okay....going thru the comments...the poster apologized for the generalization on NIGERIAN WOMEN. But he actually pointed out some bitter truth. I am a Nigerian female and really, some Nigerian ladies are really not trying. Dressing half unclad, sleeping around, dating numerous guys for different purposes of which one of these purposes is usually money. The men are not saints themselves but that doesnt give you any reason as an individual to drop your morals and take to the world. If the man you are inlove with asks you for your unclad picture, you dont have to give in to it....i believe the choice is yours to make. You know what is right, stick to it. You don't have to follow the crowd, because FRIEND A has an expensive blackberry, FRIEND B has an 80,000 naira human hair, you will do everything in your power to get it, just to "BELONG" even if it means dancing half unclad in a music video, sleeping with a man, "after all, i am catching my fun" as most of them will say..It is indeed sad. Cut your coat according to your size. If you can't save up the money, then try a much cheaper alternative that still makes you look beautiful.
Sincerely speaking, to me, the percentage of irresponsible men is higher than that of irresponsible women, but then, it is Africa, where women are looked down upon, you can marry as many as you want, sounds more like goods in the market to me. We have a high rate of Domestic violence on women in this part of the world compared to Europe and America. I believe both sexes if guilty of these deeds, should work on themselves and make a positive change. We are all the future of tomorrow. Everyone says, "we want a better Nigeria", it starts from our individual lives. Not forgetting, that we are all parents of the next generation...lets us all try to live up and aright.
If to say I near u, I for lick ur nose for this statement. So very on point. You can't drop ur morals cos it's the norm now.
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