These days, families, doctors, and even society insist that an intending couple do a number of tests, like bloodgroup, HIV and general compatibility tests before they walk down the aisle.
Usually, this is afer wedding plans have begun and a dating process has ended.
My question is "Should one wait till few weeks to the wedding before running a test as imporatant as HIV?" This is dangerous, I mean what if one partner comes out positive?
The people have probably been doing before now too (in most cases), so the other partner is possibly infected by this time. I think the right time to insist on a HIV test is at the beggining of a relationship.
If someone indicates interest in you and you accept to have him/her, the next step should be to go for a HIV test (even if you have done it before). You may even go together.
A right thinking person doesn't need a Pastor or Mother or Doctor to tell him to do this. This way, you save yourself the trauma, anxiety and anticipation of having to do a test so close to your wedding or even having to cancel wedding plans and explain to people that some thing happened along the line.
Besides, you are sure of yourselves evn during the whole courtship process.
So My Naijapals, get up and begin to drag your partners (or prospective partners) to the nearest heart to heart centre. Or what do you think?
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:12 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 8-06-2011 11:16 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 8-06-2011 11:12 AM
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.
Oh,Boy..but raw dey sweet like Nwannu udara Na
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:16 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.
Oh,Boy..but raw dey sweet like Nwannu udara Na
Who no like am raw kwanu, But are you ready to go for a test before lashing out the dragon raw ?? thats the point.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:22 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
I hear you... I hope you will not tell the guy, that you're not going and start arguing with him if he doesn't trust u because na ladies style be that once they hear about going for test.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:23 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 8-06-2011 11:24 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 8-06-2011 11:22 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 8-06-2011 11:16 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on 8-06-2011 11:12 AM
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.
Oh,Boy..but raw dey sweet like Nwannu udara Na
Who no like am raw kwanu, But are you ready to go for a test before lashing out the dragon raw ?? thats the point.
Yes naaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. I no my status naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. i no dey shake..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:24 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.
Oh,Boy..but raw dey sweet like Nwannu udara Na
Who no like am raw kwanu, But are you ready to go for a test before lashing out the dragon raw ?? thats the point.
Yes naaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. I no my status naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. i no dey shake..
Is good for on to know his/her qualification on that area.. adi ama ama, ndi Ama ala gwara ndi Ama enu
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:28 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 8-06-2011 11:29 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: teeco on 8-06-2011 11:27 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 8-06-2011 11:16 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on 8-06-2011 11:12 AM
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.
Oh,Boy..but raw dey sweet like Nwannu udara Na
chei!! hhehehe
u like rawwww?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:29 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby at 8-06-2011 11:30 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 8-06-2011 11:23 AM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 8-06-2011 11:18 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on 8-06-2011 11:13 AM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 8-06-2011 11:11 AM
every minuet, hour, day and month
Na food schedule
hehhehee in better mk u turn am to food schedule
i forget to add every seconds
I hear you... I hope you will not tell the guy, that you're not going and start arguing with him if he doesn't trust u because na ladies style be that once they hear about going for test.
na only babe wey no sabi herself naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:30 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby at 8-06-2011 11:31 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 8-06-2011 11:28 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 8-06-2011 11:24 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on 8-06-2011 11:22 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 8-06-2011 11:16 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on 8-06-2011 11:12 AM
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.
Oh,Boy..but raw dey sweet like Nwannu udara Na
Who no like am raw kwanu, But are you ready to go for a test before lashing out the dragon raw ?? thats the point.
Yes naaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. I no my status naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. i no dey shake..
Is good for on to know his/her qualification on that area.. adi ama ama, ndi Ama ala gwara ndi Ama enu
owu ezioku..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:31 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
I hear you... I hope you will not tell the guy, that you're not going and start arguing with him if he doesn't trust u because na ladies style be that once they hear about going for test.
na only babe wey no sabi herself naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
baby forget this story how else do want a lady to know her self