Your first ever Relationship was a terrible experience. Your significant other had taken advantage of your innocence and took away your sweet soft tenderness, and probably your Virginity. After a long while, you decided to move on, but despite all efforts to make your subsequent Relationships work, you always remember, "Once beaten, Twice shy". And with that, you realise you're not even putting half of what you had given in your Maiden Relationship. Now, every of your Patner complain of the same thing. Could It be that It's the blast from the past or Pre-cautionary motive not to get hurt again - either now or in the nearest future?
I've always lived by 3 principles:
1. Honour ur God, 2. Love ur Family and 3. Defend your Country
Posted: at 8-02-2012 09:38 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 8-02-2012 09:41 AM (12 years ago) (f)
it cant...
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 8-02-2012 09:41 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby at 8-02-2012 10:11 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: nwalutujide on 8-02-2012 10:03 AM
it can dear........if its true love
For me it cant affect my love life forever....cos i believe that....When you lose someone you love, you have lost the sense of purpose acquired by the relationship between them and yourself. You lose the purpose you felt when doing simple things to make them smile, and making yourself joyful in return. The cycle should continue endlessly, but as we know that could only occur in a perfect world, which this is not. Heartbreak happens, and it changes who we are for the better (in most cases) and so will it be for the rest of our lives and next...
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 8-02-2012 10:11 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Do u understand the word MAIDEN? especially wen ur Virginity is involved. It goes beyond one-night stand. If u had lost ur virginity probably wen u wia young It would have been a different story entirely, bt since you kept it till the very moment u met ur heart-beat. d thing det K-LEG ohhh
Posted: at 8-02-2012 10:39 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
The problem I think is not trying to love again wch I assume the topic is about, but having the confidence to trust the subsequent patners It's gonna be very difficult, but It's possible
Posted: at 8-02-2012 10:47 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
sophiebaby at 8-02-2012 10:49 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: MEND on 8-02-2012 10:47 AM
The problem I think is not trying to love again wch I assume the topic is about, but having the confidence to trust the subsequent patners It's gonna be very difficult, but It's possible
i answerd him..in respect to his subject
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 8-02-2012 10:49 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Bachelorette at 8-02-2012 11:07 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: mimibaby_5 on 8-02-2012 10:17 AM
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Heartbreak happens, and it changes who we are for the better
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thank u ex is supposed to be an example of what we shouldnt have in the future not what will prevent us from having a future
I totally agree with u. Love is not a decision. It's a feeling from the depth of the Heart. Once the Heart is Broken, It can only be amended and not replaced
I've always lived by 3 principles:
1. Honour ur God, 2. Love ur Family and 3. Defend your Country
Posted: at 8-02-2012 11:07 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 8-02-2012 11:10 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Bachelorette on 8-02-2012 11:07 AM
I totally agree with u. Love is not a decision. It's a feeling from the depth of the Heart. Once the Heart is Broken, It can only be amended and not replaced
The depression caused by heartbreak creates a barrier that can prevent us from feeling and experiencing life to the fullest, in all aspects. Symptoms vary by individual and range from withdrawal from society to physical sickness and pain. You lose a part of yourself when connections are lost, and its not far-fetched to say that you feel completely empty inside. There's an ache, a deep ache that erupts from the inside of our bodies longing for the past. The pain is real and there's no other way to describe how bad it really hurts than to name it heartbreak. Its a longing for the past and the pain of feeling completely empty and abandoned. It makes it hard to get up in the morning and to get through the day, but all wounds are inevitably healed through time, and thus you hope for the future to approach quicker.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 8-02-2012 11:10 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero