Actually i stay in benin b4 i n my family relocated to abj,i ve a boyfrnd wen i was in benin,but now ,we re now into distance relationship.he calls n tell me how much he loves me n stuff like dat.i luv him so much too,but at times i feel he is cheating on me.u guys know now,guys TIN no dey stay one place. i jst feel dat he might be going out with other girls ova dere.i find it so so difficult to date any other guy.i jst feel as if he has captured my hrt n locked it inside a chest or sumtin,he promised to marry me,which im not really sure of. dnt knw wat else to tink or do.pls shud i date sumone here n also date him as well.its almost 5mths n we hvnt seen our selves.
Posted: at 23-01-2009 08:48 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
diplomatik at 23-01-2009 10:16 PM (15 years ago) (f)
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u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 23-01-2009 10:16 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Actually i stay in benin b4 i n my family relocated to abj,i ve a boyfrnd wen i was in benin,but now ,we re now into distance relationship.he calls n tell me how much he loves me n stuff like dat.i luv him so much too,but at times i feel he is cheating on me.u guys know now,guys TIN no dey stay one place. i jst feel dat he might be going out with other girls ova dere.i find it so so difficult to date any other guy.i jst feel as if he has captured my hrt n locked it inside a chest or sumtin,he promised to marry me,which im not really sure of. dnt knw wat else to tink or do.pls shud i date sumone here n also date him as well.its almost 5mths n we hvnt seen our selves.
5monts is nutting is like you falling for another guy in abj n you seekin for away to dump your guy if you not interested any longer just let him know,with the way you sound tell me alot you inlove with someone else.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 23-01-2009 10:27 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Beautydiva at 24-01-2009 07:55 PM (15 years ago) (f)
It seems like u r feeling insecured n paranoid. If u know dat u can't withstand d pressure n challenges of long distance relationship, then call it quits so dat u don't waste your/his time. But if u want 2 continue with d relationshhip, u ve 2 device ways 2 make it work.
Posted: at 24-01-2009 07:55 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
chrissiebee at 24-01-2009 08:00 PM (15 years ago) (f)
I know how u feel, i dont blame u..i've been there and it turned out that i was actually right! but i didnt just decide, i connected with some of his close pals and cos they all adored me they didnt keep ish from me! i will advice u to be careful and interact more with his closest pals, they might just jabo for u wetin de sele!
<a href="http://tinypic.com" target="_blank"><img src="http://i41.tinypic.com/2ezmli0.jpg" border="0" alt="Image and video hosting by TinyPic">[/url]STILL A CERTIFIED V-SQUADER!! Take it or leave it! A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who
Posted: at 24-01-2009 08:00 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Actually i stay in benin b4 i n my family relocated to abj,i ve a boyfrnd wen i was in benin,but now ,we re now into distance relationship.he calls n tell me how much he loves me n stuff like dat.i luv him so much too,but at times i feel he is cheating on me.u guys know now,guys TIN no dey stay one place. i jst feel dat he might be going out with other girls ova dere.i find it so so difficult to date any other guy.i jst feel as if he has captured my hrt n locked it inside a chest or sumtin,he promised to marry me,which im not really sure of. dnt knw wat else to tink or do.pls shud i date sumone here n also date him as well.its almost 5mths n we hvnt seen our selves.
Ur getting paranoid. Ur paranoia is born of fear. Fear never produced any good in any situation. Watch and see, U'll probably be the one that ends up cheating on him.
Posted: at 24-01-2009 08:29 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
ceejay58 at 25-01-2009 04:54 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: prettyp on 23-01-2009 08:48 PM
Actually i stay in benin b4 i n my family relocated to abj,i ve a boyfrnd wen i was in benin,but now ,we re now into distance relationship.he calls n tell me how much he loves me n stuff like dat.i luv him so much too,but at times i feel he is cheating on me.u guys know now,guys TIN no dey stay one place. i jst feel dat he might be going out with other girls ova dere.i find it so so difficult to date any other guy.i jst feel as if he has captured my hrt n locked it inside a chest or sumtin,he promised to marry me,which im not really sure of. dnt knw wat else to tink or do.pls shud i date sumone here n also date him as well.its almost 5mths n we hvnt seen our selves.
shame on you!!! why did you decide to pitch ur tent with him when u know u cant trust him?.... we guys go dey do everything possible to see say the relationship work but you gurls go dey back stab us and still dey cry wolf. i bow for una ooooooooooo.
