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61  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: HELP!! My Fiance Realized Am an OSU (Outcast) & Has Refused To marry Me on: 13-03-2013 04:33 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-03-2013 04:26 PM
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Naa the girl kwanu ;cos even sophie love to drink milk from under. Wink Wink Wink Wink Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
62  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: HELP!! My Fiance Realized Am an OSU (Outcast) & Has Refused To marry Me on: 13-03-2013 11:35 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-03-2013 10:56 AM
How can u live and have s3x with a lady for five yrs.. and refuse to marry her cos shes an osu... damn.. thats mean na

Sophie I hate it so very much when you girls go on like this, the dude kidnap her, was she held at gun point, why will it take her 5 yrs living together b4 they'll decide to get married and since you don't know what Osu Cast system is, I'll tell. In about 300 Ad or there about pple had slaves dedicated to idols and they are refereed to as Osu or outcast. An Osu cannot marry a son or daughter of the soil. This practice is passed on from generation to generation and it's a practice I sincerely think can be abolished in Igbo land. Though some go against all odds and marry but you and your entire generation down the line will be ostracized. What it means is that your children will not marry a son or daughter of the soil.
63  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: HELP!! My Fiance Realized Am an OSU (Outcast) & Has Refused To marry Me on: 13-03-2013 11:16 AM
A girl I know dated a guy for 15 good years. This dude an Ibo guy paid her school fees, took care of all her needs financially and she finally lands her fellow Yoruba guy only for her to tell the dude she will not marry him. At this point the guy's family had started the marriage proceedings. My take on this matter is both are guilty, dating is a risk and mocking marriage by living together is even a greater risk. WHAT YOU SEE IS WHAT YOU GET. No one can abolish Osu cast system in Igbo land, and every Igbo person knows this. 
64  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ROMANCE: Why Must Women Always "Submit" To Their Husband? on: 8-03-2013 07:30 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on  8-03-2013 04:40 PM
Marriage is not always a sign of love, many times the man will still cheat, somtimes
Beat the wife, and she will stay bcos she is submissive.
Lots of men still hav to learn how to show love and care for a woman, words dont
Have a meaning if u cant back them up by action.
Most men expect their wives to be submissive no matter the
Kind of attitude he gives the woman.

True that so many may marry for so many reasons. Now check this I have an IT firm and a friend wants us to partner, he brought his ideas to the table and I in turn bought it hook and sinker but here's the deal, am still the CEO and he is a director 'cos there just has to be a leader. That does not mean I totally own the Firm but the majority of shares belongs to me. Now lets take it back to homestead, the bible says two shall become one but someone just has to lead. I don't subscribe to battery or domestic violence but submission is key in marriage and I asked u what u mean by "Can a man be submissive to a woman?" most men submit to their wives in so many ways without knowing it. In a not shell submission is honoring your husband (RESPECT). Christ first loved the church, so when the bible says love your wife it meant you should love her first and I believe in a normal setting you did and that's why you married her.  
65  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ROMANCE: Why Must Women Always "Submit" To Their Husband? on: 8-03-2013 01:20 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on  8-03-2013 08:20 AM
Can a man be submissive to a woman?


In what sense naa. I just don't get it. Man and woman don't share equal right in the house just as Christ is the HEAD OF THE CHURCH so is MAN THE HEAD IN THE FAMILY. the man and woman sharing equal rights is the reason most of our ladies are still single. In my local church there is this lady that had about 10 suitors, this men went to the pastor for her but in the same church you have sisters that don't even have a single suitor.
66  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ROMANCE: Why Must Women Always "Submit" To Their Husband? on: 8-03-2013 01:12 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on  8-03-2013 08:24 AM
Yes, love ur wife as Christ loved his church, but
most men demand submission, they dnt deserve it

If I don't love you, don't think I would've married u in the first instance but most women are so pretentious, just for them to get in and eventually turn to tiger. Like someone said submission is earned, it's not true 'cos I can't find that in the bible. It says WIFE SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSBAND it didn't say MAN LOVE YOUR WIFE FIRST but here is the clincher the man first loved the woman and that is why they got  married in the first instance.
67  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ROMANCE: Why Must Women Always "Submit" To Their Husband? on: 8-03-2013 12:59 PM
Quote from: naturalqueen on  8-03-2013 10:44 AM
Women have been biblically instructed to be submissive. Doing this is obeying God. So it is not weakness.
The same bible also told men to love their wife. You see, submission (on the part of the woman) & Love (on the part of the man) go hand in hand.
When this is done, u find out that the two live as a team in the marriage.
A man who loves his wife cannot abuse her or take advantage of her ability to submit. A woman who truly loves her husband will naturally respect and submit to him. When u see a woman talking to her husband anyhow, then look deeply, she is not totally in love with him. She is holding something back.
This is why, when u see a woman who looks hard when dealing with people, and u look beside her and see how quiet and composed she is in the company of her husband, u wonder why? It is because of love. Sometimes you see a smallish man controlling a giant woman who acts like Margaret Thatcher. Love softens our heart towards who we love.

