09:00 PM (13 years ago) (f) baby am not sure you will be a good wife....you are competing with your suppose husband. just listening to your story...
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 16-02-2011 09:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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kebella at 16-02-2011 09:00 PM (13 years ago) (f) opic=59816.msg1853480#msg1853480 date=1297875946] Y u rush go marry sef? Free poocee seekers like me don loose target be dat oo [/quote] lol...............
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 16-02-2011 09:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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interpo77 at 16-02-2011 09:00 PM (13 years ago) (m) two wrongs can never be right..............so is better you try and call him or visit him to know how far..............by the way you not calling him is actually killing you inside...then why not just take the bold step and clear all the matter @once and be at peace , u get it gbam Posted: at 16-02-2011 09:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 16-02-2011 09:01 PM (13 years ago) (f) mmmmmmmm Poster if dont u call him or visit him even if he is the one wrong just make up for the mis understanding u guys hd. or is this hw u going to live as husband and wife there is always time for mis understanding so try make up. and u did nt tell us wat the mis understand was all about
i see ......................
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 16-02-2011 09:01 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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kebella at 16-02-2011 09:01 PM (13 years ago) (f) dis is a practical example of a r/s wiout any foundation at all. no connection..no knowledge of each other nd no direction.
u didn't try much neither did he, dnt try any stand-off wit him if u really want dis r/s. call him or visit him, know wot happened first or wot is going on wit him.
GBAM!!!
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 16-02-2011 09:01 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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interpo77 at 16-02-2011 09:02 PM (13 years ago) (m) opic=59816.msg1853480#msg1853480 date=1297875946] Y u rush go marry sef?
Free poocee seekers like me don loose target be dat oo
lol............... [/quote]KB how u de na? long time- Posted: at 16-02-2011 09:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 16-02-2011 09:02 PM (13 years ago) (f) Babe....let d sleeping dogs lie He's your husband now So plssss let go of your pride And visit ya husband b4 someone that seriously needs husband Snacth him from you
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my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 16-02-2011 09:02 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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kebella at 16-02-2011 09:03 PM (13 years ago) (f) niterpol i dey................happy val..............its really beem long
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 16-02-2011 09:03 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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kebella at 16-02-2011 09:04 PM (13 years ago) (f) I'm a girl of 22,whose Traditional Marriage Rites has been paid by a man i accepted to marry last december.I had a little misunderstanding with him on phone a day before valatine,and the 14th being val's day,i sent him a love text mssg in the morning and he never replied,neither did he call throughout that day until past 6 in the evening wen i got his text mssg and dat was all.No calls throughout dat day and d following day as well,up till today.People of naijapals wat do u suggest i do,coz i don't want to call him as well.
young lady use ur head,,,,,,,,,,,,i ve no cent to drop so i pass gentle ,................OYO
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 16-02-2011 09:04 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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oh gal, follow am ooooh, husband scarce for market dez days... no play with d one wey u get now, bcos if u comot join d labour market me i no go give u space oooh.... by d way u dnt knw his reason for not calling or txting, so find out, u fit vex after... Posted: at 16-02-2011 09:57 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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intbiz at 16-02-2011 10:08 PM (13 years ago) (m) I have said it time without number that girls from 18 to 23 are immature for relationship that will lead to marriage. This is because they are still coming up in life. Some experiences that will guide them to choose life partners is not there. They are still babies who are still looking for what to get. They don't know that relationship involves sacrifices. Men should take note. Allow your girl to mature or look for mature ones. 24 and above. Posted: at 16-02-2011 10:08 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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kebella at 16-02-2011 10:11 PM (13 years ago) (f) noted!!
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 16-02-2011 10:11 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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HOPEA23 at 16-02-2011 10:19 PM (13 years ago) (f) poster..u don't need to stress yourself too much when u have a sister like me ..that can help out....is he sexy ..where he live at just lemme know where i can meet with him?...ii will help u out talk to him.he need a mature talk...listen forget about all those love note or advice you always read on the internet..sum do work sum doesn't..you berra call him and try to make please but if he is still on his stand...give him a break.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. Posted: at 16-02-2011 10:19 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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mallorca at 16-02-2011 10:24 PM (13 years ago) (m) oh gal, follow am ooooh, husband scarce for market dez days... no play with d one wey u get now, bcos if u comot join d labour market me i no go give u space oooh.... by d way u dnt knw his reason for not calling or txting, so find out, u fit vex after...
HOPE IS MY ROAD,VICTORY IS MY DESTINY Posted: at 16-02-2011 10:24 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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what actually happend?is it really because of val massage or call? ohh common, this is some body u called ur husband, so no mathher what,u must visit him to know why the misunderstanding, remember u win nothing being in such condition if mohamed dint go to moutain then moutain must go to moha ok and again , u really need to what marriage is all about
I AGREE WITH YOUR WORDS...SHE NEEDS TO KNOW WHAT MARRIAGE LIFE IS ALL ABOUT.MARRIAGE IS DIFFERENT FROM YOUR BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU THINK YOU OWN YOURSELF AND YOUR OPINION.NOW YOU HAVE SOMEONE TO CLINGE UNTO FOR LIFE.TRY TO MEET HIM EVEN IF HE IS AT FAULT AND KEEP YOUR FEMALE PRIDE OR EGO.IN MARRIAGE YOU ONLY NEED WISDOM TO GET ALONG WITH YOUR SPOUSE NOTHING ELSE.MAYBE BOTH OF YOU UTTER LOADS OF DEHUMANISING VERBAL UTTERANCES TO EACH OTHER.TRY TO FIX IT BECAUSE NOBODY WILL.DONT TAKE THE IDEAS AND ADVICE OF PEOPLE TELLING YOU TO MOVE ON.OTHERWISE YOU MIGHT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE AGAIN IN YOUR NEXT RELATIONSHIP WHICH GOD FORBIDS YOU TO DO.SHOW MATURITY TO HIM AND HE WILL COME AROUND.MEN ARE EASY TO GIVE INTO A WOMAN.THAN WOMAN GIVING INTO A MAN.DONT LET A LITTLE QUARREL OR DISPUTE DISRUPT OR DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE.YOUR CHOICE ANYWAY..... Posted: at 16-02-2011 10:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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