how do i recognize the devil in him before i say i do

how do i know i am in the wrong boat before its too late , i do i know that a man is a total A*#S before getting married , i mean men are A*#Ss but some are irredeemable unrepentant total A*#S, how long does it require to identify an A*#S and how can i recognize him before making the greatest mistake of saying i do, they r all angels when they want something

A cost-benefit analysis can be helpful in situations other than at the office. Sit down for a few minutes and write down the advantages of continuing to date the person you are with. Then list the disadvantages. When you compare the lists, you might determine that the reasons to stay together are more compelling than the reasons to break up. But if the opposite appears to be the case, then let logic be your guide and move on to someone else

As a general rule, voices inside you are there for a reason, and they ought to be listened to. Sometimes an inner voice may tell us that we’ve found our soul mate, or simply that we should continue to pursue a relationship until we discover how fulfilling it can be. But sometimes, something within us is whispering (or even screaming) that we’re dating the wrong person. If this is the case for you, then one of the worst things you can do is to ignore that voice. Give it free reign and let it direct you to the conclusion you may have already come to.

If truly Men are the highlighted words. Why should anyone worry about them not to think of settling down with them. I suggest anyone allergic of A*#Ss should stay off A*#Ss on time to avoid been involve with them not to even think of knowing or considering them. 

 

exactly bro