I score you 10/10. You are a mother and a wife, it'll take a great mind to understand this. Well spoken.
68  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ROMANCE: Why Must Women Always "Submit" To Their Husband? on: 7-03-2013 11:09 PM
Quote from: paulohking on  7-03-2013 11:01 PM
Mine is submissive but too obstinate Angry

My brother women are complicated, sometimes u just let them be especially when they start throwing tantrums.
69  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ROMANCE: Why Must Women Always "Submit" To Their Husband? on: 7-03-2013 11:06 PM
Love my wife I must but a woman that gets her way with her man must find a way of getting him do her wish, some use sex as a tool, for some it's food while for the virtuous woman it's submission. No real man will allow a woman Lord it over him 'cos men are natural leaders. God made it so from the beginning n watch homes that women are in charge. Not saying a woman should be treated as a doormat, sometime as couples issues has to be brought to the table n sometimes a vote has to decide a decision. The man in some cases has to put his foot down n take a decision. There also comes a time when a man should say "honey what do u think we do". EVERYONE should have a sense of belonging, even the children has to take decisions too but there comes a time u decide for them. In a nut shell submission is a must for every woman.
70  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ROMANCE: Why Must Women Always "Submit" To Their Husband? on: 7-03-2013 10:40 PM
The problem with some of us sometimes is that we read the bible upside down. The bible says "Woman submit to your husband" and to the man it say " Love your wife as Christ loved his church". My deaconess stood up in church at a particular service during a  Q&A session and said "once you sign the dotted lines it gives you an equal right in your home". Marriage is legal but let's don't forget it's spiritual and scriptural angle too. If as a woman you crave for a man's LOVE then it's a must that u must be submissive. Sarah called Abraham Lord.
71  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How To Find A Man For A Relationship: Ten Simple Tips on: 6-03-2013 09:34 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  6-03-2013 09:18 AM
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin come make i show u how air (better Breeze) go take enter if i close am..

Na lie joor. If u no do open n close, how air wan take enter naa. I BE PIKIN, dog wey eat my pupu don kpai since ooooooooo. Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue buh I go like make u show me how u go take perform the magic. Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
72  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How To Find A Man For A Relationship: Ten Simple Tips on: 6-03-2013 09:07 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  5-03-2013 05:31 PM
yeah true.. open ur minds and ur eyez .... not ur legs ooooooooooooooooooooo

If you close your legs, tell me Sophie how will air enter naa. To avoid bumming things u had better open ur legs oooooo.
73  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: [By FIRE By FORCE!] "You Must Get A Degree" – Davido’s Father Insists on: 27-02-2013 09:39 PM
Quote from: ezchusa on 27-02-2013 10:58 AM
University or no university, a lunatic is a lunatic. Ajanni no go school? Yet he no get sense

Hahahahahahahahaha! LMAO.  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
74  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Is It Hard To Date a Woman In her Late 20s, Early 30s OR as a Single Mother? on: 26-02-2013 08:52 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 25-02-2013 04:31 PM
It’s all about the law of averages as you get older as a man(proportionately fewer women your age are single)....When you reach your late thirties, it’s not so much that dating a younger woman becomes more attractive, it’s just harder not to date them.  But dating a woman in her twenties when you’re approaching 40 is also less demanding; you’re not faced with the same requirements to make a decision about your future. When your new girlfriend is 36, she expects you’re thinking about the next few years, not just the next few dates.

Naturally dating is hard, but people see it as an easing going thing and fun tho..its not hard , all i'll advice u for that of a single parent is... not take her for granted ,or use her past against her.

Impressing a younger date is easier

FACT is.. men really are complicated


so are women also Sophie, in actual fact more complicated than men.
75  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Is It Hard To Date a Woman In her Late 20s, Early 30s OR as a Single Mother? on: 26-02-2013 08:50 AM
Girls in their 20s are more fun to be with though, easy to love and ready to explore new grounds. Well in terms of body, they have the most amazing body and they are not in anyway saggy or all stretched marks but I really don't think they are the best when it comes to settling for a wife cos their immaturity comes to play most times and u have to be  on top of your game to deal with that.
76  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: YAWA! denrele accused of killing Goldie,police might go after him!! on: 22-02-2013 06:31 PM
This, that blablabla! if you have facts why don't you be out with it. Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
77  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: WTF: [Photo Inside] Davido Reveals His "Best Pillow Ever" On Twitter on: 19-02-2013 11:14 AM
Better slow down cause u are about to crash dummy ! Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
78  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: BREAKING NEWS!!! [PHOTOS] Car Falls Off 3rd Mainland Bridge Into Lagoon on: 26-01-2013 02:49 PM
Lord have mercy on your children.
79  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Do You Agree?? Tattoos And Plastic Surgery Are Not Sins - Chris Okotie on: 15-01-2013 02:34 PM
It sickens me when so called men of begin to speak like this, maybe he didn't read LEVITICUS 19:28. the bible is totally against TATTOO. Please be warned this is end time and be very sensitive to END TIME PASTORS.
80  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: ''MayD wanted to be psquare that's why we kicked him out'' - Jude Okoye on: 12-01-2013 04:05 AM
That's why I don't like that boy called May D, any which ways I wish him luck but i truly hate it when pple act the way did.
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