Does the following scenario sound familiar?
You see a girl you find attractive, and you
walk up to her and get a conversation started.
Things seem to be going great. She's
responding well to you, but then, all
of a sudden, something happens. . .
You run out of stuff to say!
And the awkward pause ensues. And before you
know it, the girl excuses herself and moves on.
Let me tell you - this type of thing happens
ALL THE TIME.
And it typically happens because most guys
just don't know how to talk to girls! They
may have their first couple of lines ready
to go to get the conversation started, but
after that, they are just "winging it. "
But all too often, when it gets to the point
where they have to talk to the girl, and they
don't have anything already thought out, their
brain STALLS, and the conversation dies a
slow and painful death.
Not too many people realize that there is
an art to conversation. Getting it started
is one thing, but keeping it going is quite
another all together.
If you have ever been in a situation where
your conversation with a girl has gone south
before you could get her phone number, you
know what I am talking about.
So how can you keep the conversation going
strong from the beginning? The answer to
this is simpler than you might think.
First of all, understand that questions are
the building blocks of conversations. Every
question you ask a girl leads to a new and
exciting part of the interaction.
The problem is that most guys ask the WRONG
questions.
They ask your typical "boring" questions like
"what's your name?" "where do you live?" "what
do you do for work?" Blah, blah, blah.
Now, these aren't bad questions - after all,
you'll need this information at some point - but
you can't rely on questions like these to keep
an initial conversation healthy!
Instead, you have to ask fun, interesting
questions that will actually engage the girl,
and make her want to keep talking to you.
This can lead to conversations about her pets,
what kind of pets she'd want, etc.
That isn't to say you should never talk about
yourself, but when you keep the conversation
focused on her, she will get the feeling that
you're actually INTERESTED in her.
And as we all know - girls LOVE to talk
about themselves.
So when you ask the right questions, and keep
the conversation focused her - who she is and
what she likes and dislikes - you can
keep any conversation moving in the right
direction.
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