Posted: at 25-01-2009 04:54 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
ceejay58 at 25-01-2009 04:59 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: chrissiebee on 24-01-2009 08:00 PM
I know how u feel, i dont blame u..i've been there and it turned out that i was actually right! but i didnt just decide, i connected with some of his close pals and cos they all adored me they didnt keep ish from me! i will advice u to be careful and interact more with his closest pals, they might just jabo for u wetin de sele!
hear urself, how would ur relationship work when u prefer to listen to rumors rather than to go and find out with what's going on with ur love........ women women haba.
Posted: at 25-01-2009 04:59 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
chrissiebee at 25-01-2009 09:07 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ceejay58 on 25-01-2009 04:59 AM
Quote from: chrissiebee on 24-01-2009 08:00 PM
I know how u feel, i dont blame u..i've been there and it turned out that i was actually right! but i didnt just decide, i connected with some of his close pals and cos they all adored me they didnt keep ish from me! i will advice u to be careful and interact more with his closest pals, they might just jabo for u wetin de sele!
hear urself, how would ur relationship work when u prefer to listen to rumors rather than to go and find out with what's going on with ur love........ women women haba.
oh puhlease !!!!! did i say i was listening to rumors! His friends adored me and they revealed the truth to me and i asked him and he confirmed! if a guy's pal love his gf, u use the advantage to get to know ur man a lot better! it aint rumor!...mchwww, as if u guys ever tell the truth !
<a href="http://tinypic.com" target="_blank"><img src="http://i41.tinypic.com/2ezmli0.jpg" border="0" alt="Image and video hosting by TinyPic">[/url]STILL A CERTIFIED V-SQUADER!! Take it or leave it! A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who
Posted: at 25-01-2009 09:07 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
Actually i stay in benin b4 i n my family relocated to abj,i ve a boyfrnd wen i was in benin,but now ,we re now into distance relationship.he calls n tell me how much he loves me n stuff like dat.i luv him so much too,but at times i feel he is cheating on me.u guys know now,guys TIN no dey stay one place. i jst feel dat he might be going out with other girls ova dere.i find it so so difficult to date any other guy.i jst feel as if he has captured my hrt n locked it inside a chest or sumtin,he promised to marry me,which im not really sure of. dnt knw wat else to tink or do.pls shud i date sumone here n also date him as well.its almost 5mths n we hvnt seen our selves.
shame on you!!! why did you decide to pitch ur tent with him when u know u cant trust him?.... we guys go dey do everything possible to see say the relationship work but you gurls go dey back stab us and still dey cry wolf. i bow for una ooooooooooo.
Three Gbosah for U my guy! U yarn correct!
Posted: at 25-01-2009 01:33 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
vivian07 at 25-01-2009 01:41 PM (15 years ago) (f)
if u want to leave the guy,dont look for an excuse to do that.if u cant cope with lond distance r/s u back out.besides even if the guy is cheating on u,he still respects u and calls u.what else do u want the guy to do for u?
Posted: at 25-01-2009 01:41 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
if u want to leave the guy,dont look for an excuse to do that.if u cant cope with lond distance r/s u back out.besides even if the guy is cheating on u,he still respects u and calls u.what else do u want the guy to do for u?
My sister tell her make she hear... She don wan dey try find excuse take dash devil.
Posted: at 25-01-2009 01:57 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
vivian07 at 25-01-2009 03:47 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: onchedu on 25-01-2009 01:57 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on 25-01-2009 01:41 PM
if u want to leave the guy,dont look for an excuse to do that.if u cant cope with lond distance r/s u back out.besides even if the guy is cheating on u,he still respects u and calls u.what else do u want the guy to do for u?
My sister tell her make she hear... She don wan dey try find excuse take dash devil.
Quote from: onchedu on 25-01-2009 01:57 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on 25-01-2009 01:41 PM
if u want to leave the guy,dont look for an excuse to do that.if u cant cope with lond distance r/s u back out.besides even if the guy is cheating on u,he still respects u and calls u.what else do u want the guy to do for u?
My sister tell her make she hear... She don wan dey try find excuse take dash devil.
abi na devil dey dash her excuse? onyinye ekwensu.
Posted: at 25-01-2009 03:47 PM (15 years ago) | Hero