never try to calm her immediatelly,then later say love i never meant to hurt u but i am sorry

firstly,if u want correct girl u need to make urself correct bobo too and what most ladies want is within ur reach but not all men can make the sacrifice,only if u can pay the price, then i can assure u of the result.Do the following .
    1always find time to call or visit the lady daily at least to say "hi, i care"
    2 find out areas of interest of that particular lady and fill the facum
    3 ask her out to a place u are sure will be conducive for both of u to feel the intimacy